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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 41 year old woman and I just made 5 years on my secound marriage with my husband. This is also his secound marriage. And I'm so confused and Guilty that I'm in love with another man. And I talk on the phone to other men that have been in my life for over 20years.My Husband is a very good man but he is also very distant. He works a lot and he is very limited on the afection side. i have yo ask a few times for us to spend time togeather. the relationship is a long distant one and I see him maybe once or twice a year but we talk on the phone maybe two or three times a week.I love my husband he is a good man but I'm not totaly fufilled.I do not want to leave him for this other guy at all!! I just feel so alone and at times so guilty that I need to talk to someone. I could not talk to my friends about this they think my Marriage is so great and they feel I should be blessed with this good man. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (17 February 2009):
 It's easier to fix a marriage than it is to go out of the marriage and end up creating an additional issue.
As long as your married you should not be messing around. If you choose to, it's then your husband's right to decide if he should stay in the marriage or not. That's not only fair, but it's right. What I believe is, if you can't tell your spouse what you're up to, you probably shouldn't be doing it.
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