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writes:I met a girl online when she was dating another guy, we talked for months and had undeniable chemistry. We met 5 months after we first started talking, it was an unbelievable night, culminating in our sleeping together. At the time she had not officially closed things off with the ex, but she had already slept with another guy, which she claims was just to hurt this ex. Two things that transpired bother me, the first night we were together, she said she loved me, and i love her, i knew it, having had many different relationships, this was just completely different. First, we have been together ever since, which is now 5 months since meeting, I found out a few weeks ago that she had told the second guy she slept with "all i could do was thinking about calling you and telling you i love you etc.." The thing is this is three days before we met. This bothers me a lot, she claims she was confused, and going through a lot but that i changed all of that.Second, a week and a half after we had met and decided we would make a go her ex returned and she was going to officially end it with him. I called her multiple times, she didn't answer and I also fired her multiple txts. She called me later told me it had all gone fine, was laughing at his expense etc. A month later she confessed to me. That night she said that he had ended up back inside her, that they had been having a tickle fight and one thing led to another and that had happened. The claim is that she had only moved on him twice and then they mutually stopped, I just have a hard time believing this. What do you think has happened and how should I really feel about both these occurrences?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): i think she is playing you. she obv isnt ready to settle down and is/was enjoying having 3 guys on the go.
i dont think she knows what she wants. sit her down and ask her how she truly feels.
if i was you i would take time out to think. she has cheated on you and if it was me i would feel angry and upset. but if you love her and you can forgive her then try talk to her and see how she feels. but the question is can ou trust her? no relationship can last without trust.
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