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writes:A couple of months ago I spent a fabulous night with a guy that I met through a mutual friend. I have not been able to put him out of my mind since.I didn’t expect to keep in contact with him however, we have been chatting online ever since. Mostly it is just general chit chat but sometimes we talk about the night we spent together. He lives many miles away from where I live (about 8 hours travelling) and we have both agreed that this is a shame as it would be nice if it could happen again.I really want to see him again but I don’t have the confidence to ask him to meet up. I fear he’ll say the distance is too far and that bringing it up could adversely affect our relationship. I would very much like him to invite me to visit him, but he hasn’t done so and as it has been two months it seems unlikely that he will. My question is do you think he is content to just maintain an online friendship or is the fact that he is still contacting me an indication that he feels the same way? And if so, how can I encourage him to ask me to meet up?
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reader, llcooljayce  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 You should definately bring up seeing eachother agai. Dont put a specific time on it, just mention "we should both meet in the middle somewhere, sometime...etc"
If he is still contacting you, and conversations of the night you spent together still come up, he is not just wanting to be your bud :)
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