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writes: If you counted condoms one time at your b/f's place AND was pretty damn sure you counted right and said 9 to yourself and then another time count them and you are pretty damn sure one was missing..would you automatically assume your b.f was cheating? My thoughts are a person would more than likely buy a separate set of condoms for the mistress if he is smart enough..what do you think??
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reader, x..HelpfulWun..x  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 You dont need to bother getting yourself wound up cos in the end you'll find his brother or mate borrowed one. anyway you might be making your self think there was 9 but acutally there was 8. dont stress!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): No, not necessarily can you assume that he's cheating. If you have other reasons..such as: unloving, uncaring behaviours, loss of respect, suspicious phone calls, emails or texts, unexplained times he's gone missing, not telling you where he was or is going, lipstick on his collar, blah, blah...then you'd have something to worry about. You could always ask him where the missing condom went. But then he may let you know that your behaviours are overly-paranoid. Maybe one is in his wallet or like CD suggests, he loaned one to a friend or it fell behind the dresser/nightstand-or even maybe you even counted wrong. You may never find out what happened to this missing condom. But you cannot assume he cheating, hun or this type of thinking will wear on your self value. You have to decide how big of an issue you want to make of this. But I have to ask that if you are keeping a running inventory of his condoms, then plainly you have trust issues and that is not healthy in a loving, good relationship. Let this go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): If you hav to count ur BF's condoms u clearly dont trust him but thats a seperate issue u mite want to think about.
You could always say something like "hmmm...i could have sworn we had more of these" and see what he says.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Hi there, well, its pretty flimsy evidence but if you're worried why not ask him in a casual way and see what he says. if everything is fine in your relationship otherwise then I wouldnt be too concerned about this.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Yeah. You know what he's a bloke. Maybe he was messing about with one for fun or gave one to a brother or best friend. I really wouldn't read anything into it.
CD
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