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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend cheated on me in past but now we are back together. Whats bothering me is that he continues to tell white lies ALL the time - like if i say are you still at work he'll say yes but then at end conversation he'll say no he's at home. Or he'll ring me after a nite out say he can't get taxi, but then say no i'm home. He finds it funny. I don't know where i stand with him - i never know whether to believe him about anything. I've told him this immature talk needs to stop but it continues. - is he a compulsive liar, what can i do to make him realise that this silly talk can't continue and that i can't take it any longer?Thankyou.
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reader, Paula4u +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Perhaps he is insecure and likes to keep you on your toes, either way its an unhealty longterm outlook. Its also his way of controlling aspects of life, so ease down and follow your own common sense. Liars and Cheats always get caught stay true to yourself.
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reader, SweetSixteen +, writes (23 January 2007):
 it sounds like this guy is immature, he gets cheap laughs from lying to you. he ain't worth your time and he needs to grow up before anyone can put up with him.
remember immaturity is never really a good point about a man
Hope i helped SweetSixteen!
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (21 January 2007):
 If this guy is a compulsive liar, it is part of his personality and there is nothing you can do to change that.
Best thing to do is to forget about him and get an honest guy who deserves to be loved.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, they are lonely swimming waiting for someone special to love them and there are these guys making no effort waisting time.
You need to move on and find one of these guys.
Good luck
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reader, dancer +, writes (21 January 2007):
leapods dont change thier spots hunny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): In general as a rule I trust people, and believe what they say. If they break that trust, I can't ever trust them again.
If you can't trust someone you should'nt be with them, and you have all the evidence of why you cannot trust him, because hes cheated on you before. So If he can lie about something that big, then he has no problem lying about anything else.
You need to find someone you can trust, and then you will wonder, why you ever got back with this guy after he cheated on you !
N.B. never think you can change someone, if he's not what you want, theres a hell of a good chance there is someone out there who is !
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