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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How come he can't find 5 minutes for me? please help, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - hey everyone. i'm right now in a disturbing relationship. my bf is older than me, he is very sweet, intelligent, and he loves me a lot. we have been together for one year. in beginning he was not too good but was not too bad either. he texted m...

I feel like I ruined a good relationship between my family and boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - hi, well i'm in this great mess. THe thing is I tend to fight and argue a lot with my family, so most of the time I'M angry with them and my dad used to allways talk shit and say really mean yhings about my boyfriend. SO yeah i ended up saying and ...

What is appropriate? From the moment I was introduced to this woman, she has been rude and condescending to me. Do I stay home or demand he end the friendship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Very early in our relationship I was introduced to a female friend/colleague of his. This woman was the partner of one of his close friends, he knew them as a couple for almost 20 years. The ...

He doesn't seem to understand why I would be upset that he wants to hang out with a sexy young flight attendant and her friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend met a sexy young flight attendant at a bar last year. She lives in another city and is 30 years his junior. He says he wants to hang out with her and her friend this weekend because he wants to try to set up one of his buddies (also 30 ...

Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead? A coworker flirted with me via email and in person for a few months. He stared at me all the time, emailed me but in some ways was reserved. I thought he was shy. He was actually flirting...

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

He told me he's not thinking of marriage yet! Am I wrong to be disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi im with a ldr now with my boyfriend and we been 3 years knew each other via skype and call. And always visiting me here every year, despite of the distance he always make effort to see me. He lives in Slovakia and i lived in Singapore and im ...

My boyfriend is deleting messages on his phone, am I just being insecure or should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - i recently caught my boyfriend of a year and 8 months texting 4 other girls and he deleted all of the messages between them but i searched words on his spotlight search and the messages came up. we broke up for about two weeks and i started back ...

My fiance's ex is getting out of jail and he once told me he'd never love me as much as he loves her, am I going to get kicked to the curb when she's back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early ...

How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how...

This girl seems a bit too interested in my fiance so after she hung up on me repeatedly I told my fiance he couldnt drive 5 hours to pick her up from the rodeo. Did I over-react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have been living together with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we are engaged, he's very naive and always try to cheer people up if they look upset especially his female friends.. One of them is his step cousin, his step Dad brother's wife niece ...

Why is my ex still trying to hurt me? He is bringing a girl into my work and my church.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Okay so my ex broke up with me. He knows my work schedule and where I work so he brings another girl to my job I work in a make up store most guys don't go in they usually go shopping or wait outside. I was off that day he brought a girl but I ...

It upsets me that my son won't speak to me. Should my parents be offering him special treats, even though he disrespects me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - I've fallen out with my son, about 6 months ago. I'm perfectly willing to discuss whatever's bothering him, and try and resolve it. He's 20 ,and a very strong character. He simply won't speak to me. He sees my parents about once a week, and I...

Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue? My bf and I have been together for 3 years most of the time our relationship is brilliant, but some issues keep coming up and we don't seem to be able to resolve them. When we argue (which ...

Had the second date and I really like her, but she's not responded to my texts for a week!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been on two dates with a wonderful woman and over the course of these dates I have found out that she is perfect for me in every way. The problem is that even though the dates were successful it seems that I'm n...

Am I being unfair by not wanting to discuss her ex's? Or is she in the wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Hello there people I am engaged to a beautiful, smart and intelligent girl. Everything is great between us. The thing is, I haven't been in any serious relationships prior to this one although she has been in two very serious relationships, u...

My ex has jumped straight into a new relationship and she wants me to leave her alone, but I want her back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - So my ex girlfriend/the mother of my child of 5years broke up with me and is involved in a rebound relationship. I really want her back but don't know what to do, I've tried expressing my feelings but that seems to push her further away and closer ...

My boyfriend of 2 years still doesn't want me to meet his friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi!! Please help me, I can't understand this, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, my issue is that he doesn't want me to meet most of his friends. (they are all male and all of them are students just like us, no drugs...

My boyfriend tells other women he's single when he's not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I don't know where to start, other than to say simply -- I'm conflicted. I have been with the same person for four and a half years, since I was 17 and he was 18. I was his first serious relationship, and we were each other's first loves. But he h...

My long distance boyfriend has been cool with me lately

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3998 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Am in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend and i are best of friends, but this weekend (ie this last one) he travelled for a party, and i wasnt able to communicate well with him @ all. he sent a txt of his arrival to where the party is holdi...