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She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

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Question - (21 May 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2013)
A male Namibia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she don't want the guy anymore but she still have his photos what does that mean i really still love her i am confuse please help me, we have three year old boy.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (22 May 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony aunt"The girl" is a tramp. Don't worry about her.

Be a good Father to your son (the one you spawned with the tramp)......

That's the best - and most complete - advice I can offer...

Good luck...

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (21 May 2013):

What it may mean is that HE doesn't want HER, not the other way around.

Don't think about staying with her unless the two of you go to counseling. She had a second relationship- this was no one time mistake and she knew exactly what she was doing. By not addressing the problem it'll happen again.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013):

First get a paternity test on your child with her. It costs as little as $30. You might be in for another unpleasant surprise.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013):

She saving the pictures for the child to know something about his/her father. Nothing is more disorienting and confusing to a child than an absent parent. They eventually become old enough to wonder who they are and where they come from. If there is a missing parent, they will want to know what they looked like and what the type of person they were.

This is a decent and unselfish thing to do.

She may have come to the decision that she will cut all other ties, and may not want him in the child's life otherwise. He may want nothing to do with his child.

However; that doesn't mean the child should be denied all evidence of his/her biological father. Remember, she has two children with different fathers?

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