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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I felt sad by her choice,Am I being silly leaving her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I asked my girlfriend does she prefer sex with me or masturbation and she said different. I tried to ask in what way but she couldn't say. That's made me feel quite bad and I've tried to past it tried to get past it but now don't think I want to ...

Things have got out of control, One minute it's good and then Boom he deleted me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - hello! I’m in a very difficult situation. Let me start from the bringing. My cousin's friend told my cousin he liked me, but I currently had a boyfriend so he didn’t pursue it, after me and my bf broke up, I got his number and we started texting,...

Should be try to work it out? He is hopeless with money

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hi I need help as I don’t know what to do. I have been with my partner for 10 years we have four kids together but I can’t trust him. When we first got together he used to stay out all night. This stopped and a couple of years later I found text...

I'm cheating on my girlfriend with a girl I'm infatuated with. I want them both!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I have been with my gf for 3 years. We started dating shortly after I ended my only other relationship, which had lasted 9 years, partly so that I could experience being single for the first time in my life. I wasn't looking for a relationship at ...

How do I give him space when he's the only one I want to be talking to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. Everything was going great on Friday but a few days later he started acting funny. Like not texting good morning like he used to every single day or not calling at night like e usually ...

Have the wife and kids, but still dreaming about the chance I never took with my soul mate.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I have been dealing with confusion and pain for about a year and a half now. I am at a point that I need to make a decision to leave my wife or continue to try to be in love with her. I am 35 and have been married for the last 10 years with tw...

Is he being mean because he's hurt and wants attention? How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, Really in need of some advice on this one. I've been seeing this guy, for a while now, and how we started seeing eachother wasn't very good, i cheated on my boyfriend of the time with him, i know thats terrible, and trust me i felt s...

How do I get over my affair with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I really need some help and dont know where else to go. My ex was sent to prison for a while over 5 years ago, we split a few months of him being inside. I found help online to help me understand what he was going through in there, there was ...

If he can get amazing looking girls, then what is he doing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months We were having a conversation about exs - when he was describing one he said some features and I go so she was a full hot girl? Then he goes I would t describe her as hot, she was cute. Then I g...

Has he lost the hots for me? How can I bring back that spark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for a couple years. We used to have sex once or twice a day, but over the last month, he's wanted to have sex a couple times a week, tops. He's not nearly as affectionate with me either. Otherwise, our relationship ...

He likes big butts and he can not lie... why does he look if he's got me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - my bf is 10 yrs older and we have a good relationship. BUT he has a habit of looking at big butts of colored/teen women on the internet. So if hes happy why is he doing this? is it because im old and white? i feel as if im not good enough. ...

My boyfriend impregnanted another girl, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I am a young lady aged 20 and have been dating my first boyfriend since July 2011. We were so happy but just like any other couple we also had our share of ups and downs of which mostly were about his unfaithfulness, i would see texts messages from ...

How can I keep my low self esteem from ruining my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I always have low self esteem. When I look around, most of the guys that I like or admire have girlfriends that I can never live up to. Some of the girls are air stewardess, some are even models. I am recently single and after a long struggle...

Am I being selfish or am I right about breaking up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I met this woman with four children when she was still married and we emailed each other for a month before we finally met. On our first date she took me back home and after a short conversation she basically offered her body. Somehow I turned down ...

Where do the single women in their 30s hang out? I've not dated for 2years. How do I maximise my chances of success with women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - So, been single for 3 years after a 9-yr LTR. Am now 38. And I have not been on a date in 2 years. I tried online dating for 18 months and got 2 dates out of it. Am a member of many clubs and have many hobbies. Meeting people is not an...

I have never wishes to be unfaithful to her. But I think I have to leave as she's breaking my heart. I need your advice please, on what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I love my wife but I think I need to make a break as I'm worried that the way I feel could be damaging for both of us. For the past few years she has rejected me so often for sex that I stop making any moves towards her. I like to think I'm rom...

I like this man but am unsure about how to approach him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I would like to direct this question to the guys even though ladies opinions are welcome too. I have become very attracted to a japanese man who works at the embassy in my country. I met him when I started applying for graduate school in Japan and ...

My Gf claims she had relations with a woman and guy just watched. How can I tell if she is telling the truth about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - My GF told me she was intimate with another woman when we were first dating casually. She said it was set up by a guy friend she met online and casually dated, but was never interested in. The other woman was also a friend of this guy and met him ...

I pushed him away and now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I'm very confused and maybe someone can help me. Okay, so let me kind of summarize my relationship with my ex. We'll call him Nick. So, Nick and I were together for about 5 months. I love this guy, and I've never been more confused in my l...