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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He blatantly stares at other women in front of me. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - We've been around and around this issue of his staring. It's blatant, it's bad and I'm getting tired of it. We took a mini-vacation together. Just the other day he looked at the bum of a young woman as she turned to the cash register at a ga...

Video chatted for a few months. Then he claims I got weird? Should I be patient, or is something else going on here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - He found me online this June. We haven't met in real life. For the past 3 months, we video chatted with each other almost everyday.(Just chat.) Most of the time he initiated the conversation. He's divorced for 2 years and is looking for a se...

Lack of support and TLC - What the kind of behavior is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone. I apologize for the lengthy post. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Relationship is up and down, he does really stupid and hurtful things sometimes, and all the time I just give him chance, after chance, after ...

Am I stuck? Still in love with him, but not happy with him. What to do about my long term Bf ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been with each other since I was 16 and he was 17. We are now 20 and 21. Our whole relationship has been long distance. We've been flying back and forth to make things work. Since he has a fulltime job I hvae done most o...

My man caught me hugging another man. Does anyone think my man will forgive me and come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years with my man. The other night we were having a couple drinks and he went to bed and his friend came over. As i was talking with his friend he got all touchy feely and then got caught hugging up on me by ...

I don't like his behaviour with his close female friends, is this normal or is he in the wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - hi i am in a relationship with a guy for past 6 months. he is very sweet and understanding and loves me a lot. the problem is the way he talks with his 2 3 female friends (one of them is his ex but now friends with her).they call each other with ...

Married man left his wife for me, but then gave it another go with her without telling me! Was I used?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - I became friendly with a married man i met on holiday, we started texting when we got back and ended up teting all day and speaking on the phone when we could. He said he has always been unhappy in his marriage and that he never was sure about ...

Rejected during exclusive conversation? No hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for six weeks. We were hanging out every single day for a month. He took me on dates, etc. We slept together one month in and then we had a fight and it's been weird ever since. Tonight I asked him where we stood and he s...

Why has he stopped "liking" and commenting on my FB? Does he like me a bit? or am I reading too much into it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - So last semester "X" knew me through my friend but we never hang out. Over the summer he would "like" and comment on my Face Book a lot AND I would comment back. It must have been quite frequent because my friend and my Ex bf noticed him. My Ex ...

Why do I ask questions knowing I will get hurt? Especially as she didn't cheat on me, it's all about before we met..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

5 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for one year. She is 28 years old and she had an affair with a married man when she was still married few years back. Her then husband was a womanizer and that's when she got involved with this sweet talking ...

I cheated on my husband with his best friend (out of revenge for my husband cheating on me) and had a baby which my husband thinks is his. Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - I had an affair 2 years ago with my husbands best friend who is also married and got pregnant. I had the affair out of revenge for him cheating on me. Not that its an excuse I know it was still wrong. I know its his baby cause my husband had a ...

Our current "stressful living situation " is driving my B/f crazy and he doesn't even want to touch me, let alone have sex. I feel attention deprived!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for about 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship i was a little unsure if i liked him but was encouraged by friends and family to give it a try. He put in lots of effort in the beginning. We didnt ...

Is there any way to trust my boyfriend again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - Is there any way to trust my boyfriend again? After a gut feeling that something wasn't right, I have found on two separate occasions that he has been messaging other girls inappropriately. the messages were SO hurtful. I confronted him and he wants ...

It was so much better when study and boyfriend were separated! Now I spend all my study time with him and my weekends alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and everything was absolutely perfect until recently. We used to study in different places. Two or three times a week I would go see him after college to spend time together, to talk about fun thin...

My twin brother hates me and has said that he hates that there's one more person with his face

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (?) - Well, I'm guy and I'm 25 years old. My problem is not very common, I guess. My own brother hates me and I don't understand why. We're identical twins, we're really like two drops of water. I know it should be that twins are best friends each to ...

The lack of sex and affection in our relationship is driving me mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

5 October 2012 (M) - Hi people, thanks for your time, I am a 24 year old man in a relationship of 4 years with my 22 year old girlfriend. We've been living together for the past 2 years and have just moved into our new place. For the past year and a half my girlfriend ...

He's in love with me and his ex-girlfriend. Is it understandable that I am not feeling as comfortable as before? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4228 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have, what we and everyone else call the perfect relationship. Both of our last two relationships were not good. We were always the calm, rational one being yelled at, griped at, fought with, argued with, exploded on etc. O...