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writes:HiI'm currently in a long term relationship,over 5yrs,problem is i often take things that are said the wrong way or so i'm told i do and sometimes i do tend to get annoyed and lash out verbally.then when iv'e settled down i apologize and i'm ok,trouble is my man is now saying to me, Look i keep forgiving you and i don't really know why i keep coming back for more,as this has happened on many occasions,i feel like i have to walk on egg shells around you,if you do it again i will hit delete,I don't know why this keeps happening to me and i'm scared now that if it happens again he will dump me.most times we get along fine.but when i feel hurt by things i tend to lash out at the one i love the most. What is wrong with me and why am i sabotaging a good thing????? Reply to this Question
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reader, aebniala  +, writes (1 September 2011):
Bad news , you are picking up on somebody else energy. That is not yours. when that happen you press delete to trash that energy aside. It is called NLP. You visualise wite lite around you, to protec you agains negative energy and delete it ,when some ,appens to pass trought your shield.
It is a scientific fact, i would beat-up your father,father,father,father and for some reason you will feel stress at a certain moment of your life. That stress does not belong to you but your grand grand grand granfather.First you must be consius of that. We are like a bake-up of the famely lime. It can be reformatted to be your oneself again and lighten your children hard-drive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2011): I totally understand were your coming from, i do the same ive been with my boyfriend 7yrs and i lash out real quick and moan etc What you need to do is have a heart to heart talk about it, maybe go to your docs see if they can help, maybe some anger management? Even though you get treated like a princess doesnt mean you always return the feeling. You need to get to the bottom of why you lash out etc.
Good luck.
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reader, bardia  +, writes (1 September 2011):
 Wow. I'm in a similar situation. I find I just need to relax because most of the time he doesn't realize that what he said upset me.Gotta step back & take a breath & discuss it calmly & rationally. He responds much better to that than my freaking out with accusations. Good luck & give grace.
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