After 5 years, my boyfriend says he loves me but isn't in love with me?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Have been going out with my bf for 5 years and while he says he loves me he is not "in love with me!!!" I consider this to be an insult after all this time and praps I should just end it! I think I deserve better! Please advise as I do love him to bits(However life goes on!)and I don't want to be "used!"

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