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female
age
30-35,
*harmi1000
writes:I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now.These days im going through really hard times in my life and i always ask my guy to be there for me. He goes to work full time, come home study and talk with me on the phone for less than 1 hr and go to sleep. for few weeks Every night we end up fighting about how hes not spending enough time with me, and he doesn't come see me often. Every time i call him to talk when im feeling down, he usually says that hes studying or hes with his family that he will give me a call later. And few times he asked me if he can go out with his friends, and i got mad at him said no, and today he said he wants to go out with his friends for 1 hr that its been a long time. since he said that it keeps bothering me. i didnt tell him not to go, but feel so insecure. I do turst him so much, and i love him a lot. I feel like im doing so much for him and hes not returning anything back to me. Please advice me.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (5 February 2011):
Okay. Here comes tough love. YOU SOUND OVERWHELMING!! For one, you should really STOP calling him everytime you are down, he is not your crutch and I can bet you that is wearing him down. My best friend use to do that to me and I started ignoring her calls because she would always put her negative energy on me. Telling him not to go out? You are smothering him...please stop now before you lose him. Message me if you need to talk I may be able to help you. Sorry if this was harsh but I would rather be harsh so you can understand than you lose your man.
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