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Archived questions from: 17 August, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My bf is terrible at keeping in contact!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - This is starting to really annoy me. My bf is terrible at keeping in contact. Even when i first met him txts/ phone calls have always been quite slow. We have been together 6 months and i guess hes comfortable now so its slipped even further. ...

Do I deserve better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our 5 year anniversary meant nothing to him. He told me that. He never even remembered even though he knew it was a big deal to me. I'm going back to Uni soon and he's never ...

He would rather watch porn than spend time with me and his new baby!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I have been with fiancee for a little bir. I am 22 and he is 27. All my past relationships i was either cheated on or abused. I didnt think good guys existed, but when i got with current bf, he showed me what true love,i still have trust issues ...

My sister is trying to break us up!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year and we are totally in love. but theres a problem with my sister. my boyfriend had a three day fling with my sister three years ago. when we started dating she was obviously annoyed but a year ...

I haven't spoken to my BF in 3 weeks. What to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I've never done this before. I'm not sure what to do anymore. I have lots of friends and the few I have told - i have trusted their opinion but i would like to hear more....opinions. My boyfriend of 8 Months has recently 'disappeare...

Her parents HATE me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl Lauren for a few months now. Her parents HATE me, there is nothing they liek about me at all. SHe comes from a well to do upper class family. Lets just I don't. They have coem rigth out and told em to stay away form her and ...

Does she love me or not? I am so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - For the past two years I have been in love with a 34 year old woman in my office I am 47 but the age thing is unimportant to her. She has been living for the past five years with her boyfriend who seems abusive to her. On several occasions she has ...

I need this to end one way or another, before I get 'caught'!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I split up with my ex of 5 years over trust issues I had and the fact we could not handle arguments well. He never cheated on me but did things like texting his ex at 3am which to me came close. After we split, I got together with a work colleague. ...

I want to settle down, he says he doesn't want to be "trapped"!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I'm 33 and my boyfriend is 40. We have been dating for 6 years. We have a good, committed relationship, but it seems that we want different things out of life. I live in the middle of nowhere (and love it!), and I want to settle down and have a ...

He beats me up... but I always forgive him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT HE IS ALWAYS ATTRACTED TO OTHER GIRLS.WE HAVE BEING TOGETHER FOR 8 YEARS AND HE BEATS ME UP.AND WHEN I LEAVE HIM N GO OUT TO STAY WITH MY COUSINS HE CALLS ME UP AND BEGS FOR FORGIVENESS.WHAT SHOULD I DO?I LOVE HIM SO MUCH SO I ...

Why would she go back to her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - The story of my life is a pretty common one but still i needed to tell someone that is objective and doesnt know me so he/she will not judge me as harsh as my friends did. I had a relationship with a girl that we go to the same university for 3...

How can I be the person he wants me to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2years and 6 months and i've always been the one who needs all the attention or basically always is the one that needs it. in the past me and my boyfriend have had problems with me being to needy and we ...

I feel a bit violated after my friend tried it on with me, but should I tell my boyfriend what happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I have been for my bf for about 8 months he makes me very happy, but last night i went out with some friends most of them male i am quite friendly with one in particular there is alot of banter between us. I went back with him and his housemat...

Am I making the right choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - I was in a relationship for 12 months but she had an eating disorder illness which part of that made her push me away. I don’t blame her for that and I know the illness is not easy for her to cope with. The pushing away happened 4 times but we alw...

I love him and want to wait but the lack of communication is making me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - So confused. Plz help. I met my bf 6mnths ago online. He works away and I only see him every 5 wks. When we see each other it is wonderful and very happy, he then goes and we basically just text msg lots every day. When I actually speak to him I ...

I can' t forget him; what do you think I should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Could you help me? Here's my screwed up situation: He liked me for over a year and showed it, like staring and trying to talk to me but I was quite shy and didn't really talk back that much, and never told him I liked him back. That was all of ...

Why do men always choose to ignore me or disappear instead of explaining themselves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - So my q is why do some men choose to ignore or disappear instead of say whats going on or explaining. I dated this guy(2-3 mo)who was head over heels into me.We hung out daily,he contacted me daily.He chose to hang out w/ me instead of his f...

My ex still loves me but has a new girlfriend and he cant leave her, will I ever get another chance with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i went out for only 3 months. but we were so in love. we were going to move in together when i had finished school. it was the happiest 3 months of my entire life. we fought...but only over text message...but then we made up and ...

Any thoughts on her behaviour with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - I'm with this girl and I am generally happy with her. She's had a bit of a past, more so than me, meaning she had a period when she was casually dating a string of guys but nothing serious. I'm fine with that, too. Now, she seems really into me a...

He wants to be with me but has a girlfriend! I don't even know how I should be feeling....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - This guy I like has a girlfriend he tells me he wants to be with me and that he wants to give it a shot he will NOT however break-up with his cheating girlfriend after dating three weeks sh has not! kept it in her pants, and I told him no cheating ...

Is it normal to be so upset when he is only going away for a few days on a business trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I want to know if I am going crazy or what??? My bf and I have been dating for a year now and we are so in love with each other we are always together, well 99% of the time. I have never been so happy with anyone in my life I left during last spring ...

I'm in love, but I know he talks to other girls! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - ive been with this guy for bout 10 months. I grew to love him. ive been there for him since day one. everything was fine between us. when he needed help with anything i was there. if he ever cheated i never knew because i didnt want to feel hurt and ...

She says she loves me but doesn't want a relationship, do I even have a chance with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - my question is that you are in love with this girl and she tells you that she loves you but she is not ready for a relationship and she wants you to be there for her and yet you want her to be near her but you get hurt because she say she loves you ...

Can I trust my boyfriend again after what he did to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I know this is long but please read it. I really need advice because I am confused about keeping this relationship going or not. I will try to make this as short as possible. First of all I would like to say that even though I am about to write a...

Who do I choose? My boyfriend is boring and this other guy isn't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend for 4 months now. I have been talking to this other guy who is 18. I like the boy who is 18 but I also like my boyfriend. My problem is my boyfriend is very committed more than I am. The 18 year old is very funny an...

He asked to see someone's boobs, but everyone is telling me it's what boys do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - me and my bf have been together for 3 years. we were at his sister wedding reception and I found out he asked another girl to see her boobs. I kown this girl shes married with kids and not at all interested in him. He and his sister have know her ...

His reply was another bulk email -- what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I met my ex almost 4 years ago(we were friends at first ) Since back then I have randomly received emails(forwards) from him that were addressed to me and a ton of other girls. Back then ( in lust, naive and not thinking clearly and so very eager ...

He was drunk and kissed her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 months... not very long. However, we've developed such an amazing connection. Strong, amazing, happy feelings I haven't felt in years. He's become both my close friend and lover. most importantly, he's ...