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female
age
30-35,
*niperAJ
writes:ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year and we are totally in love. but theres a problem with my sister. my boyfriend had a three day fling with my sister three years ago. when we started dating she was obviously annoyed but a year an half later and i am still not allowed to talk about him, see him or speak to him when she is around. my sister is engaged and lives with her fiance. she has in the past tried to convince me that he has cheated on me by taking phony pictures and phoning me at all hours of the night. it is causing great strain on my relationship with my sister and my boyfriend and i have no idea what to do...i dont know how to tell my sister to get a grip or if i need to. am i being out of order?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): YOU let a man come bet you and your sister? shame on you. he Fed your sister and now he is doing you. and you do not have aproblem with HIM but with HER???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Are you sure she isn't jealous of you? Ok, so she had a 3 day fling with him but if she is engaged and supposedly happy with this man why is she trying tro destroy your relationship?..well its either..she still holds a torch for your boyfriend or she is jealous of what you two have and hasn't got that herself so wants to jeopardise your happy relationship and wants to make you miserable like she is. If i were you i would either sit her down and confront her and tell her to stop and ask her outright what her problem is or tell her you don't want to speak to her until she has something nice to say otherwise you are giving her what she wants and letting it affect your relationship.
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