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Archived questions from: 30 July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend It's taken me some time to realize this but I am in love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend. The thing is, I am reasonably sure that she has no interest in me at all, she sees me as one of her best f...

We're still very much newly weds, we shouldn't be having problems like this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I just caught my husband who just cheated on me like 2 weeks ago in yet another lie about hiding his porn!! If you've read my last post you saw that my husband of not even 7 months yet, cheated on me (had an emotional affair and kissed his ex while ...

Whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems to get really stressed about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I are in our late 40's. We have been living together for about 7 months and have talked openly about marriage in the next year or so. The problem I have is that whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems ...

Should I ignore her a little now when I see her or would that just make her think "Good now I'm rid of him"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - There is this girl (A LOT Younger) I'm chatting to that got pissed because I flirted with her but she didn't mind at first. Later I did it again and then she did not want to talk anymore and was supposed to send me a pic and said she's not going to ...

Has my boyfriend been cheating on me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a ...

He said he wanted to go because he felt suffocated plus loads off arguments.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Me and my partner split up over 3 months ago, he is 44 and I'm 30, we have a 7 month old baby together, he said he wanted to go because he felt suffocated plus loads off arguments. I find out about 4 weeks ago he is seeing someone else, I ...

My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, ...

How can I change my mood and stop thinking these crazy things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I love my boyfriend to death. My main problem is mostly with myself. A lot of the time I’m creating scenarios in my head that I know aren’t true (and I have no reason to suspect that they are) about ...

I told him i thought i might be pregnant and he has gone out drinking.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, I'm a student nurse and I think I'm pregnant althoguht we have been careful (I'm going to do a test tonight) Recently things between us haven't been the same he's started drinking more and tonight I told ...

She's pregnant with our baby and is telling me she needs space from me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hi there, My girlfreind and I have found out that we are expecting a baby, She is approximately 14 weeks gone. However she now tells me she doesn't know how she feels about me, and that she just needs space and time to see if things change. I...

We have twins together but i like his friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boybriend for 6 years and we have twin girls together. We have not had a very good relationship. We have a mutual friend and about two years ago I started to develop feeling for him. I tried to forget about him and the feeling ...

Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills...

He does not seem to want to spend any time with us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend spends loads of time wih his mate, I'm talking five to eight hours a day. Is it normal we've been on and off as a couple for five years and he asked me back a month ago, He works comes home and goes to his mates house, I'm left at home...

Why does she call me bad names all the time, or why do I get the feeling that she doesn't want to see me happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I want to know why my mom is so against me? the reason I ask is because she only has two kids but, your mom is supposed to be there for you when no one is. But in my case my mom never helps me, she always talks bad about me, if I need help with ...

We have been together ten months and i want to marry him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Why am I in such a rush to get married? Okay, I am 21 years old and I have been with my guy for 10 months. We fight frequently have almost broken up a few times but have gotten through it. Even after all of the times that he makes me want to pull...

I love my boyfriend, but i want his mum.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hi there, i am young and scared and also confused! i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now and for the past year i have had sexual fantasies abou his mum. my question: am i gay ...or am i not? i dont know how to tell! you...

My boyfriend is now divorced and has said to me he will never marry again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 years. We are both very serious about each other (we’re both in our mid 20s). It really bothers me that he sounds like he will never get married again. He was married when he was 19 and has a kid ...

Could it be that I'm so scared of being rejected by him that I'm over-analysing everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I met a boy a few weeks back and I really like him. He seemed to really like me too and we exchanged numbers. He called the next day and we arranged to meet up a few days later. On the day, he said he couldn't make it as he had to work. Since then ...

How can we repair the broken trust before it tears us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hello! I was online the other day when a random woman contacted me telling me my boyfriend was chatting with her and planning on a rendezvous with her next weekend. She then went on to forwarding their entire conversation to me. It was very ...

Is it ok to carry on with the distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend but we are seperated by distance it is okay to continue...

I don't know if I'm being selfish but I can't keep hanging on wondering how long it will be till he next speaks to me or if he will ever ring me again at all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend to bits and im pretty sure he feels the same about me. The only thing is that he has a baby with his ex girlfriend and she has just recently stopped him from seeing his baby, for no reason. Obviously this has affected him badly ...

We attended a wedding and he spent more time talking dungeons and dragons with his friends than talking to me... I am starting to wonder if he is the guy for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I had a really down weekend with my boyfriend. He noticed I was a bit off by very few times I respond back “I love you too”. We attended his god sister’s wedding and I was very upset about how much attention he pays on me. He was talking to his ...

He gets uncontrollable urges to sleep with other women... our sex life is great, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, he is 34, me 35. We moved to China a year ago to work and during this time our relationship has gone downhill. Partly due to the lifestyle, not having enough space from each ...

He refuses counselling and marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 9 years. Hubby sex drive very low (app 4 times in a year), refuses to go counselling nor divorce. i am very fustrated at this point. Still in marriage becoz of kids but am giving up. I have tried using tactics to keep flame ...

I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally. One day I wake up and i totally love her and think I couldn't imagine losing her. Then other days I get irritated by her and just feel generally irritated specially when ...

My friends think he is controlling, and i'm not happy either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - hi, basically ive recently got married but we are already having problems we have a daughter together and have been together 4 years previous to getting married. my husband has threatened to leave twice but going as far as packing his packs and me ...

My bf's mate calls me scum and punched his ex!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hi all, I have a massive problem that I have never heard of at my age, and I would like to know if this is unusual or does this happen a lot. My partner and I went through hell to be to-gether and I love him with all my heart. The problem is, now ...

My boyfriend is paranoid... how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is showing signs of depression and has extreme paranoia and refuses to do anything about it saying it's just always going to be there and no one can help him. He had a very disrupted childhood; his parents left him when he was 6 months...

Do I leave my wife for another woman?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hello. I could do with a bit of advice.First of all ive been with my girlfriend for 10 years since we was kids im now 27. we have 2 children girl of 5 and boy of 1. i love my children very much.Im an electrical engineer and do ok for us.Now me an...

Why did he get married if he wanted to chat to other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I discovered pornographic stories, written by my husband for other men and women, on his pc. He had asked for photographs of their wives (or them if they were female). This was the third time I had cause to wonder what he was doing on the pc. The ...

am i wasting my time????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hey ...i broke up with an ex a while ago(+/-2months)...and it really hurt..i didnt feel it was over ....but she claimed she needed time alone..oh well it killed me but i slowly started to get over the initial pain...but never stopped loving her... ...

I'm so lonely and I don't think he loves me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I wanted to say hello to all on this site..I am a new one here,just found this site...I think I am going enjoy this place... Well anyway, my problem is also like one I read on here and that made me want to join... I have been married for 26...

How can I tell my fiancee's parents that he hits me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - How can I approach my fiancee's parents (with discretion) by letting them know that he hits me at times when I disagree and or just have my opinion towards some topic. I'm afraid of talking to them because they would think Im just lying since...