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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I am a bit perturbed by the fact that she chose to share a flat with one her mates and another guy (male). Am I being petty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 years now, due to various reasons we cant quite cohabit now, and she needs to move into the city where I live coz she has to finish off her last credits at UNI (where she lived on Uni campus for the p...

Why do I keep thinking about this man when I have been with my husband for 25 years???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Hello, please can someone help me. I'm a forty year old mother of three lovely children aged 3,5 and 10. I've been married for almost 15 years and met my husband at university and we've been together for 20 years. Prior to meeting my husband I had ...

I really like him and was going to tell him when we all meet up this Friday but he's asked someone else out, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6141 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Basically I have this friend who I flirt with lots and he does it back to me. I realy liked him and was planning on telling him this Friday when we are meeting up. However when I logged on to MSN I have found that he is going out with another girl ...

Should one end a relationship with old boyfriends, to make a new life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I have a fiancé, and she has had a fair amount of relationships. She still emails and talks to two of them. One she went out with for 7 years, the other one for one summer. It makes me real jealous to know she does it, she doesn’t tell me when she ...

A part of me wants full disclosure about her prior relationships but I don't how to approach it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

11 July 2007 (?) - I've been in a relationship with a great woman for the past two years. We're both in our early 30's. Having been in several relationships, I know she is the one for me. We are compatible in so many ways. We spend a lot nights together staying...

What can I do to help myself relax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years but when he goes out without me, I worry that he will meet someone else. I know that he wouldn't do anything but I just can't relax. Recently he has made excuses to go out with other people ...

My husband has been suffering from depression and it's affecting both of us badly.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Can anyone out there help me please! Hi this may be a long one and I apologise for that, I am a married woman with two daughters who are now grown up, they are my whole world and I love them so much. I love my husband to bits and have stood by hi...

Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years. Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me, he now thinks that I never loved him at all and that it was all a lie but it was not. I love this boy ...

His best friend says that if I was more touchy-feely then he would get on with me again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I am totally in love with this boy, and have liked him since september 2006. We used to get on so well, and now he will not talk to me, unless he wants fags, money or a new song for his phone. He rings me all the time, but it is just for sex, even ...

He always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I have this guy friend who is also my baby father who always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight. Should I just let him go?...

What else can I say to him apart from "Hi, how are you, have a nice day"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I need advice (he is always on my mind) Let me start by saying I am SO SORRY this is a long one. So I met this guy back in college (my freshman year) and there was an attraction between us, but we just never seemed to find the right place o...

Is there hope of saving this? Should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I met a woman online 4 months ago. Our relationship was almost instant. It was very intense and we both felt like we were falling in love. After two months we met face to face and it was great for me but okay for her. A month later we met again. It ...

How can I talk to her without all these feelings returning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Hi, well here goes, hoping for some sound advice to lead me in the right direction. Will try and keep this as short as possible... My best friend for the past 5 years is/was a work colleague called Julie. I'm married, she's in a long term relation...

The new guy shares my interests, but I'm comfortable with the old guy. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - me and my on and off live in move out boyfriend of almost four years are off again. i went on a cruise and met a great guy, and even flew back to see him as soon as i got home from vacation. im confused do i stay with the only thing i know, or see ...

After moving away, I flirted with other men. My bf saw photos of it and is now distraught! How can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 14 months. We have had an extremely tough time of it- we spent the first 4 months together, fell madly in love, and then I moved away but we decided to stay together. As a result, over the last year ...

The new guy I'm seeing is amazing! The problem is my friends - they say he's too ugly for me and that I'll end up hurting him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - i have being seeing a guy who i think is amazing. We seem to get on so well, and have such a connection. All the past guys i have dated have all been boring and i he just makes me laugh so much. I love spending time with him, but problem is none of ...

I told her how I feel, but she wants to stay with the guy who's using her for sex! So now I want to have a talk with him about what he's doing to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Ok so theres this girl 'L' and she was being messed around by one of my best friends 'P' she thinks she loves him, i think she infatuated, and she was coming to me for advice and I helped her out as best I could, but last week having been with this ...

My wife shuts me out, so I crossed the line with a female friend. Her personality makes me come alive and now we're growing apart. I feel like screaming! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I have a problem some,i never really discuss things out,but i need help on this. Problem being,i been married for a long time,17 years in fact,i have one son teenager. Things at home over the years have slowly gotten bad,i love my son,i am very cl...

I can't control my anger when it comes to my boyfriend! He's cheated on me six times, but I still want to be with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a quarrel. I don't know if i love him still, because i sometimes realize that i've been harsh on him, and i always regret what i've done everytime we're not together. Sometimes I think it's because of the pain he gave me ...

My husband treats me and our kids with no respect. Counseling has only made things worse and I can't afford to leave! Now what??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 13 yrs. Many people say oh it has been wonderful yrs for themselves, I cannot. It has been hard. I have no desire for him sexually, he is very short fused, w/ me and our 3 children. he calls them names, that you...

He proposed and I said yes! But now our relationship is going downhill and I don't know about us anymore. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly a year now...several months ago he asked me to marry him and i said yes... however these last few months we havent been very good together so i told him that i didnt think we are ready for commitment... to be ...

How do I tell my partner that I no longer am in love with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Recently I have stopped being in love with my partner and we are just getting more and more distant how do I tell her that I'm no longer in love?...

My job sucks and I'm just unhappy in general. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I'm not satisfied with my life. I never am happy- well not for long. I only want little things in my life to be right but they never do and other people always have it easier- they get things handed to them on a plate or get things easier for ...

I think marriage is too much if we want different things! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - im engaged to be married in 2 yrs just before i go to uni. but recently my fiance and i have been discussing our future and we want different things. i want to complete my degree and then travel for awhile. he doesnt ever want to leave our ...

We dated, she left. We dated, she left. Now she's started speaking to me, but she's backing off again!! I'm so confused!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Hey! Sorry for such a long post. But I really need some advice. The problem I’m having is to do with my ex girlfriend. We were together for around 4 months, and split up 6 months ago. It wasn’t my choice and was the last thing I wanted, as I had ...

I had a sexual relationship w/ him before he started dating my relative. He comes onto me and when I tell him to stop, she laughs! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - A close relative of mine has a boyfriend that I had a sex relationship with before they got involved. He still comes on to me in front of her. Why does he do this? How do I know if it is bothering her and does this mean he is still interested in ...

I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...

She asked for a break...but is she stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - So I'm really confused. About 2 months ago my girlfriend of about a year and a half told me that we needed to take a break. At that time, I was working a lot and going through some roommate issues and I was not really there for her. When we first...

He tells little lies...how do I trust him and should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Hi, In the past nine or ten months, my partner of over four years has been very snappy and distant. He blames me for everything, even when it can't possibly have been my fault. About nine months ago, my partner made a new friend, a pretty woma...

My girlfriend hits me--what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. I'm starting to worry about my relationship with her. I really love her but sometimes when I don't do what she asks she hits me. It's more of a punch to the arm or a slap. I'm worried in future years she may get ...

I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself ...

My sister dislikes my girlfriend and hurts me all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for seven years now, and has been great. Im thinking it soon maybe time to pop the question but i haven't yet because we're trying to finish college. My issue is not with my girlfriend but with my older sister. ...

Our relationship died (mind games, emotional abuse, no sex)... but since then she's been obsessively chasing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I broke up with my girlfriend of fourteen months about six weeks ago, and since then it's been a mess. I had to leave her because she was emotionally abusive and kept on playing mind games - also our sex life had died and we had no communication. A ...