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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We split up then got back together, but she's changed, she hides what she's doing, what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - i split with my wife after being together nearly six years (married for one) I could not get over her , we just drifted apart but i still loved her. we finally sorted things out but she treats me really bad now ! She is always on facebook and when i ...

I lied to her trying to catch her out but it all back fired... she wasnt cheating and she now thinks I'm a liar

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend have ended up on a break because i accused her of cheating. i found evidence and she has been catching up a lot with old (male) friends so i got jealous. I lied to her trying to catch her out but it all back fired. she ...

I am not getting enough Sex from my girlfriend! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - I Only have sex with my girlfriend once or twice a month and i want more but she doesn't.. when We first started goin out we had sex 2 or 3 times a week.. now since we have bin together 2 years its only a few times a month. Shes always to sleepy or ...

He could do very little to commemorate my b-day due to miscalculations, now he feels guilty. Opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Yesterday was my 50th birthday and my boyfriend (whom I've been living with for 8 months) did very little to commemorate it. I will tell you a story as briefly as I can. He told me one night last week that we would go out Saturday night for dinn...

We suddenly have problems with erectile dyfunction! I'm so frustrated sexually-I am thinking of leaving him! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Over the past 9 or 10 months my boyfriend of 5 years and myself have encountered a new problem in our relationship. Prior to this, our sex life was very active and strong, we never had any problems with ED or anything like that. But for some reason, ...

Wife took me off-guard by regaling to our friends..how she made some guy's toes curl with a BJ before she met me! This pissed me off..how do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - My wife and I were out drinking with some friends, and (don't ask why, because I don't know), her one female friend asked if all guys curl their toes when they have an orgasm. I'm assuming that her husband either does or doesn't and she was curious ...

Do we break up over 'jobs and relocation' issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - I am a divorced man in my early 40's. My new partner is also in her early 40's. I have had a difficult time getting established in a career until the last 2 years. I have a good job, though I would like to live in another community ideally. I have ...

I can't get that physical attraction back for him...will these feelings ever return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - How can I get my love life back on track and how will I know that I really want to? This seems a daft question but my partner and I split up in February and after much discussion, decided to give our relationship another chance. Since then tho...

I feel like she's lost interest. How do I make myself special in her eyes again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - This is a follow-up to this question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-im-never-going-to-get-over.html) My biggest problem I have now is that this girl that I'm in love with is now my friend, but it seems like everything has changed. Whe...

She won't do anything more than kiss me, now--is this relationship falling apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that ...

My ex is stalking me but the guy I dumped him for slept with my best friend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Argh! I don't know what to do anymore. I think i'm losing it. I'm just completely depressed. I just dumped my boyfriend for this other guy as bitchy as it sounds. And he's like stalking me! The guy i dumped him for had sex with one of my best f...

What is okay with girls and guys spending alot of time together??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have had problems for a very long time with what I would consider flirting/ mild forms of cheating. Eventually this lead to our break up some time ago. We were apart for a couple months and then discussed our problems to come ...

Is he going to break up with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been very depressed lately and he has been starting fights with me all of the time over small things......like making mountains out of mole hills. He recently told me that he needed some space and time to think about everythi...

I feel like he doesn't give of himself....how can I tell if he cares??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for four months now. I do not know if whether or not he likes or care for me the way I do. I want to be in a relationship with this guy, but I feel that he is not giving any of himself to me...

I want to go out and have fun...but he always wants to stay in....I feel like we've grown apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I've bin with my boyfriend for over a year now but i think i dont love him anymore. We have grown apart, i what to go out and have fun but he wants to stay in and watch tv. I do enjoy a night in but not all the time and when i do want to go out i...

How do I turn down one guy for another without hurting his feelings??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Well i am in a bit of a mess. I was seeing this boy Sean we had half a dozen dates and latly we started to have sex. He is damn good. He wants it to be more asked me to be his proper girlfriend a few times and i keep saying am not sure yet i ne...

I feel like I need a break from my bf and fun with other people but I don't want to lose him. Am I being selfish??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I am currently in an almost 2 year relationship with a guy I really love. However, we are both spending a year in a different country together, and since we got here about 3 months ago, we are arguing more and more. Possibly because it's the firs...

My partner with whom I've been living for 15 yrs has asked me to leave his house (but I will not.) Does he truly love the other woman? What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for 15 years and have lived with him for all this time. My partner has had several affairs over the last 12 years, these have always happened at time when we have been under severe pressure from other areas whether it...

I feel like she has been living a single life while I take care of our baby...and now she wants a break.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - My gf and i been toether 4 years, we have a child, had a hard time to get a home off our own, i worked and studyied hard for her. She spent her time with her friends always leaving me at home to mind the baby,every weekend the same and she stayed o...

She wants a break but I cant help thinking she wants to be with the guy from work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Hi My girlfriend and i have been going out for 7 months before i met her she had another boyfriend who treated her badly so when she argued with him she would go and get really drunk and cheat on him she would also self harm. So when she ended i...

It's just got too boring and I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Anybody been in a similar situation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years now but i think we have just grown apart i am beginning to question if i want to be with him any more. I like to go out to clubs etc and have fun but all he wants to do is stay at home and do nothi...

Me and my bf live together and are suffering a relationship crisis (not talking). We've always had a volatile connection, lately worsening.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I am in an awful state at the moment. i am living with my boyfirend for the last few months and in the last few weeks we keep fighting with each other, and now at the moment we're not talking to each other. I don't know how to sort these ...

I want to tell him he is selfish in bed but not put him right off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year now, he's had quite a few sexual partners and no other relationships and I've just had one other very serious relationship. The thing is that he has never made me orgasm, and doesn't even seem bot...

We are getting close but I'm not sure how she feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 399 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Hey. This girl and I have been freinds for a while. She had had feeling for me sice 7th grade and had asked me out a bunch of times. The first time it stunned me and I didn't know what to do. I told her I was gay and had a friend back me up. ...

My bf is still communicating with his ex, and is upset about my spying. I've also heard he's been married once, which he denies. Do I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - My fiance has been hiding his cell phone from me but picks mine and reads my messages frequently. I recently read messages from his cell phone and realised that he was stil communicating with his ex girlfriend who is already married. This really ...

He's a nice person but I feel like I deserve to be treated better.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been dating someone for 7 months. He's a nice person, and I do love him. But I have this constant doubt that I'm being taken advantage of because he wants a companion. At the start of the relationship, I felt he was taking advantage of me fo...

He said he would wait for me but the way he is acting I am not sure he will.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Just to recap: I was in a 3year relationship with a man I loved dearly and with all my heart. However, we fought a lot and he never understood the things I needed and I was always wrong which frustrated me a lot and was always unhappy. He is a gre...

Should I go on and hope she changes her mind or is she just playing me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Hey there, I'm pretty new to this type of thing, but I really need some feedback on a situation I am in from some people not involved. There is a girl that I work with, and we've been working together for about half a year now, that I've been get...

My parents forbid me to see my bf but I still do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I am 15 years old my halfway boyfriend is 17, we aren't supposed to be together,my parents forbidden us to see each other. We have been together for like almost two years, when the started to not let us see each other was about 7months ago, i h...

I love my 18 year old cousin who I just can't stop thinking about! Is it wrong?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - I'm 13 and I love/have feelings for my 18 year old cousin. Is that wrong? About my cousin: (in my point of view) my Cousin just turned 18 and is now going to Columbia university. She has a very nice personality, funny, innocent, adorable, beauti...

How can I stop my girlfriend taking this job at a strip bar?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend took off her top at a strip bar on a dare. The manager there asked her if she’d like to work there. She said she’s thinking about it!! He told her she could make five hundred a night. She works as a waitress now, but thinks she can ...

Who do you think I should go for? They both know I like them, but I don't want to lead anyone on, I'd rather just go with one girl and stick with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - OK so I'm in a bit of a spot and I can't make up my mind... I like two girls, but I don't have any intentions of trying to date both of them, or to see one of them on the side or any of that. I'm having a hard time deciding which of these two gir...

Is her lying a problem, or am I creating a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - I have a question that concerns "lies". I want to first explain a few things in our relationship. I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5 years. She's a great friend, and a better lover. However, I have a concern that seems to continue to ...

I live with my bf and his mum, but she hates me and even beat me, how can I sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - dear cupid, I have this boyfriend for six months now but at that span of time we always argue. Two months dating we agreed to get marry and stay in his mom's house but his mom told us not to rush and move our marriage for another five months. At ...

I've been having THE worst love life these past few months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I've been having THE worst love life these past few months. I'll explain it a bit first. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago, and a week later, I started going out with this other guy who I fancied when I was still going out ...

I found out he cheated, he then chose her over me, but I still want him back, how can I do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my mate for 13 years, in October I found out he was cheating on me. (he was not the one told me) I confronted him and made him choose. He chose her! Since then,we talk maybe once a week, and he says he is sorry and that he did not ...