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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want to go to a new years party with my mate, but I also want to be with my girlfriend but the two hate each other to the ground, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - Right theres a party on new year, I said to my mate that I will go there and get completly out of our faces at party. I asked my GF what she is doing for new year she says she doesnt know and asks me. I told her im getting drunk at that party. My GF ...

I want my Turkish bf to come to England but don't want to have to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I need help really badly! I really love my Turkish boyfriend and i really want him to come to England but i don't want to marry him as i am a bit too young as you no alot of people say turkish men only want one thing. I know he doesn't, i love ...

I think I love him but he is saying he still likes my friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I used to be seeing this lad ages ago and then we broke up but he was seeing my best friend recently but now shes seeing sumbody else. I really like him still - i actually think i love him. He's sending out messages tht he likes me but his friend h...

He says there's not enough passion, what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just had a bit of an arguement, more a discussion. He says he feels there isn't enough passion in the relationship, and can't see himself staying with someone 5, 10, 15 years with no passion. I thought our sex life has bee...

My gf is ex-anorexic and has mental issues, becoming moody. If I don't behave in a certain way she gets mad and breaks up, which is emotional straining for me. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - hello I a a lesbian any my girlfriend is really feminine and I am too, but not as much as her. we've been together 9 months. She wants me to treat her like I was man as far as doing things for her. She is also ex anorexic and does have mental issu...

How can I stop him blackmailing me, as I am becoming scared?? We've had a turbulent relationship so far, now live together as lodges.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I have been in my current relationship for 6 years, living together for 3 of those. We have had a turbulent relationship to say the least, it has been a 'can't live with or without you' type. We decided last xmas to split, however, we have been...

My bf has trust issues for years now and I don't think any proof is enough for him. Do I stay or leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years thinks that i have cheated on him, which i haven't. This has been going on for years now and i don't no what to do. I don't think he will ever believe me and there is no way for me to prove it. i love him so much, but i do...

Is my gf trying to tell me something by only initiating sex when she knows I'm likely to say no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend only ever seems to REALLY want sex on the day when it's most uncomfortable for me. I do pretty intense phsiotherapy once a week and afterwards I drive straight to pick my kids up from their schools. By the time I get home I'm really ...

I'm always super-frustrated when they go out together, my gf and her cousin. I'm afraid her cousin who is dishonest and promiscuous will trick her into being the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - I don't want to seem to be a shallow, judmental guy, but I need to get opinions. I have a major problem with my girlfriend's cousin, whom she spends a lot of time with. The first thing is that she is untrustworthy. We are both adul...

We have verbally abusive fights that spiral into rage and tears. Can we learn how to fight and how to negociate? How??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a woman who is very much in love with my boyfriend of 3 years. He loves me very much too and we have become entangled in a deep, intense, but complicated relationship. I say complicated because there are extreme highs and extreme lo...

Once hurt very badly by a man I loved, now I run a mile everytime I'm in a relationship getting serious because I'm terrified I'll hurt again. This way I'm hurting others as well. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - It's 3 A.M. and I have just got back out bed. There's something I can't get off my mind so I felt the need to ask my friends on 'dearcupid' for advice. It all started two years ago when I met a guy called Jay* we were seeing each other for ar...

My girlfriend gives me mixed signals in intmacy in public, how can I tell what she really wants and that she is not just giving in to me?? Also I'm afraid my penis is too small and will put her off if we move onto more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - Hey all well I'm a 17 year old guy and I'm going out with a 15 year old girl, there's a 1 year 9 month age gap between us but that's not what's bothering me. Despite the fact that we seem to have almost nothing in common, whenever I'm with her all ...

My boyfriend watches porn and visits gentleman clubs. I don't know what to think about all this, and what are the gentlemen really doing in their clubs??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Questions, specially from all the guys out there. Do all men have to watch porn? Is it OK for a guy, who is in a relationship, to go to gentleman clubs. The thing is that I've been having problem with understanding why my bf watches porn or go to ...