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writes:Okay this is an add on to a earlier question I have asked! Once again I am an almost 18 year old virgin who hasn't kissed a girl.My Dermatologist who is also my regular doctor is quite beautiful. I know she is divorced and she has children. She is around 40 years old.One time during an examination I had to strip down and this is really embarrassing but I had unintentionally saw down her blouse and my penis twitched.She didn't say anything at first, probably out of courtesy as I was blushing mad, but later I've noticed she keeps looking at me in a different way.I'm not sure what it means, I mean is she too old?What does she think of me? I have to see her next month and I'm nervous and just told an embarrassing story...
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Doctors and other medical professionals often encounter these things in the course of their duties. It is another day in the office for her.
As you have said, she has 2 children and I bet they are about your age. Surely they wont let there mama down, would they? Probably they are teen-agers playing soccer or greco roman wrestling every weekends. Surely you won't like to play ball and tackle with them without any protective gear, would you?
She has no problem with age. At 40 and as years pass by, she would have developed in herself a comfortable life which youth of your age, dream about. I bet she prefers somebody in her profession, after the divorce. Maybe she has a doctor suitor with a Bentley Continental GT to pick her up after her duty hours. At 60 or so, when she retires, she will receive a monthly pension and do some investments of her own. At her old age when she gets ill, she could be confined to the hospital where she works and not pay a dime because she's a doctor then.
Things that only grown ups enjoy and the youth dream about.
Age is just a number and it does not matter in love, it maturity and self sacrifice which are important.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (4 January 2009):
yeah sorry to say this as well, but i doubt anything will happen.
she is a professional and if anything did happen then she could loose her med license. i doubt she would want that, as it probably took her years to get it. plus she has children. sorry i think you are just lusting after someone you cant have.
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reader, elisa_lee +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Sorry to say, you have little chance of dating her and to make any move would be quite wrong and might be embarrassing though she would likely handle it well.
I had a similar feeling toward my doctor when I was 16. I will never forget my first pelvic exam!!
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (3 January 2009):
 You be polite she is your doctor nothing else and if anything a bit too old too it is the most natural thing in the world what happened to you yes it was embarrasing for you but i am assured your doctor will have come accross many a young boy doing the same thing she will just take it all in her stride.You will be fine next time.
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): almost forgot - do watch out for the wooden spoon . . . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): If you think your doctor is gorgeous, you should see mine. 6' tall, with legs up to her arse and back down again. In summertime the sun shines straight through her surgery window and when she stands up in her long summer dress it leaves nothing to the imagination.
Just one problem - well, four actually - she'd be struck off the medical register if she interfered with me, she's married, I'm attached, and she's a good 20 years younger than me. I always have to lie down when she takes my blood pressure. Did you see that picture of Princess Diana in the kindergarten before she married Charlie? It's like that.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (3 January 2009):
 She's too old for you sweetheart, her kids are probably older than you are! If I was a 40 year old divorcee doc, I wouldn't be interested in a 17 year old virgin kid that hasn't even gone to college yet...there is just too many differences (age is only one of them!) I don't mean this in an offensive way at all honey, please don't think that...But you have got sooo much to learn. Heck, I'm only 24 and I would never date anyone your age, I'd have nothing in common with them!I'm assuming (probably correctly) that you are merely part of her professional relationships, as she is your doctor, and doesn't think anything of you past clinical curiosity. Especially since she hasn't given you any direct clues that she would be interested in you in a sexual relationship way.The reason she said nothing about your partial erection is probably because docs see that kind of stuff every day-nothing surprises them anymore, trust me. (I dated a very handsome nurse who used to have female patients reacting sexually to him all the time, so I know a bit about this.)I know she's very good looking and sexually attractive to you, but you should really try and forge a decent relationship with a school age girl.Good luck sweetheart, and remember, when you do have sex, use a condom EVERY TIME! Safe sex is the best sex!
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reader, Nimmie +, writes (3 January 2009):
Don't worry! You have to remember that she sees thousands of people a month and that she has been trained professionally to deal with others with an embrassing and difficult conditions. Although I eould suggest that you let this episode past and not try to follow-up on anything that occured in your past meeting, as a professional it is law for her not to have any kind of romantic relations with her patients. Have courage and let things go.
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