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Friend seems to think I am gay and is following me around

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Question - (21 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A male Australia age 22-25, anonymous writes:


well ill get straight to the point, i'm 15 and have a friend (i wouldnt call him a friend but he would probly call me his best friend) who i think may be gay (not that theres anything wrong with that) but he seems to be following me litterly everywhere (he even came to my house at 6pm one night!!) its kinda freaking me out with the talking 5 cm from my face (not cool) to the staring (he does this to everyone too) and everything. i have asked him to stop several times and he consists with the following, i just dont want to be blunt and you know kinda hurt his feelings n stuff coz if he doesnt back off soon its quite likely i could just get a little bit on edge n snap.

any advice

Thanks, Cameron

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A female reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (21 January 2009):

SoftlyCaress agony auntWell I think the best thing for you to do is to let him know you are straight and if he is gay also let him know you dont hold it against him at all but there is somethings you just dont like to do and dont like to have done to you.You need to be straight forward and let him know what you want out of your relationship . Its ok to be honest and tell him calmly rather then wait till you cant take it anymore and snap on him as a matter of fact he would probably respect you more for being honest.

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A female reader, Chisa United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

Chisa agony auntMaybe you should talk to him in a very seriois way. Tell him that heis weirding you out and that you need some space. He does seem kinda weird. Help him make new friends.

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