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Men, do you like to kiss the vulva during foreplay?

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Question - (6 April 2011) 11 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2014)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Are there any men here that like to kiss the vulva during foreplay? If yes, you get a lot of pleasure out of it? When you do, do you give short quick pecks, or longer ones?

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A male reader, hydralicride United States +, writes (31 October 2014):

I biggest problem men have is that they are to aggressive. A vulva needs to be slowly brought to speed. The sensitivity of the area is dependant on blood flow and usually is not ready for aggressive stimulation immediately. That is where the kissing comes in. Inner thighs and around the mound are a safe first approach. This should continue until her clitoris signals that it is ready to play by slipping out from under the hood. Broad slow licks are a good way to start. But be sure to establish some ground rule before you start. No two women are alike. This is one situation where communication is Key. You need to know what she expects and how you can help her achieve her O or O's. Remember once she is on the plateau, she can stay there as long as time permits and you don't get tired.

One point before I go. A healthy vulva host fewer pathogens that a mouth. Kiss her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

Yes. It is indeed enjoyable to watch, experience, smell, taste, take in her femininity...

To the anonymous poster below who said that "it smells" - it is YOUR nose that has gone bad, buddy.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (6 April 2011):

Odds agony auntThere's things I like better (boobies), but oral is enjoyable enough. I get a bigger kick from her reaction than from the actual act itself, so long or short kisses depend on her own preferences.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (6 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntYes to all! I love watching her tremble in anticipation. Know what else is good, gently blowing on them before going in for a kiss.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (6 April 2011):

Fatherly Advice agony auntyes, yes, both. It is better received if I get a close shave before.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

Are there any men here that like to kiss the vulva during foreplay?

- Oh yes!

If yes, you get a lot of pleasure out of it?

- Yes. Aside from the intimacy (how much more intimate can you get?) and the pleasure for her, the sight of a woman's vulva is incredibly erotic. Being allowed so close it's practically in IMAX is wonderful.

-When you do, do you give short quick pecks, or longer ones?

- I'm open to her guidance. Happy to do whatever seems to work or is being asked for.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

I would enjoy kissing her lips or nipples more. Call me old school but vagina is designed for penis IMO. I can finger to pleasure her but I don't like to kiss/lick it because it smell. I don't understand how some guys love to eat it. Their sense of smell must be pretty bad.

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A male reader, eek United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2011):

eek agony aunti love to kiss my girlfriend everywhere. If she is enjoying it im happy too :-)

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A male reader, macdubh712 United States +, writes (6 April 2011):

If a man says he does not enjoy kissing the vulva then he has gone stark mad. I like to kiss the vulva any time, any place baby!

Now that I have my initial response out, I want to say that I agree with Mr. Anonymous up there. His answer is great and synonymous with mine. It depends on timing, woman, mood. It can be short pecks, long pecks, gentle and slow french kissing, or just wet, sloppy, and intensely passionate french kissing. It's ALL good.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

In order:

Yes.

Yes.

Sometime short, sometimes longer, depends.

All of this though, depends on the timing, on the woman, my mood, etc.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (6 April 2011):

Illithid agony auntThere's not a part of a woman that I don't like to kiss. But yes, the entire nether region is kissable and yes I enjoy it. Quick pecks while being playful, longer kisses when getting going, teasing nibbles while working her up, whatever. As long as she likes it, I'm only too happy to kiss her lower lips for as long as she'll let me. The specifics of how, though, are something I'd have to work out with the girl I'm with, as I'm only having fun if she's having fun.

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