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writes: My girlfriend has issues about her body (mainly her breasts) and it seems to get worse by the day. We been together for a year. For example I never seen her naked (or her boobs) and we only allow make out (with our underwear still on).Once we were making out, she had bought this really cheap bra and we getting a bit out of hand, the next thing I knew her bra ripped and fell off. She cover herself up she made me not look while she find her shirt and went home. I don't want to pressure her but this insane. Also i think its her previous boyfriend fault because he treated like shit. With all the put downs and smacking her around (she dumped him as soon as he hit her) and she is afraid I might do it again. What do I do?
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 She definitely has self esteem issues to the highest degree. Not only that but she is emotional scarred from her ex boyfriend. This is not your fault, of course. Just tell her that she is beautiful every day. Comfort her, love her I'm sure you are doing all of these things. Maybe if you try not taking her clothes off, maybe after a while she'll take them off.But I do understand that its been a year... Just give her time to recuperate... from her devastating past... This can have a LOT of affect on girls. It takes us a long time to get over some things. Such as an abusive boyfriend. Especially if we loved them. Don't give up on her. She needs you. Like I said tell her she is beautiful. Be romantic and SINCERE. She will open up eventually. You just have to patch her together again. Love love love love love her. Hope I helped Christine ^.^
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