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Why does my live in boyfriend choose to masturbate to porn??

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Question - (6 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2008)
A female Canada age 51-59, *ropicalgal39 writes:

My boyfriend and I are both 38yrs old, we have been living together with our daughter for the past year. When we started to live together we made love regularly now a year later, weeks go by without us having sex. I have caught him masturbating while watching porn online several times and realise now that he has been making nightly visits to porn sites. It hurts like hell to think that we live together, I am ready and willing to be with him whenever he wants but he choose to masturbate to porn. We do make love but it ends up being only when he wants to. What should I do, is it that he gets more pleasure by masturbating or is it that he is just too damn selfish.

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A male reader, Ryan_Boxer United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2008):

Spice it up a bit ;)

You know:

Sexy Stockings

New underwear

Mess around with melted chocolate and stuff.

Randomly do things, if he's going for a shower before work, climb in there with him and see what happens.

Most men watch porn. I think about 96% was the last figure offically recorded. Men are horney devils and lust over everything.

I would do something funny like dress up as a nurse, creep up on him while hes watching porn, flick a whip and say "Wouldn't you prefer the real thing?" Haha I'm a guy and if a girlfriend did that to me, I would never watch porn again.

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