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He ejaculated pretty quickly... is that a bad thing?

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Question - (6 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been with my current boyfriend for a number of months and we are very much in love with eachother. Recently, we have started "doing stuff" and I gave him a wank.

He came after a very short period of time and commented on how fast it was. I realise guys are quite set on prolonging the whole experience and the longer you do, the more "manly" you are but I have no idea if the fact I made him cum so quickly is good thing. Does it mean I was good at it? Or did I do something wrong?

Thankyou

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A male reader, Nick Man United States +, writes (11 August 2008):

No no no, it is not at all relevent to how good you did it, or how young you are, and whatnot... It is that he is not using his pc muscles to prolong ejaculation!!!

What are "pc muscles?"

When a man stops peing midway on purpose, he is using his pc muscles. Regular excersizes of his pc muscles will definately lengthen his erection time by a landslide. For help on such things, I found an article on this from this website right here: __ http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm __

Really, if you want longer sex, have your man check out that site!

REALLY have him learn about PC muscles!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008):

He might not know that he can actually lengthen his erection time by squeezing his pc muscles--if a guy stops peing midway on purpose, he is using his pc muscles. tell him to excersize it by doing kagel excersizes and such.

It was not your falt whatsoever, it was him not knowing the ability in men to prolong for a very very long time his erection by use of his pc musceles.

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A female reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. United Kingdom +, writes (8 August 2008):

Tii3RN3Ybbs. agony auntwell,.

this could mean that its his first time and he liked it so much he ejaculated quickly x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

it's not a bad thing.. it means he doesn't masturbate and he's not used to it. so it feels good for him quickly because it's new. don't worry about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

Its not a problem, It could be down to many things, as you are in the early stages of a relationship and have only just started "doing stuff" he was probably excited and 99% the way there at the thought of it, It could also mean your good at it, or a mixture of both.

p.s. if you were no good at it you would have known from the screams lol

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