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writes:How do I give the best strip show for my boyfriend? I would love to do it for him, cause I know he would love me to .. but I am soooo stressed out, that I will mess up, or that I will look pathetic infront of him, since he saw strippers (via Bachelore parties) that know what they are doing .. and I don't! Please any ideas? I dont want to do anything crazy .. just someting every simple woman can handle! thx
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Ooo easy. First off, you will be much sexier to him than strippers since he loves you and probably finds you irresistable. Second, get a great song you can really really get into. One you feel most comfortable dancing to and the moves just come to you. Next, practice in the mirror. You can tell what looks good. Just be very teasing is the key, don't let him touch you until you say so, maybe start to kiss him or get close and back away. Maybe even give a lap dance. And get lingerie you really really love or a kind of sexy costume he may be into, like a cop for example. Don't worry about organizing it so much. Just kind of go with the music and practice in the mirror. If nothing else you can get the Carmen Electra sexercise videos. Supposedly it gives you tips and it's a bit more classy and sexier than strippers. He will love it though, trust me ! It'll be a lot of fun for both of you. Good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): You can be sexy without trying to mirror that pathetic industry. Why not find your own way? Would he do one for you after you had ogled male strippers, trying so sadly to measure up to those people? You are better, you are real flesh and blood. Buy yourself something sexy to wear. I once met myman wearing a full fishnet body stocking and he loved it. Ask yourself this: If he said to you that he would not really be interested in going to those strip clubs any more because you are the only girl he wants how would that be? The best ever? I mean, being realistic I know we all have to let some things go, but he really does have his cake and eat it doesn't he? He has you trying to live up to that hype and feeling rather insecure about it too. I feel sorry for us girls being told we have to put up with this, if I were starting again I would go for a man who found strippers, the sex industry and porn demeaning to women. There are men like that out there. Trouble is the more we accept and compete with it the more we devalue ourselves. Sorry for the moan. Be sexy just be yourself andyou will find a much better chance of being really sexy.
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reader, Mrs. Marshall +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Okay, go buy a sexy little outfit, something you know he will love!! Or just wear a bra and undewear, but sexy outfits always spice it up. Make him sit on a chair, and tell him he cant get up or touch you till you say. Turn on music you both like and jsut relax and start dancing and slowly removing your cloths. He will love it. Sometimes you can walk over to him and touch him or something. Also look it up online. Good Luck, Have fun! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Try googling it, google has some great sites with tips on. You just need to relax to some music that's sexy, but that you both like. If he thinks you look pathetic, then he's not a very nice guy to be with! He should love you for whatever you do.
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