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Does my size matter??

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Question - (28 February 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2007)
A male , anonymous writes:

my wife had other partners and was married.this is kind of hard as it is, I feel our sex life is out of this world but she has told me some things that make me feel insecure. I know she didnt mean to hurt my feelings but she told me her ex-husband had a long penis and couldnt put it all the way in or it would hurt her. she told me I am a perfect fit and feel great because of my girth. should I feel this way? or is she just trying to make me feel good about myself. I am average lenght size I guess. women please tell your opinion on this .....thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

I've enjoyed sexual relationships with several different men, and 7 inches is the longest I've felt relaxed with. It's definately the thickness that matters most. That lovely "filled up" feeling is so satisfying that you don't need to reach orgasm to come away smiling.

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A female reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (5 March 2006):

beentheredonethat agony auntUmmm...size does matter very much. If he's too big...and it hurts it is not fun. I too do not acommodate large men...they hurt me and it feels like I am haveing cramps for three or four days afterward. I honestly thought I did not care much for sex in my young days...I managed to pick several boyfriends who were monster size for my first encounters with sex. Imagine my surprise and joy at finding a man with a much smaller penis for the first time. (he was much older than I was and not someone I should have been playing with...but I will always be thrilled he came into my life and Taught me that with his very normal size...things were really hot and not painful)

I am very up front and selective when I consider a new lover....and no THEY better not be hung like a pepsi bottle.

Yes...Size matters very much and every woman has a different level of accomodation range.

BEEEEE HAAAPPPPPY! You guys fit perfectly...and you don't have to deal with all the ouch issues!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2006):

If I thought my partner has a longer pe*** than I can accomodate, I'd be very scared to have se* with him!! I'd choose what'd bring me pleasure than what might hurt me (quite obvious!).

You and your wife have a good thing going. Your wife was probably giving you a compliment when she said what she said! :-)

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2006):

smeedle agony auntWhat on earth are you worrying about, sex for you and your partner is good.

What your wife was sharing with you was that sex with the last bloke was not as pleasant as it is with you because it hurt and pain is not good!

So get a grip, be thankful for your compatability with your wife and continue to enjoy sex.

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A reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (28 February 2006):

Rebecca Batchelor agony auntYou say sex is out of this world. You say your wife says you are the perfect fit and I say you have nothing at all to worry about.

Width is often more important to women than length. What is the point in having a long penis if it can't go all the way in? Women do not enjoy that; they prefer the width so they feel filled up (sorry if that sounds a bit crude but that's the facts!) I think your lady is very happy with you.

If I was you, I would try to put to the back of your mind about her ex husband and continually remind yourself that you are the perfect fit; he actually wasn't.

What you have with your wife now is what is important; not the past. The quality of your sex life such as the passion, romance, intensity, etc, is much more significant than anything else. Enjoy what you have!

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