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writes:Hey all,I know this is going to sound a bit silly or immature, but.. I'm leaving my partner next week to go to new Zealand for 3 weeks. This has been booked for just over a year and we got together just under a year ago, unfortunately due to his line of work he has been unable to get the time off. I guess I am just needing a bit of reassurance about going that way without him, feeling guilty that he will be at home while I'm over there, being used to his cuddles everyday. I'm really dreading leaving him. Has anyone out there been in a similar position? I totally trust him 110% so it's not even that! Why am I so down about this holiday of a lifetime?
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reader, chick989 +, writes (18 November 2010):
not at all silly hun. my boyfriend of two years were due to go on hols this summer but we finished as we were having many problems. Five weeks ago we met up after a few months apart and instantly wanted each other back. since being away from me he booked a holiday to america with his friend and went last week for 2 weeks. we have been skyping and texting everyday and both missing eachother like mad. says his only wish is that i could be there and so do i. at the end of the day u have to look at the bigger pic - it's 3 weeks which will feel like a long time when you're there but in the big scheme of things you've got your whole futute together where u can have many holidays x
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (17 November 2010):
 It doesn't sound silly, your in a close relationship.
However, have you thought about how short 3 weeks is?!
My partner of 2 years had to go away to Germany to work for 3 months recently and that was awful, but I survived :-)
It it totally fine to go away without him, you will see him in a short time! Hopefully he wont want you to miss this experience! :-)
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