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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didnt do anything with the guy at all so no problems with that... :)... I just feel bad for meeting with another guy at all...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): Tell this guy the truth. Also i think, and don't take this the wrong way, that you need to be a bit more mature seeing as you're an adult. Maybe be a bit more wise when choosing who you fool around with. Also, you're an adult so your step dad's opinion counts for 0.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Easy, sometimes all you have to do is ignore his calls and they get the idea if you don't feel like being confrontational. Although, you may have a guy who doesn't get it so it's best to be clear..that you're just not interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI met with the guy and it was totally weird. He was sweet and all but he reminded me wayyyyyy to much of my exboyfriend. Plus all i could think about was my "friend". I feel so bad i know its not conventional to feel that way cause he did say i could see other people, but i guess its just who i am. Now my only problem is how to tell the guy i met that im not that interested in him. I feel like a trap to tell the truth. Please help, Im so lost. Gahhhh... :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): DEFFINATELY NOTT !!!!!!!!!!!! if he says you can date whoever you want & your only friends then later along the road he shouldnt get mad if your exploring your options. if he does so try to connect with him.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 November 2010):
You're 18-21 an adult that is perfectly capable of making her decisions. That is your stepfather's belief, not yours. He doesn't need to be up to date on your love/sex life.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 November 2010):
No because you're not bound in a FWBs. FWBs is just sex with no strings attached..no emotion, no obligations to each other. You're free to do and see whomever you please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not really them im worried about it is my stepdad. He is old school and when i say old i mean old and he is a firm believer in the rule of one. If i am "seeing" one i should stick with him. Even if its not offical.
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reader, PurityChild +, writes (22 November 2010):
 No way! If this guy that is so called considered your "friend" does not care what you do then go ahead and have fun girl. Dont worry about it, he is probably hooking up with girls himself. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): No, seeing as it sounds like you and this guy are just casual "buddies" or FWBs then it isn't considered cheating. Unless you have decided to be exclusive then do what you like.
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