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I am in a long distance relationship and want to move to be with him. I want a break to get my head round this to make sure I'm doing the right thing. Am I being unreasonable?

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Question - (11 February 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 years and it is a long distance relationship. we live a little over an hour from each other. I am thinking about moving up there but i think i need to take a break first for a few months to get my head straight and make sure this is what i want to do. is this a good idea and how to i tell him without him thinking that i dont love him anymore???

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntIt's the right thing to do. Next time you're together (not on the phone) tell him how you feel. Let him know you love him and you see yourself moving to be with him but you need to be 100 per cent sure that you're making the right decision. Let him know there's no one else involved but you just feel you need the break to see if you miss him.

If he really loves you then he'll respect your wishes and give you all the time you need.

Good luck in your decision.

Eve

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