A
male
age
36-40,
*uke domachowski
writes:I have been with my fiancee for 10 months. After new year all she did was go down town with her friends all the time. We live a long distance from each other and we used to spend every weekend together but latly she would rather go to the pub. Also she will go to the pub all night all the time and when it comes to keeping in touch im having to ring her! She will tell me i dont want her to go out and have a good time. but shes always out. We neva talk on the phone or anything no more its rare she ever rings me! My mates all told me that she is cheating on me or going off me. but i just dont know what to do any more. When she goes clubbing she never wants me there. She also said the reason she dont go out with me because she never has any money, but shes always got money to go out with her friends. I just need some advice what to do
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Look at the facts: you used to spend every weekend together now she prefers to go to the pub with her mates, rarely rings you, says she hasn't any money to see you, is always out clubbing... come on, it's perfectly obvious, she's moved on and is too cowardly to break it off with you so she's treating you this way so you'll break it off with her.
If I were you I'd stop ringing her. Don't get in touch, take it that it's over and if she does call then tell her you're busy! She aint worth it love.
Eve
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