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writes:is there anyone who reads this in the army or navy? do the guys stay faith full to there girlfriends?my fella went away 2 months ago and hes now more relaxed and getting used to been away he doesnt really call me that much any more but trys to email everyday... and calls bout 3 times a week!i feel like hes a bit distant at the moment and im worried what if he is getting used to been away from me! im so confused.i told him how i feel he just says im been silly and hes busy and he loves me and hel be home soon! but i cant help feel like this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Calling you 3 times a week! Lucky girl! My boyfriend is away on his deployment with the Royal Navy and calls once/twice a week and emails every day. I miss him so much. Really, if you know that you want to be with him you must put 100% into the relationship which I'm sure you are - imagine if you were away from home for such a long period of ime - you'd want little presents and cards etc to remind you of home. I know what you're going through. It is so tough. Try not to lose confidence in yourself - remember he loves you - evidently by the fact he is calling you so much (three times a week is ALOT whilst the boys are away). You'll be fine honey, just try not to dwell on the fact he is away and try to persevere with your own dreams/life/job etc - perfect opportunity to do your own thing/meet up with old friends etc whilst he is away. Good luck and before you know it he'll be back in your arms! Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): My boyf is away in Afghanistan so I know how hard it is when they are away for so long. You could try sending him little personal things, maybe photos of you both together on special occaisions or favourite places/holidays. You could also try sending him saucy gifts to get him thinking. You will always be in his mind anyway, and I don't think for one minute that he is not missing you as much as always, but there is nothing wrong with a bit of extra encouragement!
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reader, cherry123 +, writes (28 February 2007):
i dont think you have anything to worry about he is still keeping in touch with you when he can he would be very busy and tired in this kind of job just make the most of it when you do get the opportunity to see him although i do understand you will probably miss him alot.
just try to stop worrying and make the most of your own free time such as hanging out with you friends and having a good time
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 I don't think that you have anything to worry about! If he is in basic training, he is kept so busy with all the routines from day to day. He has no time to even get homesick, and by the end of each day, the only think for him to think about is going to sleep! You said that he is emailing you every day, and calling 3 times a week! I think that is good...at least he is calling you (he IS thinking of you!)
So, rest assured...you have nothing to worry about!
Peace and hugs
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