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writes:i'm 16. ok so i really really like this guy. he's just so amazing! i've liked him for almost a year now. on the last day of school he found out i liked him. he liked me a little to. we hung out and we talked and decided to just be friends. i was ok with that. we hung out twice more and we had so much fun. we even flirted a little and we were getting really close. i thought he might like me a little again, but then i find out that he acted the same way to one of my best friends. that shows he flirts a lot with other girls. now for some reason, i feel a little awkward. i'm scared to text him now. it just feels awkward to me, so i haven't talked to him in about two weeks. anyway, i can't stop thinking about him. my friends say that i should just get over him, but its easier said then done. i've tryed to get over him, i've tryed to like other guys, but i just keep thinking of him. i've never felt this way about a guy before. my friend says to just date someone else, but i don't want to date someone i don't like. i hate this feeling i'm having. i feel sadness, pain, and a little regret. How do I get over this guy, or is it even the right thing to do by getting over him?
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 Every time I break it off with somebody - everybody tells me to date somebody else. I am not like that, I don't just fall to anybodys feet. I like serious relationships and I don't want a relationship that will ultimately end in a month from now.. Anywho, this guy does sound like a flirt. He seems as if he is playing with your feelings. One minute he likes you and the next he doesn't, and the next he is flirting with you?He is playing you hot and cold girl, and don't have it. Kick him to the curb while you can. You don't want to play these games, trust me I have learned the hard way.It may not be easy to get over him like that, but do you really want to hold onto something you may never have? Or have him treat you like a queen one minute, and then hooks up with another girl the next?I want you to look into the future for a minute here.There are a lot of guys out there, but that doesn't mean you have to rush into a relationship with them. There is nothing wrong with being single - somebody else will come into your life.Take carexxxx
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