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I'm really confused as to whether I'm bisexual or not...

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Question - (28 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

heyx i am a girl with morals, for example, want to wait to have sex until marriage or at least until i am properly in love. Though i do so many things which go completely against this, like i watch porn and masturabate with my hairbrush. Does this mean that i won't be able to wait? Also, i have a best freind who i get on with so well, but i'm sometimes scared that i get on with her too well. I mean, we have made videos together where we touch each others boobs (not too extreme) but i really enjoy it. i don't think i will ever do anything with this freind, though the idea of it is a real turn on for me. And sometimes we joke about having a threesome together and i get really turned on by her. I also get really turned on by, for example, lesbians having sex, though i do like men as well. so does this make me bisexual? i am really confused.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009):

well kiddo, i definately know where your coming from. Not to sure about the friend thing, but as far as being Bi-sexual, i just quit putting a label on it. Im currently in a relationship (with a boy) and have been for almost 2 years, love him to death and oh so turned on just by looking at him!

but there was a time before that when i was 17 and in high school. i was in love and her name was luisana. she was the world to me. i never thought of what i was or wasnt. gay straight, bi sexual... i didnt care. i loved her, and thats all that mattered. i havent been in a relationship with a woman since, i dont think i will ever again, BUT i still daydream of being physical with women. doesnt necessarily mean im bi-sexual, but that definatly doesnt make me straight:/ the way i like to look at it is one human being wanting to be with another;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009):

Well i think your problem is that you have a very close relatioship with you best friend, however don't let it get out of hand to much because you could be finding yourself in a sustuaion where one of you falls in love with the other. It has happened in many cases before where the friends start off dong sexual things as a joke but start to become serouis. And i don't think God will not forgive you because you masturabate and watch porn at the end of the day we are all human.

I think you are a very strong girl waiting until marriage, but if you do break your morals by having sex i don't think God will hate you for it. Good Luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009):

Well i think your problem is that you have a very close relatioship with you best friend, however don't let it get out of hand to much because you could be finding yourself in a sustuaion where one of you fall in love with the other. It has happened in many cases before where the friends start off dong sexual things as a joke but start to become serouis. And i don't think God will not forgive you because you masturabate and watch porn at the end of the day we are all human.

I think you are a very strong girl waiting until marriage, but if you do break your morals by having sex i don't think God will hate you for it. Good Luck x

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