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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been single for about 6 months. I really like a male friend, and have done for ages. We get on really well and share loads of interests and I really fancy him - however he's got a girlfriend so I'll never let him know I feel like this and have resigned myself to the fact he's just not available unless his current relationship ever comes to an end. I have no idea how he feels. Lately I've spent a lot of time with a mutual friend and we get on really well but I'd never thought of him as anything other than a friend, until the other night when kissed me. It felt wierd as I'd never thought of him like that, but it made me start to think about whether I did fancy him. Nothing else happened for a couple of days until we talked about it and ended up sleeping together. Since then I've just been really confused as he's a great friend and I don't want to ruin that, but also we do get on so well that we would probably be really good together. Plus, I have found myself missing him when we're not together. The only problem is I still really, really like the other guy and even though he's not available, I don't know if it's fair to go out with someone knowing that you definitely like someone else close to you better. And as we're all friends that's just quite a rubbish situation. However, he's completely unavailable but if I thought there was even a chance for us to be together in the future I would happily stay single until that happened. Aaargh, I don't know what to do! Reply to this Question
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