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13-15,
*opefulYouth
writes:friends who dont like you being friends with other flamen people!im sick to death of this. seriously. my so called best mates have a go at me over being out with someone older than them. making me hide the fact im out with him from them so they dont have a go at me but they always find out. recently my so called best mate told him i was obsessed with him :S which he now believes so i have deleted his number his msn and his bebo there aint a chance in hell of getting back in touch. i dont wanna not be mates with him but my so called best mates have left me no choice what so ever. thing is my other best mate gets to go out with him whenever she wants and talk about him , yet none of my so called best mates have anything to say to her about it. just me. they have a huge problem with me being with him. yes ino that i shouldnt lie to my ‘best mates’ but they really dnt see that they make me feel like i have to , just to divide my time btween them and him. its always my fault. so now ive fallen out with him they still are not happy. ‘we never said we didnt like yous being mates’ so i fell out with him to make them happy and stop all these problems but no im still in the wrong somehow :S its really gettin me down. am not allowed to talk about my problems anymore , coz most of them consist of arguements with him. so now i have to bottle everything up stop talking and not be friends with him to keep my so called best mates happy. :( im constantly stuck.
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reader, Samii + ♥, writes (1 July 2009):
 I don't think that these people are really good friend you should tell them how your feeling about what they are doing or even just tell one of them. Is it possible that this other girl may fancy him and that is why they didn't want you to go out with him as it never left your friend any time with him to get to know each other. xx
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