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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My bestfriend of 10 years has a girlfriend now. I always had a boyfriend but up until the guy im wit i never thought of anything serious. He is the only boy i trust with no doubts and the only person who can bring a smile on my face at the worst of times. Now at the same time we used to date a Long time ago but we were young im not saying i want it different but everytime i see him with her he looks happy and as his bestfriend i want him happy ....right? Idk i just need to get it together cause i cant really be his friend and be happy for him if i think im jelous?? Thats werird cause the guy im with im happy with so why do i roll my eyes instead of smile when i see him happy? We cant be friends because im in love with you
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Could it be that you are just having withdrawals? This guy who you have been telling all of your secrets to and visa versa, now has a new lady who has entered the picture.
You used to have all of his attention, now you have to share him with this other girl.
I actually think this is normal. It's a change in your relationship that is ineviatable as you guys get older. He is already used to you dating, now you have to get used to him dating too.
You can still be friends with him, girls come and girls will go but best friends will remain!
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reader, sophiemarie  +, writes (28 June 2009):
well im in the sam situation my best freind who is a boy has just started seeing someone and it really hit me hard when he told me but iv been with boys while his liked me the thing that is happening with you is youv only just realized you are in love with this boy and i think what you are needing to do is sit down with this lad and tell him how your feeling to get it of your chest and if his a real friend he will understand and give you a hug and will help you get over your feelings so you can move on and be happy with your boyfriend
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