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*rog0000
writes:So I met this girl about three weeks ago. I have been with her solid for those three weeks like being at her apartment and sleeping in her bed. we have had sex 3 times and she gave me keys to her apartment. I told her i loved her and she said she loved me. Now the fourth week she says she needs some space, and that we are moving too fast and i gave her the keys back. She said that her heart is so far away from being ready to be given what does that mean?? what should I do?? should I bug her? I'm willing to wait, I love her so much it hurts...
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reader, Hersong +, writes (2 July 2009):
I fell in love with a guy instantly. The sad thing is people rarely both love wach other. But i heard love is not just nothing that something always comes from love. Also analyze your feelings figure out why you have feelings for her and also figure out what she likes about you, you obviously know she does not like when you are obsessive and crowding so don't do that anymore. But she did like something about you otherwise you wouldn't have been together and be patient. I'm sure things will turn around. Also try to focus on being the kind of person that would make her happy. With Love Sandra
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reader, LoveStruckTeen2010 +, writes (30 June 2009):
Hey man what's up, alright well I'm not really in the same age group as you I'm 17 but I can relate to those feelings. Trust me you can fall in love in 3 weeks its not abnormal I did. But not only need to love her you need to be a man sometimes. I totally understand where you're coming from cause I'm going through it right now and I've been with this girl for almost a year and I fell in love with her almost instantly it was love at first sight. but make her see you can be all lovey dovey with her sometimes but when she says I need space that means there is too much love being given you need to go hang out with your bros and live a little but stay faithful just go have some good old shit faced fun. Don't say I love you as much, say goodnight instead of I love you sweetie sweet dreams. If she said it you're obviously going in the right direction but just take it a bit slower and she's yours bro trust me I went through the same thing. It's gonna work if you just be you and make sure there is balance in your life 50/50 girl/friends and family Good luck man hit me up with a message if you need to talk about it I hate to see guys go through this cause girls can just be so ruthless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): You certainly cannot fall in love with someone after just 3 weeks!!! you need to spend a little more time getting to know her. She may not be what she appears to be who knows.
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reader, indianna  +, writes (30 June 2009):
sounds like a classic case of commitment. the initial stages of a relationship should be cherished. it's a honeymoon period and you should enjoy it for what it is with out trying to rush in t0 anything more serious too quickly. if she wants space then give her space. it may be hard but she'll appreciate it and respect you so much more if you do. if it's meant to be it will be. don't put pressure on her, it will only drive her away. she's said that she loves you so just be happy with that for now. give it time. it will work out
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