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Maybe I'm not good looking enough for her? How to get over this?

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Question - (15 December 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2015)
A male Bulgaria age 26-29, *tanev writes:

Hello!

So basically I've developed some insecurity issues lately because my girlfriend dumped me without explaining why.

I tried asking her but it was to no avail she just won't tell me.I really did treat her well,

I spent all of my free time with her,even took time out of my hectic schedule for her and by that I mean I skipped out on classes and so on.

I don't think she's in love with someone else.

I really did my best to make her happy and she did seem to be so I can't figure it out-why would she break up with me?The only possible reason that I have actually been pondering lately is my appearance.Maybe I'm not good looking enough for her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2015):

Maybe you should forget about her and get on with studying.

Maybe it wasnt smart to skip classes to spend time with her.

Finally you ve got a chance to catch up on all that work you missed out on.

Maybe its time to get your face out of the mirror and to complete your essays and asignments you skipped.

Maybe she doesnt want to be blamed for you dropping out of your courses or maybe she came to her senses and realised that romeo and juliette didnt accomplish anything other than a funeral.

Maybe she has work to do and maybe while you are thinking its your face she realised that you were both on a dead end course.

So hurry up, forget about the girl and yourself and plan yourself a better future.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2015):

Maybe she realized too late that she didn't want a boyfriend. Maybe she missed her freedom. Maybe she just wanted to go back to dating or flirting with no sex or strings attached. Maybe she missed her friends or her time alone. Maybe the honeymoon stage was over and she didn't know how to tell you. I don't think its you.

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