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36-40,
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writes:So me and my now ex-gf have been going through a pretty ugly split. We argue and insult each other and try to sabotage each others self-esteem. She was bad to me during the relationship and now even when Im trying to get out of it she still torments me. I try to avoid her and she starts telling my friends "Im not man enough to see her" and then I tell her I never really had genuine feelings for her and used her, and then she sends that message from me to her friends and they all tell me off. Its just a really bad situation. How do I get all this stuff to stop and start getting over her for real?
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reader, perla  +, writes (17 July 2009):
you know to talk with her , you are doing no favours to each other by being nasty and its only going to cause more pain, why put up with that? walk away with your head held high, tell her to please stop getting in touch and stirring things with your friends. but you also have to stop the nastiness to , and let go. Its not worth it and you are only delaying the bitterness. You wont be able to move on until you both stay away from each other. If you cant be friends , then cut it now!
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