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Is there really any point to trying at a relationship if there is no trust ?

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Question - (25 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2007)
A male age 30-35, *fwolves78 writes:

hey guys thanks again. i was just curious as to what u guys thought about trust. i was with a girl and we are now on a "break". and during this time she is talking to any guy that looks at her. now i hear that she "likes" one of them. if hell freezes over and she comes back, i will not trust her AT ALL and will always assume the first in all situations. this is due to past lies, etc. is it worthless to even try if there is no trust? and no she cant gain my trust again, im too far gone in that department. thanks in advance!

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A male reader, ady Syrian Arab Republic +, writes (25 January 2007):

ady agony auntwhen you want to see chose the suitable place to inssur the good ability to see every thing clear; So i think every thing build on strong basis will be strong enough.

take good dicision.

best regard;

ady

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A female reader, Adelaide +, writes (25 January 2007):

Adelaide agony aunt

Hi

It sounds to me like you have already made your mind up with this lady!

However, it could have just been a silly game on her part to get a reaction from you. Relationships are not about silly games they are about trust, expressing yourself, having the respect and understanding that you both deserve.

It appears to me that if she was playing games, then it has back fired on her.

Stay clear keep your cool find yourself somebody who can be as honest and true as you appear to be.

If you do take her back then make it clear from the start that you will not tolerate her silly shannigans.

Good Luck and Best Wishes

Adelaide

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A male reader, Dr. Reality Check United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2007):

Dr. Reality Check agony auntYes, it is worthless to try in a relationship that has no future.

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