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Why does he only comment on Facebook when I comment on Facebook?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - This guy I used to talk to and had a bad falling out with started dating my friend and I don't really talk to them anymore. But whenever I comment on anything on her facebook wall (which I barely ever do in the first place. He feels the need to start commenting on it too. He... (119 words

Should I tell my new guy about the FWB arrangement with his friend?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I share a flat with one of my mates and two guy friends let's call them bob and Steve. So we hang out with my guy friends,friends quite a lot and me and one of his friends, let's call him john for now have gotton really close. After a party where I admit I was drunk me and John ... (199 words

I gave a man my number and he never called...how do I avoid him now?

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27 April 2011 (F age - the man that i was intrested in .i gave him my number but have not heard anything from him it has been about 3 weeks now . which i figured that he would do this . i miss church sunday and my friends said that he came without his mother in law an sat down at the other end of the ... (177 words

What should I do? Should I Forgive Him For Watching Porn?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't knoe what to do? I do feel weak and feel like going back to him, but this break ups always happen, but now i really need to think about it, i need help. Ever since we started out, he would leave me home and he would go drink with his friends and come home drunk to me... (873 words

My mother in law is so controlling...am I being unreasonable?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - im married traditionally, my husbnd doesnt work. i live with him and his mom. his mom is so bossy that she controls him more than anyone. he is now so dependent on her that he cant find a job. how do i get him to trust me more than he trusts her. is it fair that she is tryin... (89 words

My husband lies about porn and looking at other women...I feel like he's a different person with me.

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband is always telling me that he looks at other women but does not drool or make inappropriate comments about them. The other day i called my husband and his phone was in his pocket and picked up without him knowing. I heard him talking to his friends about another woman ... (232 words

Seeking: one agony aunt to help with complicated relationship problem

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27 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - ok i have a few problems with an ex girlfriend becuase we want to get back together but a few things have happened and now im reconsidering everything and i would like some input from a different point of view (not friends or family). the problem is i have a lot of diff... (162 words

My gf eats with her mouth open, how to make her pay attention to what;s bothering me?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i'm in a long distance relationship with my gf of 4 months... she's cute and all, but the problem is that sometimes when she eats, she does that with her mouth open... i am very well mannered, and i hate it when people do weird stuff esp while eating( sounds and all tha... (110 words

I have desires to cheat on my husband. I don't want to feel like this and he doesn't deserve this!

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I don't know if I should have ever gotten married. Marriage was never something I strived for in life, but when my husband (then boyfriend) asked me to marry him, I was very in love with him and very happy so I said yes, even though I didn't really care whether we were married ... (806 words

I want to be happy since our breakup but I'm not sure how to be!

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me on mid Dec. It has been truly hard for me because I do love her. She has acted like a royal c*nt because i refused to stay friends. I mantained no contact for a while... recently, I have picked up the phone when she calls, all she does is rubbing her new ... (234 words

I don't trust my boyfriend

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I will try and keep this as short as possible. In my last relationship, I done something horrific regretted it completely straight away but it happened and there wasn't anything I could do to change it once it had happened. I was dating a pretty amazing guy for about 7 ... (320 words

I feel unsure and guilty about this situation with my friend

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've had a close male friend for over 2 years now. When we first started the friendship there was lots of confusion about what kind of relationship was developing. A kind of are we arnt we sort of thing. At this time my friend (lets call him Ben) was in a relationship with a ... (762 words

Birth control without my parents!

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 17 and i want to get on birthcontrol but i dont want my parents to know because i dont what them to think im having sex everytime im alone with my boyfriend. So how do i go about getting birthcontrol without my parents???... (45 words

My same-sex best friend is in love with me, and I don't feel the same.

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Here goes, I think that my best friend is in love with me. Today, she posted something on my facebook wall and it just did it. We are both female, I'm 19 and she is 20. We both used to be really close friends, until she moved about 400 miles away to spend time with he... (538 words

Problems With My Boyfriend or Am I Just Overreacting And Need to Chill?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Let me start off with this, he says that he loves me all of the time. In the past, he has always done so much for me but lately I feel like I'm trying to better the relationship and he doesn't care. I'm the one that drives to see him (he doesn't have a car), I pay for my own ... (302 words

Could he be the right person for me, even though the attraction is lacking?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Thank you so much to everyone that helps me with this problem... This has been bothering me for some time now. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. The majority of our relationship is so great. We live together, and we still know how to keep the roma... (427 words

Conflict with my mother that she seems unwilling to resolve

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27 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - What can you do ,if someone does not want to resolve a conflict, and when you offer your solution for it, they don't care. Yet they think, they are right, and you can never get thru to them. My mother is blaming me for many thing , and it is damaging to me. But ,when I as... (232 words

He started ignoring me...... for no reason..!

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I have been seeing a guy for a few months. He's one of my closest friends and also a classmate. We have been there for each other through a lot. he started flirting me within a few months we met and always use to say that i m very important to him. I didnt take him... (222 words

The dating has been going well, but no intimacy?

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27 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for two months. He is 41, twice married and has five children. We see each other about 3 times a week and everything is going well with one exception...no physical intimacy! I have asked him about this and he has reassured me twice now that he d... (252 words

Does this sound one-sided to you?

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27 April 2011 (? age 36-40 - I've known my roommate from college for 8 years now. I've been to her place numerous of times, but she has never come to my house. Back in college, when I first met her, we didn't live together. I mostly went to her dorm. Finally she did go to my dorm once or twice but I mostly ... (191 words

Text messages on girlfriend's phone have me upset!

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27 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - ok so i wanna know if im over reacting i picked up my girlfriends phone last week and saw a couple of messages.. from guys but i'm not sure if they are ex boyfriends of hers or not but what got to me the most was they were sending kisses and she sent them back? am i over reac... (71 words

How do I get this unfaithful guy out of my system? Any suggestions appreciated please

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Am really unhappy. I meet someome 6 months ago, and felt in love with him. He had a girlfriend who he said was treating him mean. Like an idiot I listened to his problems - then we would make love. He left the country and promised to come back and we would live together... (93 words

How can I show my gratitude to a teacher who has gone above and beyond for me?

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - What can I do to show/tell my teacher how much she helped me? Basically, I was disapointed with my last set of Chemistry results. (one mark off an A)In March we had the next set of exams. I asked my teacher to help with revision. So she sat with me for hours after school eve... (134 words

I think b/f is cheating and chatting online

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - i have a gut feeling my boyfriend is chatting on chatlines and talking to other girls. he alwas says i am rejecting him,and whats wrong...did i do something wrong.never tells me his work schedule,says he is always working or sleeping r these red flags?????... (44 words

Any way to figure out a baby's father before the baby is born?

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27 April 2011 (? age 30-35 - dear cupid, is there any possible way to figure out who a baby's father is before the baby is actually born??? or, do you just have to wait until after the baby shows up???... (37 words

Is a vast age-gap between friends strange?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey all I work in a shop a couple of days a week, and there's a man who works there as well sometimes, and we talk a bit now and then. Last week he asked me for my e-mail address (in a friend-type way, nothing romantic or suggestive) and I gave it to him because I didn't... (187 words

Is he into me as a girl friend? or does he just want to make out at his home?.

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for a while now, we talked almost every night, flirted a lot as wel. Last week, we kissed, I completely loved it. However, after we said goodbye he texted me asking me round his house sometime, so we could make-out again. I really thought he liked me, and ... (74 words

Is it really over and how to heal a heartbreak?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been seriously dating this guy for a while. We started off with me still being in a relationship with my ex. Within a month or two, I broke things off with my ex and had full intentions of being committed to this new guy. I've always had issues with letting go of my ... (344 words

He lies about his whereabouts!

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay, I'll try and keep this short and sweet and thank you to those bothering to help 3 I've been with my boyfriend 7 months, both 16 years old, and we got together in a way some people may think as wrong. He was with a girl for a month, but they hardly spoke or anything. Rea... (443 words

Is he just too nervous to do anything about things?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Sorry if its long and confusing A few weeks ago I realised that i had feelings for one of my male friends. We have been friends for a few months now, and one night when we were in each others company these feelings just suddenly appeared. And to me it was like he felt the... (628 words

Its been 3 months since we broke up, can I wish him a happy birthday?

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27 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Split up with my fella after 7 months - he said he thought the world of me but needed to be alone, wanted space, couldnt handle our relationship as he wasn't over his ex - they havn't got back together and won't be, i agreed to give him space, it's been 9 long agonising ... (122 words

Love my girlfriend... Hate my girlfriend.

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm currently in uni and she works full ... (964 words

My boyfriend lied about sleeping with a close friend while we were seeing each other.

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently confessed that he slept with a close female friend of his. It's a little bit complicated because this girl, C, was a long time girlfriend of one of the other guys in their group of friends and she and him would often spend time alone together and still did ... (704 words

How do you know if your boyfriend is over their ex-wife for good?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am having a baby with my bf of 1 year. He is at the end of a divorce - the last part - third final papers. Before I fell pregnant I thought he was already divorced. Turns out they were separated for four years and as soon as he got with me he started the process of filing for ... (274 words

My boyfriend's gay friend asked him for sex! Does this mean he is gay too?

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and everytime I open his account he ask me not to open his messages and comments . I was so curious that day that I replied to a gay friend of him and ask why, then I was shocked when that gay answered "where are you now ,could we have sex ?". I was really ... (82 words

I think I am gay but I don't want to be! What can I do?

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27 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 18 years old. As question title says, I think I am gay. What can do I about this, if I don't want to be gay? I want to be straight, have a wife, family, kids. What makes me think that I am gay, is the fact, that I do not want sex with any female, even those whom I c... (139 words

Should I leave?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - So..I am in a same sex relationship. My partner and I have been together for 10 years. 4 years ago she had an emotional affair with someone and without going into the full details, she ended any communication a year ago and has been suffering from some depression durin... (343 words

How do I move on? I need to get her out of my mind for my kids sake....

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27 April 2011 (M age 51-59 - I am 40 years old and married with my 35 years old wife for 17 years.we have 4 children and our relationship was not going good.ten months ago my wife had an outburst and she left me leaving our 4 children with me to look after.she said to me she was very unhappy with our ... (190 words

Does this FWB thing make me a slut?

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Last year, I got to know a guy in my class, S (lets call him that for now) We hit it right off and became really good friends. To the extent that we had people asking us every few days "are you guys going out?" Our friendship progressed and we started talking dirty on the phone ... (305 words

What should I do? Just ignore him for a while and hope he gets over whatever is bothering him?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi all Basically just curious as to your thoughts on this situation which happened to me the other day. I was at university and was standing with a group of friends after class. The guy that sometimes hangs out with us was standing behind us so i turned around to include... (370 words

Why would he have this type of porn on his computer?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I found heaps of Asian porn on my husbands computer. Now I am worried he prefers them to me and I am getting very upset about it. Everytime we go out I am worried he is perving at them and preferring them to me. We fight about it all the time. I am blonde and attractive and I ... (77 words

How do you think I should interpret his behavior? And how should I respond if I do like him?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - So, there's a guy in my class who I think is starting to like me. It seems like since the guy I used to like left the school, this other guy is doing a lot of things that seem like flirting. But I can't tell if he's just messing around or if he actually likes me... Befo... (365 words

What is the meaning of what he said to me?

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27 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - I met a man on facebook and suddenly started to like each other. He lives very far from here and we are realistic about the few possibilities of meeting. The only thing I want to ask is this: one day he told me something that I couldn´t understand well and it´s driving me ... (135 words

She said she will never have feelings for me, but I cant stop believing! Help!

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27 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - The story goes like this. There's this girl I really like, or love at the present. We knew each other 1 year ago. At that time, she just broke up with her boyfriend but then they patched up. At that time, I felt I was so close to have her and became desperate, so I confessed to ... (327 words

I'm worried my boyfriend will spend more time with his baby brother or sister when it arrives than me!

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 yrs now and we are very happy however he gives me attention and stuff, he has a twin sister and they are both 20 turning 21 soon, so for 20 years they didnt have a younger sibling just the two of them, now their mother is pregn... (384 words

Do you think he had me in mind at all when he started writing such things on his page?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - After a year I finally had to walk away from my boyfriend who I was in love with. He was addicted to weed, verbally abusive and had severe mood swings and manipulated me. He is very spiteful and hurt me so much through the relationship, but I did love him. He has a fanpage on... (165 words

Could this end well for us?

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27 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - She's family... more like my own sister, yep, she's my cousin... We've known each other since 2007, we had been flirting since then, until we finaly kissed in 2009, from that moment, we both realised that we were madly in love... She says she's found 'all she needs in a Man', ... (82 words

Why does my ex keep contacting me, when he's the one who ended it?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - As I've posted before, I dated a guy for a short time last year. He ended things as he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and wanted to be single. I'm 24 and he's 22. I was disappointed but let him go, but you can't force someone to be with you. I never contacted him again. ... (270 words

Is my relationship going anywhere?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - i have a few questions about my girlfriend. im a lesbian been with my girlfriend just before xmas and we have commitment rings, her idea but yes i know you should take things slow but it feels like we going to slow sometimes. i only stay at hers once a week but we meet for the ... (453 words

I had an online status that said I had been seeing him, and now he wont see me anymore! Please help me understand why....

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27 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - hi i've been seeing a guy for 6 weeks we both agreed on just fun with each other. we seen each other once a week which was ok, we had great chat as well and enjoyed each others company. i didnt see him the other night and couldnt get hold of him so i put it on a social site ... (137 words

What does this mean? Has he blocked me on MSN?

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27 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi This is a question about msn really. When i first met my bf we talked lots on msn every night we werent seeing each other and it progressed to skype about 5 months ago. Now and again i pop onto msn to see if he's added anyone and check him out etc. I realised he'd ad... (134 words

How can I feel more open to say the sexual things that are on my mind?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am very shy even tho i have been with my fiance for a little over 3 years now and i have really dirty thoughts come times but i never seem to say whats on my mind so my thing is he probably has know idea how freaky i really am, so my Question is how do i start saying whats on ... (160 words

Should I meet my online guy when he comes to my country on holiday? Will this ever work between us?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Simply i fell in love with a german man over the internet i am irish .last summer he asked me to marry him over the internet Bizaare yes! i told him i wasnt sure and in the end i blocked him because i didnt want to hurt his feelings over the last couple of months weve been ... (141 words

Will he forgive me and let me in again?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Im in therapy because Im in love with a man I hurt so bad he tried to commit suicide. I tortured him for 2 years because I was bitter from being cheated on by the man before him. He lost his job and home because of how much a I messed with his mind. He had to go into a psych ... (137 words

How can I get my ex and his friend to leave me alone? Do I need to change my number?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - This is kind of ridiculous and annoying to me and don't know what to do. I am dating someone right now. And my ex and his friend that has had a crush on me, won't leave me alone. My ex keeps calling me and sending messages about how much he loves me and still wants to be with ... (148 words

Is everyone out there obsessed with money? Do people revolve their entire lives around it?

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27 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I just wanted to come on this site to vent. I can honestly not believe how much MONEY changes people. Is EVERYONE out there obsessed with money? Do people revolve their entire lives around it? I've always worked for wages my entire life and all I've ever wanted is a job ... (480 words

What else relieves stress apart from masturbating?

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27 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - Ok so i think i need better ways to release my stress, i always masterbate and thats the best way but i cant keep doing it all the time....... so what else can i do?... (35 words

Need help with managing the rough patches of a single life.

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27 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello all, This is a bit long with some rambling. But please please....bear with me and read on. Let me begin by giving some background info: I am a 24 year old male and I've been single all my life. And my trouble is, my being single has been bothering me very much ... (769 words

Am I throwing my heart to the wolves again?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Okay, my question is complicated. And, I don't know where to start, as it's a long story... So, I will backtrack a bit and start from the beginning. *deep breath* In 2006, I fell for one of my best friends (who was a friend of mine for almost 5 years), and up until early 2... (1338 words

Why do I feel this way when I don't want to?

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - My problem has been a problem for a really long time. I could talk about this and write a f****** novel on it. I'm going to try my best to keep it short. I met a boy a couple years ago. I feel in love with him and he liked me. We almost dated. Throughout the years t... (280 words

Is this a typical female reaction?

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27 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I need a little advice on a situation I'm facing. My best friend is this girl I met a few years back when I started a new job and she actually was the one that trained me. We instantly hit it off, but she was seeing someone at the time, so we just developed a close ... (562 words

How do you break the ice with a hesistant man?

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27 April 2011 (F age - I met a man through my previous job.(He was my ex-boss). A strong attraction built up between us but neither or us took it further or even verbally said how we felt about each other. He was the biggest flirt and did all with his body language and actions. He did once ask if I ... (448 words

I don't know if I want to move in with my boyfriend!

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend with whom I've been with for just over a year and a half. We got together after a guy I was seeing for about a month dumped me. I was never head over heels for my BF but for some reason I stuck around and wanted to spend more and more time with him. Slowly... (398 words

Why don't I want to kiss this guy?

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27 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - What does it mean if I don't feel like kissing a guy? I have a strange situation: I am physically attracted to a guy, and he says he likes me a lot. But,I don't feel like being intimate with him at all. I feel like he's not at my same intellectual level. Should I bother trying ... (94 words

How long can you go without sex?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys I just got out of an emotinally abusive relationship(5yrs long) my ex was would be like "oh ur fat" or "oh i need a break" or oh put makeup on. Mind you i'm 25yrs old and weight 120 and 5'3. (but to make story short, i cried cried cried, and got over it and have ... (362 words

Engaged Virgin w/PTSD-Scared of Going All the Way

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old virgin who recently got engaged and my fiance would like to go all the way soon, but here's the problem: (he's already had sex with his ex-girlfriend and) I have never gone beyond oral. We've been practicing with him using one finger on me, but so far, he ... (127 words

New relationship and already there are problems

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi. Im dating this boy and he and my best friend do not get along AT ALL. They always fight and I really would like them to get along which isn't going to happen. Because of that, I feel like this relationship isn't going to last very long. I also like 2 other guys more than I ... (246 words

She's too nice to break up with my friend but likes me better!

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27 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - Im 13 years old and i like this girl. I said i would be her best friend just to get closer to her. She has a boyfriend that is one of my good friends but she clearly likes me better. Shes too nice to break up with him so what do i do?... (53 words

Do girls get pleasure from anal sex?

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have never had anal sex so I always wonder do gals derive pleasure out of it?... (18 words

When a woman is being friendly towards a man, why does the man take it as a sign she is interested in them romantically or sexually? Is this all men think about?!

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why do men think that just because a woman is being friendly towards them that we are actually interested in them romantically/sexually etc?? Anyone can answer, I don't care. So I'm on facebook commenting on a guy's status not because I'm into him romantically but because even ... (228 words

Fiance doesn't move during sex!

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27 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - When my Fiance and I have sex and he goes to put it in he just lays there instead of going in and out or moving it around, it's almost like he is Dead, my Question is why does he do that?? He has told me he likes to feel the warmth that's why he don't move once he sticks it ... (66 words

Why did he say we are still friends but ignores me?

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27 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy that I've been kinda seeing for two to three weeks. He told me he likes me but doesn't want a relationship right now. I'm ok with it. The problem began recently when he saw me with another guy who he thinks has a crush on me. He drifted away and told me that... (140 words

Is it his mom? Or is he just making up excuses not to see me?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, alright, for starters, im 17, 18 in july, and me and my boyfriend grew up together, he lived 3 houses away from me, and we have been dating for almost 3 months. He is 16, and im 17, almost 18, in the first month, his mother was upset and angry and took it out on me, and ... (208 words

I don't know what to do during sex!

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - HI. So ive been with this guy for a while. I rily like him and I want to have sex with him. He is really experienced there. While ive had sex ive nvr known how to act. If he is on top wat do I do? Im nt loud..nd I dnt make faces I just lay there. So please tell me wat I shuld ... (88 words

Boyfriend's medicine is making him really crabby!

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello there! I'm visiting my LDR for the first time in a few months. Recently, he's gotten on this acne medication called Accutane, and after asking him why, he told me that he was worried that I might not like what I see. I reassured him that no matter what, it won't ch... (204 words

How do I ask a girl out on date?

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27 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - How to ask a girl out on a date? Hello. I am a boy in his 20s, never been in a relationship, In college, AND would like to go out with girls VERY MUCH! Let’s be honest here. I am scared of asking girls out because I have never done it and don’t know how. So, I don’t know ... (144 words

My 55 year old mother is dating my ex boyfriend for sex!

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27 April 2011 (? age 30-35 - I am really peed of with my mother. i am not proud of her tbh. she goes out on weekends wearing short skirts or leggings and wears a top that shows off her sagging boobs (she is 55 years old and divorced). she loves the attention of men but what she doesnt know is that they are ... (189 words

Advice about a girl that I saw in one of my classes

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27 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupid… Here is my situation: There is a girl in my college that I really like. I said “like” because I have never talked to her. All I know about her is that she is (physically) very beautiful, smart, and very studious. Those qualities make her perfect for me; I she wo... (411 words

He is great so why I am scared and hesitant??

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi Dear Cupid I work with a guy who likes me a lot. We are both in our 20s. I am scared of embarking on anything. I don't want anything serious right now and he's the type of guy where a serious relationship is probable. There's things I want to do before I settle down ... (444 words

I saved up all year to see my LDR girlfriend and now she wants to come here!

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27 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - i have a massive dilemma. so im in a ldr relationship with my gf. and weve been talking about me going to see her in the summer for about 5 months. she lives in america i live in england. im on a gap year. so it comes to 3 weeks before the trip and im about to book the tickets. ... (274 words

3 years, and I want to end things. How do I do it?

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I love him, I do, but I'm young and the serious, committed lifestyle isn't for me. I don't want to be tied down so young. I'm 21 years old and what I like to do like goin to clubs with my friends, he doesn't like. I have tried to ... (232 words

Was the bartender just being friendly?

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27 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - I was at a party a few weeks ago for a sweet sixteen and ofcourse their were bartendars. There was one in particular that was really hot and he looked about twenty five, he winked at me! Im sixteen and I would love to know if the wink was just a sexual thing or just ... (141 words

Insecure with our b/f g/f relationship

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27 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a confusing situation. My bf and I have lived together for 3. 1/2 years out of our 4 and a half year relationship. I've been upset lately because our talks about getting married are discouraging. I know u aren't supposed to compare your relationship against other peoples ... (131 words

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