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Small hard spots inside of me. What are they?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi,I've got small hard spots in my vaginal walls under the skin. They are not sore or anything, I'm just worried they are something serious. I dont think they are because I've had them for a while now but I'm too scared to tell my mum or go to the doctors. Does anyone know what ... (62 words

I need to get over him to move on, but I just cant!

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Me and my ex split up in august 2010 and we was together for 16 months. We split up as I found out he cheated on me. I'm always hanging out with my girl friends to try and take my mind off him, and everything that happened but it doesnt work. I try to thing of all the bad t... (121 words

Why do people stare at me?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Just right off the bat im pretty sure im not paranoid. okay so im in the 9th grade, about 5'0'' or 5'1'', african american, long and pretty african american hair, dont wear a lot of makeup (dont really need it), a little chubby/fat, etc. ( just giving details on how i look). S... (254 words

He said no. I like him, but what can I do to get him to like me back?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I Like This Boy And My Friends Asked Him Out For Me, About A Week Ago. He Said No Because He Likes Someone Else, He Was Dead Nice About It And I Text Him Everyday. But I Just Want Him To Like Me Back.... What Can I Do To Get Him To Like Me Back?... (56 words

My Father Looks at My Breasts, Is This Normal?

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've wanted to post for a long time but I've been too embarrassed...when I started developing, I felt that my father would "check out" my body and look my chest, which he still does to this day. Actually he only look at my chest now (cup size B, nothing huge)and I always wear ... (495 words

Is it time we took a needed break? I think I need to work on my own issues

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 18 and have a boyfriend,19 that i've been with just over 3 years now. He is an all around great person to be around, he makes me laugh, and at times make me feel good about myself. Not to long ago he sat down with me because he wanted to let me know how he w... (665 words

Haven't had sex with my husband in 13 years but want to have sex with another man.

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello Cupids. This is one crazy situation you are about to hear and I could really use your help. I have been married to my husband for 13 years and in that time we have never had sexual intercourse. We have had oral sex and have done just about everything else except for... (537 words

I'm scared to try girls, but I'm attracted to them. sex with guys is no problem

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23 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm attracted to guys and girls. I consider myself bisexual. I have no problem with having sexual relations with a guy because I know my penis can become erected. But is different with a girl because I scared to get a girlfriend because there may come a time with she wants to... (170 words

Is it feasible that I can get my Gf back despite her attitude, my illness and my infidelity?

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23 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone. So this is my first post, and I was with my ex-girlfriend for about 2 years. About two months ago, I stopped taking my medications (I have bipolar disorder), for reasons I wish I knew the answer to. Now that I reflect upon it, life at school got stressful (I have... (693 words

Should I tell my BF it's over? I said No. But He's still pressuring me. he wants to lose his virginity with me.

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I am a 14 year old virgin, but my BF , which is 15, wants to lose his virginity with me. We have been dating for not so long(1 month or so) and I'm scared that if I continue dating him, then I'll lose my virginity. At first it was a straight up "NO", but now I'm starting to ... (130 words

Is snogging different to kissing?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now.. we both want to 'snog' each other but every time we kiss that's all that ever happens.. HELP :... (33 words

'girl next door look' is his idea . Should I stop wearing do much makeup to appease him? Or is he just jealous?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - How do I know if my boyfriend dislikes my wearing of make-up because of a sweet reason rather than a selfish reason? In other words, how should I react to my boyfriends comments about me wearing make-up? My Bf makes fun of me for wearing it.. and compares me to other girl... (284 words

Gambling has taken over his life. what can I say or do? It's ruining our life.

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys and girls. My partner and I have been together for 11 years, we have 2 children together aged 7 and 1. We were both 17 when we got together and we had a great relationship, he did everything for me and was the perfect boyfriend. When we were 20 I fell pregnant and gav... (424 words

Promiscuous wife had 40 partners, I have only been with her!

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23 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - hi there, i dnt knw where to start but il try my best. My wife was promiscuous in her college days 40men to be exact. After i found out abt her past i asked her abt and told me she had low self esteem, i didnt believe her shes drop dead gorgous what low esteem could she have. ... (74 words

I am pregnant with my history teacher's baby. Who should I tell? Cd I make out it's my Bf's baby instead?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone! So I finally found out I'm pregnant with my History teacher's baby and I don't know what to do. I'm 100 per cent sure I'm going to keep it and I don't know if I should tell him what's going on, or if I just should tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant with his baby. P... (72 words

A month? How much longer should I give my Bf to consider of he can get over my 'past'?

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - ok my bf is taking time away from our relationship because he has issues with my past. he doesn't want too call it quits until he is really sure if my past is something he wont be able to get over. Well its been almost a month that we havnt talked. we both go to the same col... (178 words

How do you know when your bf is cheating?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - How do you know when your bf is cheating on you? Everyone says you can tell. Im just not sure, or if I am just being too suspicious. My bf keeps telling a few white lies about where he is at but I have found out where he is at and who with and I know its nothing to be concerne... (83 words

Should I flirt with my Ex-girlfriend's best friend?

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23 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I broke with my Girlfriend dumped me few months back. My girlfriend left me saying that I didn't have secured future by doing small job. I think I have been hard done by her for leaving me for such a small reason. Now I want taking revenge on her by flirting with her best ... (99 words

It seems like my boyfriend could try a little harder to be with me!

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. when we first started dating he was all about me and hanging out with me, we spent so much time together and he would stay at my house almost every night, and when he didnt he told me he couldnt sleep and ... (312 words

Why would my doctor say I have a liver problem, but NOT to worry about it!?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I read that ALL liver problems serious? Or are there some that aren't as much of a worry... I'm just really curious as my doctor said to me 'you do have a liver problem, but it's nothing worry about'? Can he be right, or should i be concerned?... (48 words

How do you know if you've ruined a friendship beyond repair?

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Well, this situation is tearing me up inside but I haven't talked to anyone about it. How do you know when you've ruined a friendship beyond repair? I'm not sure how to deal with this situation. I recently moved to another country, and I met a lot of people and b... (682 words

Parents: birth control for their 17 year old daughter?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone. This question isn't from me its for a friend of mine whose scared to ask her parents about birth control so she asked me to post this. Shes 17 going on 18 and is still a virgin. She knows things could happen in the heat of the moment so she wants birth control. ... (86 words

My man is taking a job as a bouncer in a strip club and I'm NOT happy about it!

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23 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - met my boyfriend 2yrs ago quite soon after he split with his ex, the first yr was on and off, then his ex came back on the scene which dented my confidence a bit, he settled with me but has never really made me feel great about myself as he suffers from depression, hes feelin ... (110 words

No sex in 3 months, he gets morning erections but doesn't like morning sex!

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hiya everyone! Hope u can give me some advice as I really don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and we haven't had sex for 3 months. He has told me he has a problem getting errections.however I am not sure if this is true. He still g... (223 words

How do I get her to see that I'm not in this just for the sex?

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23 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey guys, Not checked in here for a while, but I'm in a weird situation atm. It started off with a girl who was friends with on of my mates, my sister introduced us and we got to talking and got on like a house on fire, she is great, my dream girl, but she doesn't want... (440 words

Dating for six months but he won't call himself my boyfriend

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23 April 2011 (? age 41-50 - I really want the guy I've been dating for about 6 months to be my boyfriend but we've been through a lot already. I told him i had type 2 herpes at the beginning, and then we found out it was just type 1 even though it was genitally (that's why i never have outbreaks). Then, i ... (182 words

Am I doomed to be single?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi Im 18 and a little over weight not like fat but a bit bigger and i have these friends that are so much prettier and skinnier than me. we all go out and they get all the attention even the guy i like likes one of them. I just dont know what to do its really getting me down.... (85 words

Should I take him back

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23 April 2011 (F age - i found out my husband was having an affair when he left his telephone out for me to check and saw texts from other woman. i was shocked and he packed his stuff and left that night to stay in her spare room as a lodger. Two days later he regretted it and text me, after a week ... (225 words

Boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another guy!

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Well I have a question: My boyfriend has asked me if I would like to have a threesome... with another guy. I really dont know how to react to that, what should I do? Does that mean he is bi-curious or what? Please help me.... (46 words

My world revolves around my boyfriend. How do I get my independence back?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am too emotionally attached to my boyfriend.? I feel my world would come crashing down if we broke up for any reason. He is a great guy and the only problem is his bad temper. But I feel I am too attached to him to be able to live independent of him emotionally. We have bee... (93 words

How do I make my ex want me back?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Alrighty so me and some of my friends are hanging out today and among them is my ex boyfriend. He is still flirty sometimes but it is SO inconsistent. He always insults me somehow and I'm sick of it. I do have a new boyfriend (my ex's bestfriend) but I just want to show my ex ... (89 words

Has this all started at the wrong way?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've know this guy for 2.5 years by now, but nothing had happened between us until 1 week ago. he is married with a 1 year old daughter, and according to him, their marriage life is no longer what it used to be and they have separated bedrooms. He told me once( before our ... (392 words

Is being a virgin a turn off for guys?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi:) I am 18 and a half and I was wondering if guys think that being a virgin is a turn off. Lately my friends tease me, especially my male friends when they find out the truth. One male friend (23y old) even told me that I should get rid of the problem because no... (202 words

Fiance has gained 100 lbs and I'm not attracted to him. How do I tell him?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - so my relationship with my fiance is indescribable...we havent had any intimate relations since my daughter was born (shes 15months now)and frankly there isnt any effort being made on his or my part...to be brutally honest and i know im going 2 sound like such a jerk but i ... (118 words

Help me to read his signs -- I don't want to make an idiot of myself if he's not interested

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for I can't stop thinking about him .. Hes even giving me butterflys and I get really nervous when I see him .. I haven't felt like this before , not even with my exs, having him around gives me the beat feeling , even if my ... (307 words

My girlfriend has been going through a crisis in life and is unsure about her feelings for me. My life has come crashing down...

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23 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I am new to this forum and probably wouldn't have ever posted if it weren't for one of the most painful turn of events which might change my life forever. my girlfriend and I had been going steady since dec 2007. we were exact opposites yet the best match one could pos... (823 words

Its been 8 months and I still love him

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so me and my ex split up in august 2010 and we was together for 16 months. We split up as I found out he cheated on me. I'm always hanging out with my girl friends to try and take my mind off him, and everything that happened but it doesnt work. I try to thing of all the ... (129 words

Is my guy's other mobile phone really being used innocently?

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, my partner has recently bought two new mobile phones, a new one to replace the one he had just bought and the other one to put in his car, he says it doesant have a sim in it, but it fits his charger which is fitted into his car, so if the phone that he's got runs out of ... (232 words

How do I be confident doing a strip tease for my man?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I have offered to do a strip tease for my man, I know he's very attracted to me as we often talk about our intense chemistry howeve this does not seem to be comfort enough for me! I know I'm in good shape but the thought of dancing alone as entertainment so... (104 words

What is wrong with incest?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is an unusual question, but I'm curious to see what your answers will be. I was watching the HBO show Game of Thrones the other day, in which it is hinted at that one of the characters is having sex with his sister. On IMDB, this brought up a whole discussion about... (277 words

I don't know what to buy for my difficult friend

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok my question is i dont know what to get my freind for his birthday , i know i should know what he likes but hes diificult to buy for ; ok so hes a boy ; 14th birthday ; hes gay i know tht dont mean anything but what i mean is hes extremely feminine ;he likes fas... (107 words

How loose is too loose?

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23 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have had sex quite a few times and im afraid that she is getting really loose. what should i do. how loose is too loose?... (29 words

Feeling depressed , can't forgive myself for taking someone for granted. How can I move on?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I really really need some advice. [I tried to make it short but without luck. I'm sorry and please take the time to read] After many disappointments and failed relationships I became bitter and cold. I started a relationship with a wonderful man who ... (394 words

LDR b/f cannot let go that I slept with someone before I even met him!

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm so confused, I don't know what to do!I need some help :( My boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship. We met while we were both travelling, thinking at first that it was only going to be a holiday fling. Well, 6 months down the track we're still toge... (466 words

How do wives know when their husband is cheating?

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23 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - As a wife, how can you tell if the husband is cheating you?By checking his things? Reading his phone messages? ... (22 words

She is cold to my son because of her feelings about his mother....it's becoming unbearable, any ideas please?

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23 April 2011 (M age 51-59 - My post is quite an involved one so thank you for reading in advance. I am married and have 2 children from 2 seaparate relationships, a boy aged 10 and a girl aged 15. My wife gets along very well with the girl but does not get on with my son. She finds fault with everything ... (307 words

He's controlling and when I question him in the same way, he gets really mad. What to do?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my husband for 3 years every time my phone rings he wants to know who it is and what they say so i started doing the same thing to him and he began to get mad he has had a very bad temper lately he throws items at the walls or punches the i dont know what to do ... (63 words

It it possible we could get together again?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Is it possible where 2 people who went into a relationship perfectly normal and fine, who then 3 years later both manage to get depressed get back together? Sorry let me explain that better. I met a guy online 3 years ago, we fell in love. I didnt meet him until December a... (371 words

Hope to cope when boyfriend goes away for a week?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - hello, I want advice and ways 2 cope on a few things. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 months. We got commitment rings, (his idea) and he said he does want 2 be with me and loves me but it feels like i want him more and love him much more then he does me. Not met hi... (285 words

What do you think this dream could mean?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - What does this dream mean? Ok so the basics...Ive been in a LDR for 3 years - we did get along perfectly fine, bf developed depression out of nowhere and then because of that he dumped me 2 weeks ago. Said he no longer wants love. I still love him and I still want him b... (427 words

I want a relationship

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23 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey there...this is my first time question, i'm an 18 year old boy. I still don't have any contact with girls except kissing. Most often I masterbate.. But I want a relationship and not to be alone anymore. How i overcome this problem? How can i emerge a good relation... (62 words

She has a shrink, I have this site, she found out I was using this site and broke up with me..

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23 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend who im dating for 11months..we are in a long distance relationship but meet around twice a month.. we have been having ups and downs and I used to ask for help here on this site... She didnt know about my acount name here and i never told her what help i ... (683 words

Should I just move on so that she can too?

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23 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I've made a mistake; what hope do I have? It's a tricky situation. I was seeing two girls, but only one (who was a close friend before) knew about the both of them. About a month into seeing the two of them, I decided to go for one who knew and end things with the other. ... (1535 words

Are they doing it?

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23 April 2011 (M age - Further to my previous question about threesomes, Sometimes I see a girl walking down the street holding hands with 2 men on both sides of her and i always wonder... Are they doing it together? Many thanks... (44 words

Women: How common is it for them to have a 3some?

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23 April 2011 (M age - Ive seen a lot of questions on this site that relate to threesomes. I have never experienced this and am curious, mainly in respect to woman's participation in this: I know it's not reality per se, however a lot of porn films show women having sex with two or more men (obviou... (172 words

After 1 year, the break up still hurts tremendously and now I find out he's getting married!

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23 April 2011 (F age - Please, tell me I didn't make a huge fool out of myself. As of today it has been 1 yr. since my ex fiance and I broke up. Shortly after he ended it with me after 7 yrs. together he became involved with someone else. I never had a clue what was coming and his only ... (548 words

What do I do with all the relationship baggage so I can be in a relationship?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've had a crush on this one guy for about three years now. Everyone(my friends, his friends) all think we should be together, although we barely talk. All it ever is is a few friendly laughs and a comment here or there. He's the only one in my town who has the same political ... (286 words

It happens alot these days, I just wonder how you prevent it?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why does love fade so easily after a couple of years? Why are relationships so hard to maintain these days? I have a boyfriend of 2 years, and we love each other a lot. We have our ups and downs, but we are mostly good. It scares me when I hear about people's stories of how one ... (97 words

Boyfriend is no longer the man of my dreams...

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Heya guys and girls, here we go.... I have been living with my boyfriend and things havnt been great, well he just isnt the man of my dreams....he use to be the man of my dreams. We use to be so much together and now he isnt anything i want we use to shRe everything but we ... (108 words

Do I turn him on or what?

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I just have a little question. Yes I'm young. And don't be mean about this. So I've been going out with this boy for about 5 months. Well I read this thing that like boobs and butt and lips and eyes can turn a guy on. Well when I hug him he always holds me so close. And... (165 words

I just need something to help me get through the day

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23 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - So I've been dating/engaged to this girl for 4.5 years. On the second of February she says she doesnt think she's supposed to be in a relationship and that she needs to work on her relationship with Jesus and has a peace about it so she knows it's the right thing to do. She... (331 words

Do you think it's demeaning for someone to have a GED instead of a high school diploma?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm going through a bit of a sticky wicket right now. I have two months till I turn 18 and till graduation. Due to family emergencies, I was unable to attend a month or so of school. I received a call from my counselor, who told me that I was going to be taken off the gr... (378 words

Computer virus sent email to my ex. Do you think it brought up bad memories to him?

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23 April 2011 (F - My ex and i have been broken up for awhile and were speaking on an off..my computer had some sort of virus sending out e-mails to basically everyone in my contact list. It picked up on every e-mail including him. I looked at the e-mail and it also included his screenname b... (214 words

Fingering my girlfriend, and she bled a little. Is that normal?

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23 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend is a virgin, and I fingered her for the first time, and she bled a little. She told my it hurt a little bit. It bled when my finger was in there, and she told me that it bled a little bit after. When she said it was hurting here, I immediately took my finger o... (103 words

I've Fallen For You and I'm Without a Clue

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, There is this guy that I really really like. I've liked him since about February. I have known him for over two years now but I had never talked to him before... to me he was just another one of the boys on my brothers team. At the beginning of our new semester... (372 words

He is not interested in me, right?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - o two weeks ago, I asked this really cute guy to tutor me in Econ. I found myself falling in love with the more I see him. He's is very intelligent and really helpful. I do notice that he has looking at me and starting to pay more attention to me ever since he started to tutor ... (344 words

I've been feeling less enthusiastic about my boyfriend, why is this?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5months now and so far I have been very happy and I knew I was in love with him but for the past 2 weeks I have started working out hardcore trying to lose weight and I have a personal trainer helping me. Lately all the sudden I am ... (214 words

My husband's decisions are driven by his friends, and its creating a rift in our relationship...

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23 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hello, im needing a advice please. My husband and me are nearly 8 years living together. We actually dont have much problem when it comes of everyday routine. but now we are having a problem regarding of buying our own apartment. My husband is 28 years older than me its not ... (402 words

When I'm ready, how do I go about dating again?

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23 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have not dated for several years. I can't even consider it yet. And I am not ready to start again yet as I am caring for a sick relative. I do try to keep myself in good shape but do get exhasuted with looking after my relative. But when I do start dating again how do I go ... (80 words

Mean best friend... What to do?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have known my best friend for a very long time. When it's just the two of us, we talk for hours and get along amazingly well. But when other people, like her/our friends, are around, she can be really mean sometimes (not a lot, but I feel like time to time is already too ... (316 words

Is my therapist crossing the line or do I just not like what I'm hearing?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm confused. my bf and I been together for 5 years, moved to the same town (same apt) and both started law school together and it's been a very up and down kind of thing. In feb, I felt like i had doubts, and thought, the next logical step to my life after law school is ... (688 words

Have I gone and ruined everything? A FWB question.

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Long story short I have a friends with benefits (almost a month now). We haven't had sex yet, because I'm a virgin We used to text every day, now we text every few days (he always texts me, but lately I have been texting him, and now I regret that) I started liking h... (664 words

Why does he need to know about my sexual past?

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - My bf cannot get over my past. and he almost all the time asking me how my past sexual encounters where like and wht positions did i do with them and did they kiss me in certain places he just wants to know so much details.. but after he knows the answrs to his questions he ... (92 words

How do I control my feelings for my teacher??

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - well, im 13 and in year 8 at school. i have this teacher and i have been obsessed with him for about a year now, and the feelings are not going away and no matter where i am he always comes or walks past. when he walks and im on my own he stops and says hi, but when im with my ... (115 words

Should I continue to connect with my estranged daughter, or stop trying?

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23 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I have a daughter who does not want to know me. She was just the most rebellious daughter you could ever imagine from 12 onwards. I tried counseling. But it never worked, she would not attend. I was a very young parent and she is my only child. Her father refused t... (461 words

Feel very uneasy after older guy asked me out, and am not sure what to do.

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23 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello aunts! I would like to start off by saying that I am 14 and a high school freshman. Four days ago, an 18 year old high school senior asked me out. Please don't judge the ages, I am aware. He's leaving for boot camp next fall and I do not expect a long lived rela... (147 words

How do I make sure my bf orgasms through oral sex?

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ive never had sex before but my boyfriend has. He has said that none of his exs have been able to make him cum by just mouth he just gets soft after so long. I want to be his first. Dose anyone have any tips or sites I may visit? Thank You! :)... (53 words

Is it normal for my bf to want me to spit on him before giving him oral sex?

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23 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - When giving my boyfriend a bj he always tells me to spit on it and make it really wet. Well I'm not down with making it wet. Thinking about it makes me wont to puke. I just want to know why I dont enjoy spit and why it grosses me out to think about it. Is it normal to be like ... (62 words

I now feel disgusted by sex after a rough night of it with my bf.

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23 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I need some guidance. Me and my boyfriend, well sex between us tends to be tough. A few weeks ago, we were going at it, and my parents were in the next room, and this made me uncomfortable, and he started hitting at a bad angle, and I was going to tell him to stop, b... (187 words

How should I deal with my bf's jealousy about me talking to my ex?

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23 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello people I broke up with my ex seven months ago, it wasn't mutual (I left him) and the ex was none too happy. I am now in a new relationship and my boyfriend gets very upset and angry whenever I happen to talk (on the phone) to my ex. Every time i talk to my ex... (209 words

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