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My parents are asking me to break up with my BF because he isn't white...

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15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, i need help with something. I'm 13 years old. i have a boyfriend thats 15. My boyfriend is black and im white. he isnt that dark he is light skin. He came to my house to meet my parents ( he wants to meet my family n all my friends). When he left my parents were yelling at ... (120 words

When adults see a young couple and say..."You don't know if he'll be your only and last boyfriend." or, "Oh, young love. It never lasts."...is it true??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello... I'm 17 years old, and I have a boyfriend since last year. Recently, I've been a little bit concerned of all those things adults day when they see a young couple... Examples?: 1. "You don't know if he'll be your only and last boyrfriend." 2. "You can do many thing... (387 words

16, pregnant, BF wants me to go in for an abortion...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im 16 and im pregnant i told my boyfriend about it and he told me to go for an abortion but i dont want to because just thinking about it maker me sad but i want him to be happy but yet i dont want to disapoint my parents plz help me what should i do?... (56 words

I fell for a coworker, but now that I've left I'm hesitant to contact him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age - I started to fall in love with a man I used to work with. I have now left. Before leaving we both knew we were strongly attracted but did nothing about it. After nearly a year, I still thinking about him continuously. Despite him asking for more information abou... (237 words

Why would my ex say that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - i dont get it hes my ex...what does he care ...so i give this guy thats my friend a cookie and he gives me a big and long hug...he is friends with my ex-boyfriend my ex-boyfriend got mad and said hey dud let her go your raping her why would he say this????????... (53 words

Should I let go of this person I have grown an emotional attachment to online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 18, I started talking to him when I was 17, I have been talking to him for one year, I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable, I sent him 100s of pics of me, to keep him interested, I felt like he was the one for me, He is 21, and l... (197 words

Now that he's won me over he's backing off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age - I am a widow.I have seeing a man for about 3moths now! uin the beginning he persued me big time. The first 2 dates were we really connected he had ask me out again but the next day I canceled and explained i wasn't ready yet. I got to thinking about how I must have heart his ... (218 words

Not sleeping in the same bed as husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - Why would a woman go out of her way to let me know she does not share the same bed as her husband???? What does this mean? Is she trying to tell me something?... (34 words

I want to be loyal to the guy I'm seeing, but I can't help but CONSTANTLY think about the other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really need help. I'm in my senior year, and I graduate in 50 days. I started to see a new guy a month ago. Up until before I gave in to going on a date with him, I really felt like I had to convince myself to like him. I gave it a really big chance and felt like I started to ... (335 words

What does it mean that he travels all that way just to see me? Is it just to see a friend or probably more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I hope you can help me with some ideas to the following situation. I met a wonderful man in the summer of 2009. We had this amazing connection you share with only a few people in your whole life. We have lots of similarities even though ´he is 20 years older than ... (316 words

Am I immature because I don't have a boyfriend, don't drink or I'm not pregnant or don't have my own house at 17, like everyone else???.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - A lot of the girls around here are doing what most grown up's do, like getting pregnant at a young age and having their own house while I'm still stuck at home with my parents. I'm immature because I don't have a boyfriend, don't drink or I'm not pregnant or don't have my own ... (124 words

Met this guy while on vacation and after I graduate I want to move to this tropical country to be with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I went on vacation and met this guy, which I fell in love with. We just clicked you know when you meet someone you know will always be in your life.I came back from vacation awhile ago and we kept in contact he asked me to be his girl the last day of my vacation, and came ... (183 words

He is gone forever and I don't know how to get over it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I loved him so much. He was my best friend, my lover, my family. Now he is gone forever. He ended our title two years ago but nothing changed. We remained exactly as we were. I asked him again for a commitment recently and then ended our 'friendship' after he couldn't give ... (107 words

I want my husband to leave!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone, I need advice and words of encoragement i think. Its gunna be long please bear with me. My husband and I have been together about 7 years since i was 16 married for 3 years. We have lived together since 17 and had a baby at 19. He has always been my best fri... (1531 words

My friend tries to discourage all of us from dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi I'm 15 and I have a friend let's call her Beth. Now me and my group of friends are either in a relationship or really like a guy. Beth however is not in a relationship and as far as we can tell has no interest in any guys. We often all talk about guys as a group but Beth ... (213 words

Was she ever truly in love with me? Did she only want a trip to Ireland?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on msn and cam, and we really got ... (711 words

Do I need nicer friends? Should I cut them off due to their remarks to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm single and. I have been for a year and now. I want to start dating. I haven't had a boyfriend in 3 years, waiting for the right one doesn't work, I can see that. Soooo now I want to get back out there, and get a nice boyfriend. But since all my friends and cousins have a bo... (299 words

What's the best, most successful way to meet new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - My social life is a mess. For weeks now I've been posting messages on facebook asking if anybody wants to join me for a drink somewhere. I never get any responses. I don't know if it's just that everyone is busy or if I'm just not a very popular person, but either way this has ... (123 words

My gf needs cheering up after a rough patch. What are romantic ideas to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - my girlfriend and myself have gone through a rough patch the last few weeks. She has to work tonight, but will be back home with me tomorrow. I really want to make tomorrow romantic and create some chemistry back between us as i want us to be back to our happy selves. This i... (120 words

In a subtle way I want to find out if he likes me. But how do I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've fancied this guy I know for ages and really like him. So far nothing has really happened between us, except for some moments where he has said things like "great to spend time together" and another time when someone told him I liked him, I denied it and he was and still is ... (157 words

Does he really not want me? Or is he just too sad to handle a relationship? Is it a health issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My fiance just broke up with me with the reason "I have problems of my own to work out." He broke up with me on Christmas Eve for reasons neither of us understand. He was gone for three weeks and in that time I was stalked, harassed, raped and kidnapped by his best friend. His... (713 words

How do I make a move on my female friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - So I'm friends with this girl who is gorgeous, intelligent, witty, and just all around awesome. She's casually seeing someone, but they're not official. We've been friends for a couple of months and we always have a great time together and talk for hours when we hang out. I'm ... (153 words

How do we deal with Grandma's drinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey :) i could really use some advice ? well i live in a house with my mum and my grandma unforutnely due to some confusion with the bank, me and my mum lost our old house and had no choice but to move in with my grandma. At first everything was fine. my grandma ... (589 words

Friend invited herself to join me on a trip and I can't stand to spend that much time with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Frendship question: we ve been friends for a few years now. We ve met when we were adults with husbands and kids. We are the same age, but complitely different personalities. Frankly i never met anyone like my girlfriend: loud, extremely bubbly, talkative, too hyper for my ... (485 words

Second thoughts about using this as an opener?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - Ages ago, I signed up to the chat and dating site, faceparty. While I was on there, I got chatting to a girl, who was 18 at the time but now she's 21. I got her Facebook friend request accepted. We didn't chat for ages, and we haven't even met each other. As FB informs ... (167 words

Why would he suddenly stop wanting sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age - Why would a man , stop wanting sex suddenly with his wife? Is this true, when he says,he has no idea? What are the causes to this,and how common is that? I know man, who cant think of anything else,but sex Why is this happening? I feel humiliated,and unwanted. My husb... (94 words

Should I remove this girl from my friend list on facebook? She broke my heart...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad. At the beginning, we started to know ... (361 words

Can't tell if she likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - cant tell if this girl likes me or not. i mean she talks about me to her family enough that i started to notice. like if i would talk to one of her sisters they would say "o yea my sister was telling me you" bla bla. she also pokes fun at me every chance she gets but not in an ... (115 words

I’ve asked this guy out on facebook a week ago but he claims not to have read it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Friday I asked out this shy guy over facebook only to find that he didn’t read it till Wednesday the next week because he wrote a comment on facebook but didn’t reply to my email. On that Thursday (on the collage bus) all of is friends on the bus jeered at him trying not to say ... (186 words

I'm in love with this man who I met online, as I've fallen for his personality, but I'm completely repulsed by him physically!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - okay so this is a bit of a weird one. i met this guy on the internet and we quickly became close. for almost 2 years we chatted online every night until the early hours of the morning, and on the phone, texting ect. We've met up a couple of times recently and I have to say, ... (220 words

Why would he say things like this? is he lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why would he say things like this? is he lying? I rang my ex boyfriend to ask a few questions about our relationship cos I feel like I every time I love a guy he leaves me heart broken. My ex lied, cheated and broke up with me. Anyways so I asked him what I did wrong in ... (363 words

I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or not , I was wondering if anyone ... (207 words

What are the advantages and disadvantages of living together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, Just wondering what you can say about couples living together in one house without being married. What are the advantages and disadvantages of such situations. Is this a bad thing or a good thing to do? Thanks!... (45 words

Caught her in contact, again. Should I give her another chance? I miss her and her little girl a lot.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Ill try keep this short. Ive caught my Gf of almost 3 years, in contact with another guy. This is the 2nd time. The 1st time was just over a year ago. Both of them work colleagues. Nothing physical happened in both instances. I had been watching her for over a month because she ... (491 words

I'd love to be the confident person I appear to be. How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I don't want to bang on so I will keep this brief. I have no confidence what's so ever, after years of bullying cause I used to be a bit chubby, now that I've lost a lot of weight and some what attractive I can't bring myself to date and do things I enjoy like sports etc.... (177 words

Since the breakup, I feel like there's no one out there for me, and I'm having bad dreams.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello, Here's my situation, its been about 4 months since breaking up with my ex girlfriend. I am 21 years old and had dated her for exactly one year. That year consisted of me being manipulated, abused, cheated on and ultimately resulting in me being left for another guy ... (242 words

Advice on buying sex toys.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am seeing someone and I want to buy some toys for me to use when we video call between our visits to each other. Thing is I have never bought and used sex toys before, and I really don't know where to start or what to think about getting, can anyone please help point in the ... (63 words

I am worried about seeing pictures of him clubbing on Facebook. He's leaving for Uni soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He is going to uni this september 2 hours away from me. Which means we will probably only see each other once every 2 or 3 weeks! He will probably be going out clubbing all the time and meeting loads of new gir... (139 words

I need help handling things (mainly jealousy) in my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey Well yeah, I kinda need some help handling things that go on in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months, both 16 years old and just leaving High School (UK). We have a few problems in our relationship, mainly because of my past: Growing up, I'd n... (1351 words

I spend all my time making him happy, so much so I have lost sight of who I am....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi, im 20 and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. for quite a long time I have been asking myself if I am happy, and i think I am but I'm not sure. I spend most of my time trying to make him happy instead of myself. I have done this the whole time we have been together... (180 words

How do I stop feeling so upset and anxious about his dirty texts to another girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey readers, I need some help to stop hurting about my bf sending dirty/sex texts to another girl. We've been together 7 months, and everything has been really great, including our sex life. He went through a rough patch at work, working long hours with some uncertainty about ... (744 words

How do I avoid men who are only after one nighters and find someone who wants a serious relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My problem is this, I have been trying for over a year to find a bf im over being single but i only seem able to find men that only want one night stands. Sometimes i think i've found a potential one but they end up not interested in something serious. It's really f... (75 words

I am cheating on my wife, my lover has a boyfriend who cheats on her, and my lover is cheating on her boyfriend with me! What should I do about this mess?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - i am 34year old married man and she is 22 yrs god knows how but 3 years ago i very deeply fell in love with this girl and she was the one who proposed me that time even after knowing that i was married. i agreed and we were deeply involved, used to spend time every day even ... (730 words

Is it normal to want to see him every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Is it normal that i want to see my boyfriend everyday? and that I get quite upset when he cancels and so we cant *he doesnt do it very often at all* I never used to see my ex this often and I delt with it fine :| I would go 2 weeks without seeing him outside of school, now I se... (78 words

Everytime we would get close he would back off and start acting like I'm his little sister! Should I wait for him or just move on?

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Firstly, when i met this guy, he said he got an ex who dumped him for his best mate. Then, we chatted a lot and was going quite well. He flirted but in harmless way (totally acceptable).. we're just friends sorta type...but everytime i seem to be get closer, he would pull it ... (361 words

I cant make him climax! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone, this is a little embarassing, but i have no one else to ask! Im in a relationship with an older guy, i lost my virginity to him, and i cant make him climax. Its so frustrating. He gets hard really quickly and says that im really good in bed, give great head etc, ... (88 words

Do I deserve to be loved again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I never been a real relationship... But a few months ago I met this guy online and we fell in love with each other... We became girlfriend and boyfriend... We see each other on cam often, spend hours talking on the phone, and I did show him my upper body on cam as he ... (332 words

What do I change? hurt and resentment is building. Our last argument was terrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I feel afraid to have sex with my boyfriend. We were so close, but he began neglecting me emotionally, affectionatly, and sexually. It got to the point where we would have sex once or twice a month and it often fekt strained, as though he were doing it to get it over and done ... (680 words

How do I know they have really broken up? Or is he just lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - There is a guy who is my very close friend. I have liked him ever since I first saw him. He also used to say me that he liked me, but as we always joke about everything. I thought he was again joking so I never took it seriously. After some months he was in a relation... (225 words

Deep down I'm heartbroken. How do I make it better? She took another guy to Prom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - I had prom last night and i dont whether it was one of my best nights or one of my worst. The girl who i have been into deeply for 8 months went with another guy she new outside of school...she claims that they are just good friends... I wanted to go with her but alot ove... (345 words

Should I ask my boyfriend to move with my family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - My parents are on about moving to Devon and wanting me to come with them, as my mum has said she wont move unless I go with her, however I recently got back with my ex boyfriend I know we haven't been out for long but it feels like forever and at the moment were up in York but ... (124 words

She lied about what happened at a party when she was drunk

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm nearly 18. Months ago, my girlfriend [just turned 18] went to a house party with some friends, and I couldnt go because I had work the next day. I got a number of drunken texts from her the next day which were sent during the night, one telling me how a guy had come on to ... (205 words

He hooks up and then just wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I met this guy at a small gathering just last week and we hung out both friday night and saturday. He was coming onto me a little on friday, but in more of a flirty-friendly way than any other (he didn't come on strong at all), and on saturday we flirted more the sane way ... (86 words

He flirted with me and then asked me to ask out my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy. I could of swore he liked me. he would flirt with me all the time.He would sit by me in class.Sometimes he would put his arm around touch my hand.Then one day he asked me to ask out one of my friends for him.I was so shocked.Because I'm prettier than my ... (163 words

After 2 failed attempts at sex, he doesn't want to try again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I tried to have sex together for the first time over two months ago. Everything was going good until his roommate came home then he started acting nervous, but we continued to try. When he put the condom on he went limp. I gave him oral and put one on him a ... (237 words

Now that I'm finally becoming a young adult, I feel like I've accomplished nothing and have no idea of what I want to do with my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I honestly feel like I'm going no where in life. I am turning 18 this year, and for the past five years, all I've wanted was this. But now that I'm finally becoming a young adult, I feel like I've accomplished nothing and have no idea of what I want to do with my life. ... (529 words

What is your opinion of someone who has quite a few piercings on their body?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I currently have my first and seconds (lobe piercings), and my helix done (upper ear cartilage piercing) and in my left ear first piercing (lobe), i have a 3mm fleshy (stretcher) And i want: -My thirds -My tongue -My nose -My belly -Maybe nipple (ring) but mos... (167 words

Help!! My boyfriend thinks I cheated and I haven't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Please help. I've been with my boyfriend for about five years now and we got into an argument a few nights ago because he thinks I've cheated on him. About four years ago I hung out with one of my boyfriends friends. I had a few drinks with this friend and hung out with him a ... (257 words

How do you get over a FWB relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - How to get over FWB? I have fallen for him, but I really don't want to. Not just because it's torturing me, but because there's no way I'd ever want a serious commitment with him. How do I go back to being friends and be ok with it when I work with him at least 3x a week... (168 words

Does he like me? We had a fun night, now all he does is stare.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have lived next to this guy for about eighteen years. I am now eighteen. We were best friends from pretty much birth until fourteen when we both went away to boarding school. Random right? Finally we are now back finishing up our senior year in high school together in the ... (392 words

Guy I used to casually fooled around is fading from my life--and I don't want him to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - me and this boy liked each other but we werent in a relationship but we used to go out a lot and weve kissed loads and ive masturbated him. (it was his first time.) but we faded and dont talk anymore. i still really like him, im scared. he's forgotten our relationship that we ... (59 words

Hubby and I fantasizing about affection with other people. Good idea or no?

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15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 10 years and married for a total of 5 years.We are both very open minded people and honest with each other.Marriage is great and since we almost grew up together we are totally bonded and secure in our relationship.Only thing is we are ... (180 words

All I want to do after work is sleep or watch TV! How can I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am tired all the time. I get home and all I feel like is eat, watch TV and sleep. My new job is extremely demanding and tiresome. I don't want to leave the house or do anything. I don't enjoy going out much as I used to. My BF has already brought it to my attenti... (103 words

I want to test my relationship by holding out on sex. Am I taking it too far?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me...However I cant trust him and normally I am able to walk away at the slightest feeling of dishonesty but this one I cant seem to shake off because Im in too deep and its mad chemistry. May I add the long distance makes it worse. P... (453 words

Afraid to find out if this cute guy likes me or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i like this boy in my class. hes cute nice and more. but idk if he likes me or knows i like him. he so hot and a little gothic i think but so am i. help me: what should i do if he doesnt like me?... (47 words

Have you noticed any behavior problems with your child after he/she has begun dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - hi i am back again. I have a new question about whether or not others have noticed any behavior problems with their kids when they began dating someone steady?... (30 words

Does depression make people fall out of love?

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - does depression make people fall out of love? my bf(ex) used to love me he couldnt explain it but he just did. Then he got lost in life and got depressed, next thing I know he wants to be friends. He wants to be alone and have no girls in his life. So why is he still my f... (197 words

Should I wait for my ex-bf, whom I still love, to get his act together and come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I guess im trying to learn how to deal. I broke up with my bf over a month ago because our relationship went from seeing/talking to each other daily.. to still talking daily (he'd call to say hi, i miss u/love u) but barely hanging out. He used to work full time but then got... (612 words

I wasnt the best parent myself, and I don't want to take my child from her mother but I do want to make sure that she is living in a safe environment.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

15 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I want to start off my saying I know I messed up in the past and I know some people may not think I deserve forgivness but I am only trying to do what is best. When I was 20 I had a one night stand with a much younger girl Kylyn (she was 16), 4 months later she showed up at... (547 words

Husband doesn't do it for me anymore

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15 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - We have been married for 3 years and dating for six and recently had a baby (8mts). I am finding that he starts to irrate me more every day. He is very controlling and likes to shout and make you feel worthless and like you are wrong. I don't tell him everything because he ... (266 words

Is my wife done with me? Or is having sex just once every 5-6 months normal?

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15 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 6 years and we have a 2 year old. We use to have sex quite often, but not anymore. I know that things change when you have a kid, but we used to have sex 5 times a week, now it's once every 5-6 months if we are lucky. She doesn't act like... (143 words

Are my reasons for getting a purity ring OK?

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15 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - MY question is this.. i AM not religious that much , well i beleive in god ,heaven and stuff but like i dont go to church or pray or anything like that now i want to wear a purity ring beacause im 13 nearly 14 and i am shocked that there are some girls my age in my year who ... (218 words

Am I clutching at straws?

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15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - okay i no this is imature but here it goes my ex and i broke up 11 months ago after years of dating and he has a new gf but we have a kid together so i see him like twice a week well anyways i mentioned this chap i knew and he went nuts saying don't be dropping names prat ... (130 words

Dumped so he can deal with his issues

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Has anyone been dumped by someone they truly love and care for? But with the circumstances being that they dumped you so that they themselves can find who they are and where they want to be in life and to pass school/work etc (my case is he has depression and left me to find ... (135 words

I need help on how to approach someone who liked me but now seems to be ignoring me

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15 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi, hears how it goes... this guy approached me whilst i was at work and i had absolutely no idea he liked me even though he had spoken to me a few times that night, at the end of the night, kick out time, he asked me for my number, i had no idea he liked me and thought ... (388 words

My BF is stuck to his other colleague like a "magnet" and I don't know what to do now!

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys I have a problem, See,I own a horse and I've met my BF through a horse ranch. Lately we've been having issues with our relationship. When it first started I felt so lucky meeting him like I did. He's wealthy handsome and smart. See, he's also a teacher and he teaches ... (243 words

How do I tell my partner he needs to dedicate more time with me and our child because I'm starting to feel left out?

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - So my partner/father of my child has currently enrolled in school so he's obviously been busy. I'm glad he's doing something good for him but he seems to be busy or tired most of the time. I feel like he's slowly getting distant ..and just focusing on himself. How do I tel... (75 words

Views on kids before marriage?

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey Agony's :) I just wanted to get the older and younger generations views on premarital children. I see that a lot of people nowadays are having children before even thinking of marriage. I was just curious as to what all of your opinions were. I'm very opinionated myse... (136 words

I think he will come back eventually if he wants me, but on the same note, I can't wait forever....What do I do??

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15 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm so confused about how I feel about someone. I was dating him a while ago, and it was going so well. Felt such a connection and he payed me so much attention I felt on top of the world :o) . We started to get really close... Then, things got kinda confusing about a month in ... (586 words

How can I keep this LDR?

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15 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Fellow cupids...I could use some advice right now!!! My bf dumped me last week because he is failing school, got depressed about life as he has no idea what he wants to do and everyone else seems to know and just became an angry person. (I must state that I am in a LDR...I ... (320 words

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