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writes:I am very shy even tho i have been with my fiance for a little over 3 years now and i have really dirty thoughts come times but i never seem to say whats on my mind so my thing is he probably has know idea how freaky i really am, so my Question is how do i start saying whats on my mind even when it's like maybe off the wall sometimes like for example he said 'my back hurts and i said you want a massage later when we get home' of course he say's yes and i wanted to say 'good you give me what i want i will give you what you want' but it never seem to come out cause i let me being shy get the best of me so how can i slowly start not being so shy so i can feel more open to say sexual things that are on my mind??
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reader, Crabman  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 id suggest writing a descriptive note, entailing how you want the night to play out, fold it, hand it to him,
then wait in bed
he will be so aroused by the note , that alone will rock your night
best part is you can take a day or two to write it how you want
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): A cheeky text hinting about what you want tp do is a good step forward. Most guys are very open minded when it comes to sexual desires, in fact most never speak of it because they're nervous about what their partner might think. So he could be thinking the same way as you. It's worth it just talking to your fiancé about your desires (after the text in this case), if he really cares about you he'll be understanding at least and will most likely want to explore them with you. As blonde30s said, keep an ear open to what he says as well. Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 April 2011):
Why don't you send him a dirty text instead of saying it to him if you're that shy? That might be a good way of starting. Just send him a text explaining what you'd like to do, or what you'd like him to do, and go from there.
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