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I don't want to hurt him like I was hurt. How should I do it?

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay here goes, I'm 16 in a couple of weeks, I am in love with a 20 year old. I'm from the UK so it's perfectly legal when i turn 16. Anyway about 6 months ago i told him i liked him and he just kinda didnt really say he didnt like me but he didnt want to date me - he's also a ... (264 words

Some advice on teen dating and getting a boyfriend, please.

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi I'm 15 and quite inexperienced.I'm not particularly shy, I have a pretty small circle of close friends but know other people in wider circles and I would say I have a pretty average social life e.g going out with friends most weeks etc. I was just wondering if anyone had any ... (133 words

My long distance boyfriend is being too distant. Please advise.

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - My long-distance boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months (due to be ten in a few days) but lately, we've been having communication issues. I have no idea what goes on in his life. He doesn't tell me anything.. And he doesn't really ask me about mine. I'll ask h... (202 words

Hard bump on my forearm. Any ideas?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have a hard bump on my forearm its been there for like 6 months and won't goo away, any idea what it might be?... (25 words

I can only relax for sex if I've had a few drinks. Am I alone in this?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi, i'm a 21 year old woman who sufferers with severe anxiety disorder and as a result, my sex drive seems to be zero. i find it incredibly hard to relax as a result of this and can only seem to relax enough in the bedroom if i've has a few drinks. am i alone in this?... (57 words

Is he playing a game here or what is going on?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is really frustrating i'll keep it short and simple. There's this guy who i like i've never spoken to him before i've just seen him around but we both know of each other. I really felt he was attracted to me to and lots of other people who watched and heard about his ... (179 words

We're great friends, but how do I stop myself from falling in love?

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16 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - ok, so i haven't talk to this boy in ages because i tried to ask him out and he rejected me. i have become great friends with him but i do not want to fall in love with him again because it might ruin our friendship, what should i do to stop myself agony aunts?... (55 words

I told him I thought the decreasing intimacy in our relationship was a problem and he said I was moaning. Was I wrong?

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16 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - hi, i've been dating a guy for the past nine months and we get on well, both love each other but every other month our work patterns go out of sync for a month and then return into sync again because his shifts fall back in line with my weekends off work. So for this reason ... (516 words

I'd like him to take the initiative to plan an outing for us

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16 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - My husband never invites me out on the weekends. I love to go out and have fun. I have expressed to him that we need to keep the relationship alive by dating at least once weekly or once every two weeks. I would feel so special if he would invite me to the movies, dinner or ... (294 words

Isolated in a foreign country -- is my love for my husband enough?

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, please advise. I moved to a difficult foreign country to be with my husband, sacrificing all my family, friends and life that I knew (even my religion) because I loved him, believing in my innocence that love conquers all. Because of the uncertainty of where we would live, ... (575 words

Co-worker Crush

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16 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm very attracted to one of my male co-workers...a sort of instant attraction if you will. When I started 6 months ago, he knew my name before I even had time to process my new work enviornment and tried to make small talk here and there. The next few months ... (519 words

Will we have a 2nd date?

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - so im just trying to figure if this date went well. we had alot of conversation, laughed alot.. or he seemed to be smiling alot, joked around. we hung out for a few or more hrs and then when he was leaving he lingered, so i hugged him. before he stood up to leave he asked if... (282 words

What should I do to be good at sex for the first time?

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi i am 18 next month and i am still a virgin. I feel a little insecure about it. I have started going out with this girl who i know quite well. the thing is that she is a few months younger than me basically the year below me in school terms and she has had sex with 2 guys ... (160 words

I think my husband is visiting strip clubs. What should I do?

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16 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello, My husband went to strip clubs before we met. He has a group of friends that are often go. After he met me he didn't hang out with them for a while, and now recently he started going out with one of them again. He said they are just going to grab something to eat. And... (125 words

Is fighting normal?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal for couples to get in to small fights/arguments through out a week? and if so why is it? Thank you.... (23 words

Should we wait, like she wants, or will our lack of sex at this point tear us apart?

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16 April 2011 (? age 30-35 - i have a question about my relationship and the sex i've been with my girl for 1 year and 9 months we are planning to get married and we've already had lots of sex the past summer but she wants to stop being intimate and we've haven't had intercourse for about 7 months now and ... (100 words

I feel as if I can't take on one more thing, but if I don't I'll feel guilty. Please help.

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16 April 2011 (F age - Im in a very tough spot in life.....What can i do, if I simply run out of energy taking care of others problems around me ? My life got out of hand a few years ago, living in personal hell. I can't list the things I' dealing with, because most people can hardly believe i... (255 words

My ex FWB is back, but he has a GF now. I don't know how to handle his advances.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've known this guy for a few years. We used to be 'friends with benefits', but then everybody found out, we both denied it like our lives depended on it, and then didn't speak for a while. Then last summer we started getting friendly, but nothing came of it. I liked him, but... (305 words

Do I have a shot with her?

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I started talking to this girl that's in my English class in college about three weeks ago. Since we both take the train to school, I suggested we meet at the train station in the morning and walk to school together. (This was about two weeks ago) She agreed. I suggested it ... (258 words

I can't get over her. How do I get her to want me?

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16 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - i am absolutely in love with this girl, she knows this and she claims that she doesnt like me...however she has been doing all sorts of things, she has been trying to make me jealous intentionally in front of me randomly when i am in a good mood, she doesnt do that when i am ... (250 words

Question about dating and sex in the later years.

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16 April 2011 (F age - I'm a woman of 78 who has been alone a number of years. I joined a Senior Dating site recently. Now, this guy who's 68 contacted me. He is looking for a friend and a lover and asked me if I was interested. His first question to me was I still sexually active and would I be ... (141 words

Can you tell me if he is interested, or just being nice?

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for .. I miss him when he's not around and look forward to seeing him when I do .. ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if ... (218 words

Must a guy make the first move?

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have known a girl for sometime now. she likes me but pretends she don't. I want to be sure she likes me before making a move. Must a guy make the first move?... (34 words

Would adding her on Facebook put us in the dreaded "friend zone"

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Alright kind of a long question here. Alright, so there was this girl who lived in the room next to me in residence at university and about 2 weeks ago she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but she seemed to be over it from what I gathered. Anyway, since th... (174 words

Does my cousin love me or not?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i had a crush on my cousin.since then i got into another relationship but in between there was a problem and i went to him for advice but he advised me to break up.but anyways me and my boyfriend spoke and solved the problem but he said to stay single because my cousin thought ... (193 words

How should I tell my mom about our secret relationship?

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16 April 2011 (? age 26-29 - Hi everyone, thank you to whoever takes the time to read this. I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've been in a relationship for about six months now. My parents don't know about the relationship, (they're really strict, and Asian) but they know that we're friends and they ... (292 words

My 5 year old son is jealous over the attention given to his younger sister and has changed dramatically from being a happy child to a miserable one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - So recently my 5yr old sons personality has changed dramatically from being a happy child to being miserable....i know that since my daughter turned 1 thats when his attitude changed..i try to divide my time equally between the 2 of them but its hard my youngest is still a baby ... (113 words

My GF has severe trust issues, she starts to restrict me from whoever she considers a threat, and impulsively dumps me over these issues!!

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half, and were really great together. Recently she says she cant trust me, when i have never done anything to ever make her not trust me. About a month ago i went home for a few days and my brother invited me out with... (397 words

Please rate the experience for me.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 still a virgin, I think of it as a major accomplishment. I'm young and I'm not super model gorgeous but I'm very pretty people are always shocked when they find out I'm a virgin and they never believe me. My friends all not virgins keep saying sex is so good .I want to ... (120 words

I like him, but he ignores me. What should I do?

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - There is this guy I really like but we barely see each other besides our soccer season. He is really sweet but sometimes in the hallway when I see him I won't say anything. This whole week he hasn't talked to me at all because he wanted to see if i would say anything to him. I ... (93 words

How can I convince my mum that I’m not pregnant, and to let me back into my house?

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - okay so my family is really strict christian and since my dad died last year my mum has been really strict and protective of me. so last week my mum started telling me that i looked really pale and that i was putting on weight. I took no notice of it really but i started to eat ... (212 words

Concerned about what my brother wrote on Facebook.

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello i need a bit of help and advice on what my older brother wrote on fb, he hasnt had a gf for ages but think he likes someone that doesnt like him Im getting a bit concerned about him to Below is what he wrote : Sometimes no matter how hard it is, its just easier t... (77 words

Looking at porn in a relationship. Is it cheating? Why is he pushing me away?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with this guy for 5 years now. when we got together i told him my veiws about porn. its cheating. we have been through heaps together. We have a daughter together and everything. When i was pregnet everything changed. He started spending lots of time at the pub, flu... (458 words

How can I find out if she has a new boyfriend?

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16 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Last month my girlfriend and I broke up for reasons that were better for both of us. She said maybe in the near future things could work out so I just had to accept it. I know I can't force her into anything. Now recently, she's been putting a photo of a 6ish year old boy on ... (157 words

Is she flirting or are her questions just inappropriate?

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16 April 2011 (? age 26-29 - I have been friends with a girl from school for a couple of years now but she has suddenly become a lot closer. she often asks me questions that are a little inappropriate for a friend to ask, they're something a girlfriend or boyfriend would ask. Also some of the comments are ... (209 words

Questions about sex for the first time.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. Im already confused! On two occasions we had to use a new condom because it wouldnt stay on - is this normally what happens? Also, as it was my first time i assumed it would be really painful, but it wasnt! Ho... (97 words

Just hitting my sexual peak now, I think. Should I go with younger women because of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

16 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - My body has always been late in everything to deal with the subject of sex. I lost my virginity when I was 17. The first time I ever masturbated was when I was 19. I didn't even hit puberty until I was 16. Whereas men typically hit their peak sexual years between 17-21, I am a ... (121 words

What would you do in the case of paternity fraud?

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16 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - What would you do if you were to find out the child your wife/spouse gave birth to you was not yours? ... (21 words

How to attract my lecturer easily?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Please cupid am 19years old i fell in love with my lecturer of 27 years old. He is not married yet. He lives in my street and i don't know how to attract him. Besides i don't know if he likes me, but we always stare at each other. Please give me good,best and great tips on how ... (62 words

How much to shave.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm new to sex and everything and i wanted to know do i shave it all off keep some? i would ask my boyfriend but its embarrassing and i dont know what to do! ... (34 words

I was honest about my girlfriends weight gain and now in trouble. Advice please.

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - hey guys, i kinda sorta listened to the advice "communication is key" when contemplating whether to tell my girlfriend she has gained weight. i did not call her fat or was insensitive but she didnt take it so well and she got really mad. it wasnt easy to tell her at all,... (164 words

Ladies can you tell me why you hate porn or why you think other women hate it?

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16 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Why do women hate porn so much? I agree that when it becomes an addiction, their is a problem. However why, when a guy watches porn only occasionally, and has sex at least once every 2 days? I mean, it's not an addiction but only to spend time. Everyday i initiate affecti... (293 words

What is a woman's view on a 27 year old guy who wants to date, but never has dated a girl?

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16 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - What is your view on a guy who has never dated? How would you react if you asked the guy how experienced he is and his reply was that everything you've done so far has been with you? Would you bother with a guy like this?... (48 words

We were going to start seeing each other again. I went off for 7 weeks, and now he is ignoring me!

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16 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi All, Your opinions pls!! I have been in regular contact with my ex until recently. He said he wanted us to start seeing each other again (he works funny hours) and said we could see each other during the days when I get some time off. I was like ok. Anyway, I left it for a... (354 words

Infatuated with coworker, but don't want to ruin my marriage. Any help would be appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

16 April 2011 (M age 51-59 - I've been married for 10 years, we have 2 young kids and the marriage is not bad, but not in great shape either. Life is repetitive and somewhat stale. I have an infatuation with a workmate that is under control from an outsider's perspective (e.g I can still work profe... (394 words

We both got sick at breakup time. how can I be just friends with my ex who I love more than anything?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - How do you become friends with someone that you still love more than anything and have been bf/gf in a LDR for 3 years?? I'm struggling...my bf dumped me 3 weeks ago, because he got badly depressed and didn't care about anyone or anything and then suddenly out of nowhere h... (477 words

What do I do next? He treats me like a kid, not his GF. I turn off when he speaks badly to me.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, well i am still with my ex, we broke up but he said he would try for our relationship, if you read my other question.....well things are going better, but he still treats me like a kid. He never ever talks to me like a adult. i had too get a second job selling part... (195 words

Boyfriend says our relationship makes him feel like he is in prison. Please help.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend feels bad lately because of my presence. He says that he can feel me everywhere even when we're apart. I don't see him a lot but he still feels like he's in some kind of prison because of me. I love him a lot and I'm trying to change that feeling but I don't real... (76 words

Should I buy my girlfriend, 17, a vibrator to help her discover more?

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone, my best wishes to all who take the time to help. It is appreciated. My girlfriend and I are both 17 and have been experimenting sexually. The problem is she has never masterbated, and doesn't like the idea of doing it with her fingers. She has let me try, but ... (113 words

I've fallen for a girl and not sure if it's reciprocated?!?

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16 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 3 and a half years, which has not been particularly healthy in the last 6 months, about 3 months ago I started doing a show(theatre) with someone I've been friends with for a long time but kind of lost contact. We hit off getting ... (197 words

I dreamt that my fiancee impregnated another girl! What does it mean?

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16 April 2011 (? age 36-40 - I dreamed that my fiancee impregnated someone else. What does this mean?... (12 words

Is it normal for a 25-year-old man to have wet dreams more than four times a year?

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16 April 2011 (? age 36-40 - My question's very simple. Is it normal for a 25 yr old man to have wet dreams more then four times a yr? ... (23 words

My friend asked to stay with me for a while but I don't want her to even though I like her. What do I do?

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16 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - ive gotten myself in a bind! help! ok,im a 28 yr old single mom who lives by herself. i have a friend,same age as me,whom we've been friends since middle school. she's single with no children. she's recently come upon hard times and had to move out of her apt. she moved in with ... (180 words

Hot for teacher! What to do?

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello right I have a mega mega problem. I am 1000000000000000000000% in love with my teacher and have been for 2 and a half years but I'm 13 he's 40 he's married and has a kid. So there is no way on earth that we will ever be together. And I'm only in year 8 but I'm a bit ... (178 words

Guys- if you're in a good relationship, do you still watch porn?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - So about a month ago I found out my boyfriend was watching porn. Mainly on the days when we don't have sex. We've been living together for about two years and I've always been the sexually frustrated one bc I have a super high libido. I usually have to get him in the mood. But ... (265 words

My ex ignored me and it hurt like hell. Now he's wished me Happy Birthday. Should I respond?

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello,Im hoping to get some advice on the following situation. Thanks in advance. I moved to Europe and met a guy that i really liked and was in a relationship with for 3.5 months. (We are both 28 years old). I got attached very quickly. I was meant to go to a wedding with him... (438 words

Could I possibly be the mystery girl he likes?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - im 18 female and hes 19 male. So over the last 5 months me and this guy grew close very very quickly. we're best friends but i also have really strong feelings for him, and well i dont know if im the 'mystery girl' he likes. ive had a few indications that maybe i could be... (1268 words

I don't want to leave her, but I know if I give her a break, she will choose the wrong path and destroy her life.

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and my gf is 16, we r going out for 3 yearz. we are in a long distance relationship but i often go to her country, i just visited her 1 month ago. I am insecure type a guy, i dont like her talking to other boys and i dont like her to smoke or to drink or to ... (184 words

My married boyfriend always makes excuses...should I tell him I love him?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i've been dating my boyfriend for just about 4 years and about 10 months ago i started talking to one of the guys higher up at my work and it is forbidden to do anything with a superior but it was love at first site kind of thing. but let me tell you he is 15 years older then... (270 words

Erect penis is "shifted" to my left side...does anyone know how to fix it?

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - This is a very embarrassing question to be asking anyone face to face, so I hope people on the internet will provide me with an answer and not mock me. =$ When ever I have an erection, my penis would curve down slightly, but not only that, my whole penis would be shifted... (175 words

I’m in love with a much older man.

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I’m in love with a much older man. I myself am only 17, but he is 60. I know that he’s far to honourable to share my feelings but sometimes it feels like he might. We’ll sit on his couch for hours and listen to music, he tells me about the bands and songs... Sometimes we’ll ... (212 words

It bothers me that my father in-law always brings up racial topics when I meet a new family member...How do I handle this diplomatically?

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16 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am engaged and soon to be married to a wonderful man. His family loves me very much and I love them too. The only thing is my in laws are very over bearing. I almost feel bad about this situation because most people aren't lucky enough to have in laws that lov... (611 words

My sister just walked in on me wanking & I think I'm going to die of embarrassment!!!

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Well no easy way to ask this so i'm just gonna blurt it out. My sister just walked in on me wanking and i think i'm going to die from embrassment. This is so much worse than i could imagine. What do i do? Do i say anything to her? Or do i treat it like when mum's busted me, ... (87 words

Why do men run away scared?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - what are you supposed to do in a situation where a man runs away scared because he likes you too much and is afraid of committing and getting hurt? this man came back after not talking for a month and not seeing each other for two months to me tell me this, didn't end thin... (171 words

This guy I've been talking to didn't want to sleep with me...and I ended up sleeping with his friend. Why do I feel badly?

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been talking this guy and we have been keeping it cool. I spent the night at his place twice but we have only done oral. So I was with him and his best friend we had all been drinking and his friend asked us if we were staying the night since I had to take my dude home ... (336 words

My husband and I are Jewish, how do we go for a traditional Catholic wedding without feeling uncomfortable??

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I are Jewish. A very good friend of ours is getting married - and having a traditional Catholic with a full mass and communion. The problem is that we are not comfortable being in a Catholic church / mass. There is nothing in our faith that prohibits us from ... (104 words

Can you lose sexual attraction for someone?

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16 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - is it possible to loose sexual attraction to someone? I was in a relationship for five years it ended because he was too verbally abusive."ur fat, the "b" and "c" word and all that nasty stuff.Anyways months have passed and he has been dying to come back, but i dont find him ... (301 words

My husband has a sex addiction and I'm considering leaving him...Advice?

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16 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for going on 13 years now and we have three kids ....But he has had a problem with what I think is a sex-addiction. He has had problems calling sex chat lines , signing for up for single sites and so on, but now I have found pictures of my sister ... (123 words

I've fallen in love with an older female escort!

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16 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - i have met a female escort and i started to love her how i can get her heart also she older than me not too much and i Believe that i got no snow ball chance in hell with her what can i do guys to know her feelings about me especially i am not british ... (76 words

I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 days because he dated me discreetly. How do I handle this?

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16 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok so ive been with this guy for 4 days and i broke up with him because he was being discreet about our relationship...he didnt want anyone to know that he went with me..but he has a new gf now and everyone knows that they go together... i dont know what to think.. Should i be m... (66 words

We broke up 3 weeks ago. How long am I supposed to wait?

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16 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - It's been about 3 weeks now since my boyfriend broke up with me. He only did it because of my family, since something bad happened between my brother in law and him. He feels upset and hurt about it. I am just wondering why is it that the girls always get kicked to the curb ... (116 words

I don't know how my BF can give up a girlfriend of 10 months for a girl whom he's been talking to for a week??

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16 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. I live with him and his family as my mum now lives in Canada (we're both moving there in October) and I don't talk to any of my family. Basically he's been talking to this girl for the past week or so, and at first... (508 words

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