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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I did something wrong and now I regret it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a female on my friend's site. I have never been sexually active until recently at the age of 18 I never have done anythign sexual and one night i let my hormones get the best of me and I had sex with a boy that i was talking to for about a minute and I told him to stop. ... (128 words)

Should I write her a goodbye letter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am not sure shall I write a goodbye letter to a very good female friend of mine who I love a lot. I have already expressed all my feelings when I was in front of her and a good friend of mine secretly told her everything about me. We have helped each other out a lot in the... (228 words)

I'm so hung up on her and now she's with someone! How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - The girl I liked told me she has just starting going out with someone else. I am properly hurt and I really don't know where I can go from here. She did lead me on as well, my friends told me not to get hung up on her but I did, and I regret it hugely now. What can I do to get ... (66 words)

Why am I always so moody with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am moody all the time and i take it out on my boyfriend, I dont know what is wrong with me, its just him, I'm fine with everyone else, please help as I have no idea why I am so moody!!!!!... (42 words)

How do you treat Thrush???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have all the symptoms for thrush, but I don't know how to treat it? Do I have to tell someone? Or can I sort it myself with nobody else knowing? I'm really rather embarrassed by it and don't want to tell me mom or go to the doctors.. Is there anything I can do? Or do I have ... (95 words)

What is the most common female fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm very curious. Well I'm just wondering if any women out there can enlighten me a bit on the most common female sexual fantasy? ... (24 words)

I have no confidence when it comes to women. I want a girlfriend. Advice please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm somewhat confident when it comes to men. I can ask anybody for pretty much anything i want. However when it comes to girls then i dunno what happens. I've been clubbing quite a few times and i've noticed that i ALWAYS get at least two girls standing next to me. I usually ... (529 words)

My dad walked in on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My Dad walked in on me naked in the shower the other day, was very embarrassing for both of us. Should I talk to him about it or just ignore it?... (31 words)

I want to tell my parents about me and their friend. There is quite an age difference.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've become attracted to my mum and dad's friend, we've been seeing each other for a few months but don't know how to tell my mum and dad 'cos there's quite an age difference between us, any advice?... (38 words)

He threw me over when I told his wife about us. Should I contact him and tell him how I feel?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been seeing a man for 7 months - he is married. Whenever we were together it was amazing, just being around each other made me feel good and he described his feelings as being the same. Always told me "i love you"- in fact, he was the one who started saying it first after ... (567 words)

What is he doing by staying in contact with his ex this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my bf doing this??? How am I meant to trust him?? Me and my bf have been together for 8 months and spend most of our time together I have always had this feeling that h was still in love with his ex... i found a message sayin he still missed her which was sent a few mo... (447 words)

Did he never love her? Translation please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when someone asks a guy if he got back with his ex girl friend and he replies "I didn't get back with my ex, my ex is haunting me somehow." What does he mean by that? Does it sound like he ever loved her? Thanks..x... (55 words)

I got really trashed. My flat mates think me a disgrace. What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Yesterday was the Annual Welsh Varsity. It's basically Swansea vs Cardiff in a whole range of sports which culminates in a rugby match at the Millenium stadium with Swansea vs Cardiff. Naturally we won and thrashed Cardiff. After we got home 2 of my friends decided they didn't ... (511 words)

She doesn’t 't want to date me, but I want to date her. How can I make it happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I love said she loves me... here is the problem. She loves me but its not what I want, she won't date me and from what I have heard isn't dating nor does she want a relationship right now but she is spending a lot of time with this other guy. I have never felt this ... (323 words)

Just found out my wife cheated when we were going out 15 years ago and I'm having trouble getting past it.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I just found out that my wife cheated on my 15 years ago while we were dating. We had been together in a serious relationship for 3 years when she cheated. The guy she cheated with was one of our mutual "friends" and someone we hung around with often. I did not know at the ... (342 words)

Are men turned off by women who wear braces?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Are men turned off by women who wear braces? I had them fitted last week, I really hate them and feel they make me look unattractive! My long distance boyfriend is due to see me again soon, we're in love but I'm worried he won't be attracted to me anymore.... (54 words)

How do I get it started with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - How do you start to have sex with a girl? I just want to know. I'm a virgin and I have a girlfriend but I don't know what is the best way to start. do you just say do you fancy having sex or what?... (46 words)

I find him irresistible and I think it is mutual. I know I shouldn't get involved. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This time last year I was uncertain about whether my teacher 'loved' me or not and I thought it would blow over as soon as I left school. However my teacher also teaches at the college I go to and I teach sessions along with him once a week. I am most certain that he either f... (255 words)

I should have proposed sooner and now I am afraid I've lost her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - we have been together for nearly 3 years, we have a house and a dog together. For the few weeks I realised she was getting distant from me....I pointed this out and she said she loves me but not 'in love' with me. She says she doesnt know why or what the problem is. she says... (342 words)

What does it mean when a guy seems to prefer jacking off to having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know every guy jacks off but why is it? What does it mean if he barely has sex with his girlfriend and always jacks off? I just don't understand!!!... (30 words)

I'm losing faith in ever having a girlfriend. Can anyone help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i live in the UK. i'm 17 and never had a gf. i'd love one but they don't care cause of my skin condition. i'm also a virgin looking to lose my virginity to another virgin. i've never even kissed a girl before and its come to the stage of being really depressed and everything ... (76 words)

I want him to start liking me. How do I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i like a guy who is in 10th grade (im in 9th) we do track and field even though we are in two different groups he is in the distance group, I am a sprinter. Today i helped him with his block start because he needs to run the 400 in the next meet and we tried like every co... (141 words)

I should be on top of the world, but I'm too scared something will go wrong. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I explain, I will state that I have been diagnosed with depressive anxiety and I do have cognitive behavioral therapy which probably goes a long way to understand my problem. But right now I should be so happy and all I feel is sick and depressed. Last summer I ... (859 words)

Do you think this one night stand can turn into something more meaningful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I met this guy one night through a friend, he was from out of town on a business related trip. We talked and were flirty and we wound up sleeping together that night. I didn't really have any intention of seeing him again but I recently went on a trip to... (215 words)

I don't want to be just a sex buddy with this guy. Is that where this is headed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Around seven months ago I met a man and we got along really well. I was in a relationship back then so we were just friends but I could tell that he liked me. While in my relationship, I met up twice with this guy strictly as 'friends' until I broke up with my boyfriend (who ... (383 words)

I'm only 25 and I feel like I'm having a mid-life crisis. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have a bit of a dilemma. About a week ago i fell out with a family member a really close one and it knocked me that they could be so vindictive towards me i perhaps did not help the situation but did not deserve what i got. so i went to apologise after a couple of days... (331 words)

He's my best friend, but I want more. Should I risk it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, female, and a freshman in college. It's been a great first year and just like high school, I have a small small group of close friends. Actually, only really one who I hang out with and do everything with. And I'm afraid that I've started liking him more than a ... (349 words)

This is making me jealous...am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend always invites his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend over to our place, and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I'm uncomfortable around his friend's girlfriend. He told me a long time ago she made a pass at him and he turned her down; however he ... (100 words)

I'm not sure I want to bother with girls anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, Me and this girl liked each other for a while and we kinda went on a date. but nothing else really happened for a while. Then i met this girl and we hit it off quite a bit, flirted a lot u know. so i told the first girl that i liked the second one. I hurt the first gi... (120 words)

Does this look like love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend means the world to me. i trust him with everything i tell him and he is the only one i can talk to about pretty much anything. we are always telling each other that we love one another, and he is always telling me i look beautiful, rather than sexy or hot, but i ... (100 words)

Ex has come between me and my cousin. Am I wrong to have nothing to do with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, i went out with this boy for nearly a year, we were perfect for each other and we both fell in love with each other, we broke up because he started drinking and i didnt like it, but i still loved him for ages after the break up. i tell myself im not in love with him but ... (189 words)

Will going on a dating site make me feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: What should I do? am really hurting:( ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, but he lied, cheated on me and dumped me. He says he felt out of love with me:( last time I saw him I was really vulnerable and slept with him but I told him it was a mistake a... (162 words)

Is there anymore I can do, or do I just need to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok yesterday I sent my boyfriend this really serious text pouring out my heart to him and letting him know that I will never break or hurt his heart. I sent him a text message saying:You really been on my mind this whole week. Like your the only one I want, and I'm so scared to ... (277 words)

I know he is cheating on me. Why? I am a good woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there... I have been with my boyfriend 6 years. We have had our ups and downs. He has a really strong character. So most of our "downs" have been because of his unwilling way of not trying hard to understand. He has cheated on me several times, but I forgave him. I k... (216 words)

Caught my dad in bed with my friend. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My Mum and Dad are still married but I found my Dad in bed with my friend. My dad is 62 and my friend is 26, they don't know that I saw them. Should I tell them and my Mum?... (42 words)

Now that I'm ready, she has a boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. i met a girl in school and we became very close that people thought we were dating but we weren't. she tried 2 make me more than a friend but i resisted because i was not ready 4 a relationship. Recently, I found out that she has a boyfriend and it made me feel as if a part ... (96 words)

I want to know what is best for a woman. How long should each stage of sex last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - For the women: how long should actual intercourse (not counting oral foreplay, etc.) last? I read that the answer according to a recent survey of sex therapists is 3 to 7 minutes, and very few people have actual intercourse for more than 12 minutes. But, I read posts on... (140 words)

I'm worried about taking our relationship to the next level because I've never had an orgasm.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, okay well me and my fella have been goin out not for about 8/9 week casually, dates, few kisses, he stays over at mine and i stay at his, but no sexual contact whats so ever, we've been taking things slow, which i think is real nice, he seems perfect. But i can see at ... (218 words)

I don't know if I should leave him or not. I love him. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here we go... Me and my boyfriend's only been together 2 and a bit months We were mates before we got together He's pretty much stayed with me and my two kids from we first went out ( silly I know ) At first he was great I was so happy n felt like a princess I felt so... (408 words)

He says he trusts me, but his actions say otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't like my friends because of how they behave when they go out. For example, a friend of mine tells my boyfriend early one night that she is engaged to "john doe." Later that night she tells me, drunk and in the front of my boyfriend and my house that she ... (278 words)

I keep drifting from my LDR. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I would be grateful for any help regarding my issue. I'm involved with a man whom lives long distance from me. Due to the distance, we rely heavily on technology to communicate with each other. However, this has become somewhat restricted because he currently doe... (452 words)

It's complicated. Is my ex still in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. Okay so I went out with this boy when I was 16 for 2 and a half years. We were each others first loves. Anyway things finished on a bad note and we lost contact for a while. However, we got back in contact later on. We became friends and helped one and other throug... (322 words)

I really like this girl. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and there is this girl.... most of you will have figured out the rest she is different i really really like her any advice?... (30 words)

I've fallen for him now that we are both married. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - What if you have seen this guy off and on for 5yrs, he gets married, you get married, and again you start up your affair. Only this time it intensifies, and you fall for him. What do i do?... (39 words)

He says it's just "friendly banter." How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think I'm over-reacting? 2 am today my bf's mobile rang. I thought it was his alarm, which he'd asked me to set the night before, and got up to re-set it for the right time, but it was a text from a girl. I know I shouldn't have, but I read it and it was pretty ... (430 words)

I have feelings for her and think she might have feelings for me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help! I have a major crush on a married mom at my son's daycare. We have known each other for several years. This crush is becoming very consuming. I think about her all the time, to the point where my wife is noticing a change in my behavior. My marriage isn't all that ... (187 words)

My coworker acts like a little boy around me. What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my male coworkers has recently made it his mission to find all these different ways of annoying me. Whether its trying to distract me and make me falter while I'm on the phone to clients, teasing me about how he always gets out on time on the late nights that he w... (195 words)

She doesn't show her feelings in public and never says "I Love You."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im a lesbian and with my girlfriend a few months now who is a few years older then me. things are good she told her mum about us at last and was a bit slow at that to start with but ok now and said in time she will take me there. we have commitment rings and see each other two ... (203 words)

We had a fight, I walked out and now he has blocked my number

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Me and my bf of 3 years had a huge fight 2 days back. He started calling me really nasty names and i got angry and i walked out on him. I tried to call him yesterday and found out that he has blocked my number. I have sent one mail asking why he did that and no r... (127 words)

He is shy, I am shy, I don't know what to do next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a controlfreak and I am afraid of losing the control over myself. I have always been wanting to control myself and my feelings. Especially when it comes to love. I have had many bad experiences with men. I easily fall in love with guys, who do nothing but hurt me. I fall ... (1569 words)

I love my family but I don't want to be their unpaid maid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15years old and the only girl at home. My mother is a nurse and my father a teacher. We don't have a maid at home. When they went to work i get left with my elder brother who is 17years and my little brother who is 11years. I hate being left with them because they do ... (171 words)

He said he would like to be like Charlie Sheen and have a few girls on the side

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me and my bf of 8 months were in bed and he was talking about what he wants. Hes studying at uni and got just over a year to go. The job he is going to get from it he will be earning from 120 000 to 200 000. His job will mean him going away for a couple of weeks at a ... (213 words)

I feel used. Why does he change his mind overnight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy last year when i joined uni he (lets take him as S) was my classmate, i was pretty much in my shell and very reserved and yeah more like a guy rather than a girl…. he slowly turned into my best freind the following year and he was dating this girl lets ca... (1603 words)

I am embarassed at feeling drawn to a man old enough to be my dad!

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi first of, i'm 19 years old, and there is a guy i can't stop thinking about and its driving me mad because if you were to ask why i fancy him, i dont know why! it is pure lust! but he's 42. how do i get him out my head! its so embarrassing! why do i fancy a bloke old enou... (85 words)

Am I sick for wanting my wife to have sex with others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - first of all, i love my wife very much. however, one day she was joking about another man having sex with her. instead of getting angy or opset, was felt my heart pounding. I was excited by the idea. since that time, I thought about this alot and have talked to her about th... (221 words)

When I leave the house boyfriend watches porn. Is he a weirdo?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - everytime i leave the house my b/f of 5 years watches porn and chats, he never admits it, and when i mention it he gets really mad and it's a major fight and he says i'm crazy that it's not true. when i get home and go on the computer he sometimes forgets to shut it off cuz i ... (140 words)

Should I try to go back to my ex or am I nuts to even consider it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - hi all and thanks for reading wife had 2 affairs says it was her backround child abuse .we are split up 12 months now i still have feelings for her.ive tried dating other women but lost job and losing my hair hair are making things hard for me i now see im not very attract... (115 words)

Its been six days since I ignored his text, he hasn't responded since

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 2 months everything was going well we went out every weekend and started seeing each other in the week. Then he was really down last week so i invited him to do something and he didnt answer my text in 24 hrs so i text again and he said he didnt ... (171 words)

My ex and I are just room mates now but I want to sleep with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy were dating for two years we broke up but remained good friends..... Last year he moved away n we were still friends we talked on the phone all the time soo finally he get an apartment n i leave home to roommate with him the problem is that i want to have sex ... (139 words)

Trying to keep our relationship a secret

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now and we believe we are meant for each other. The issue I'm having is with keeping our relationship a secret because we are both girls. I don't want our parents to find out, and I don't think mine can. But hers might because ... (121 words)

How do I know if he was faithful during our break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 yrs, we have been going through a difficult time in our relationship, fighting a lot, lack of intimacy etc. We had a fight and took a 1 wk break of no contact, we live in different cities. How do I know if he was faithful during our brea... (168 words)

How do you steal a heart in 30 days?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Extremely long story, shortened down a bit more.... I've moved on finally after so much trouble with the last women I have been around, but now, I met a Scottish girl from Scotland. She's about 3 1/2 years older than me (22 to be exact). She likes alot of the same thing... (1558 words)

How do I call a woman out on cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. I've determined that I am way too nice of a guy. The bottom line is I felt terrible for this woman I met. Her ex husband treated her like shit and cheated on her. Well I fell for her. With me being the nice guy I am I was there to comfort her and make her feel better. ... (226 words)

How should I answer him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really scared and confused. I don't know how to answer him. Yesterday he asked me to answer him whether I like him or not and he really need an answer. I said I don't know because it was april fool yesterday AND I'm really worried as he told me that he likes one of my ... (257 words)

I don't want to kill the moment because I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need advice on how to do the inverted missionary with my boyfriend. i get shy when he asks me if i wanna switch it up and ride him for a change and i never do cus i dont know how to. i feel if i do ill look dumb and wont satisfy him.dont get me wrong im up for it but i just ... (78 words)

Did I do the wrong thing in this relationship and is that why we broke up? Is it Karma?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my situation. My ex, (and it was a long distance relationship), and I have now been broken up for over 6 months now. We were together for almost a year, and the entire experience has been difficult to say the least. It wasn't a typical breakup and it ended pretty badl... (643 words)

He doesn't want to 'settle down' but does want to have a chat, about what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping in touch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend a lot of time with him because he only comes ho... (252 words)

Why can't I see a true love in my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The question is about my best friend, she was in relationship with a guy for 4 years and were seeing each other since 3 yrs before that.It has been 5 years since I met this friend ,she was totally into this guy at that time and I can say since she met him.She took keen ... (769 words)

My secret lover is 31 years older than me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it off. We have too much fun toge... (127 words)

My girlfriend moved to be with me, but hates it here!

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend moved out here with her five-year-old son from another state over a year ago to be with me. she's from a small town and has never lived outside of it for any period of time in her life until she moved here. long story short, her son adjusted and loves it out here ... (563 words)

We are both very shy. How do we overcome our reserve and start kissing?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and we were best friends for 4 years before dating. We've well broken the touch barrier with hugging and such and I have even made some moves myself by kissing him on the cheek multiple times. The problem is: we haven't actu... (86 words)

My guy loves to give me some love down there. Does that make him a freak?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - In discussing how much he loves going down on me, he said: "That's when I take in how beautiful you are" What did he mean by that? Is this dude a freak?... (38 words)

My boyfriend is not 'good in bed'. How can I effect some improvements?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need help with my bf we have been together for a long time he is an absolutely amazing person but in bed he sucks and he also isn't really open about things the only plus is that he loves to give oral but that's not cutting it anymore. i try to talk to him and he gets... (189 words)

Crazy Girl Alert

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Harassing Communications: Can we get her on anything legally? Crazy girl alert. She dated our friend (guy) and for a few months she was harassing him several times a day by sending LOTS of nasty texts and calling a few nights etc. He blocked her number. She posted his n... (352 words)

I do love my boyfriend. Is it cheating when I stop to talk to other boys?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. i know i love him sooo much but whenever i meet a new guy, or talk to any other guys, i feel like cheating. i never have cheated before and i dont think i ever will but is there some thing wrong with... (99 words)

Will she come back to me when he sees through her new boyfriend who's a player?

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2 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So two nights ago i was at the gym talking to a friend i met at my ex's party and we were going on and on. Then i told him to tell my ex that im sorry for what i have done and that all i wanted was for her to be happy. He told me that he doesn't talk to her anymore and he ... (293 words)

My friend says she is too old to be on the Contraceptive Pill. When does a woman stop needing to take it?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends from work is 26 and she told me today that shes no longer on the pill. I was like wtf why not, cuz she doesnt have a bf but she does have booty calls or one nights stands etc (i dont judge). And she said cuz she went to the doctor and the doctor took her ... (99 words)

In what ways do others realise when a boy is in love with a girl?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - If i have already noticed, do you think others will notice too? Can a boy be in love with a girl without anyone knowing?... (26 words)

How do I engineer things so he will like me instead?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I realy like this guy but no one knows. i want him to know but he likes one of my best friends (his ex) and i dont know if i should tell him. i know that my friend wouldn't care if i liked him because she has dated almost all of my friends ex's (she's a pretty bad friend). ... (98 words)

How do I move on from a relationship that left me feeling so bad?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just ended a two year relationship. It wasn't what I wanted in my heart, but I was being treated very unfairly and I felt I had no choice in the matter. It was really unhealthy and filled with so many problems and heart ache. I've tried to end it a few times, but they always ... (585 words)

Does this sound like he's interested? Should I tell him I am?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, You probably get questions like this all the time, but i honestly don't know what to do anymore. I like this guy - a lot - and have for almost a year. Problem is he has a girlfriend. I never used to like him that much but it's just in the last few months that I've... (214 words)

Does this mean love?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - if you're kissing a boy and you put your hands down his pants and start to masturbate him, and he starts to breathe really hard and heavy and put his head on my shoulder, what does this mean? and can a boy be in love with a girl but not tell anyone? p.s this boy is the pe... (103 words)

Our "friendship" is hurting me, so I'm going to send him this note. Would like advice.

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - After a lot of thought I realized i am not over my ex bf and his friendship offer is just a road of deception. Perhaps he was thinking about a casual friendship but I am hurt all the time because his indifference, regardless he says he loves me and how good friends we are. I ... (261 words)

I can't ask him straight out. Is there another way you can tell if they're interested?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , I have this problem i like this guy and i think he likes me, we have had a thing in the past so i know him quite well! although we have drifted and only come back into contact recently. He's shy when it comes to liking girls and is not very forward about it. I don't want ... (114 words)

It's been three years. Is there something I can say to bring him back?

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2 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We had a fight with my husband and i gave him the weeding ring back so since then he doesn't want to talk to me, its 3 yeas now, i still love him and want to go back to him. My life is empty without him. i want him back. help me what should do to get to him please i need ... (63 words)