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*arrieBryce23
writes:Hi Dear CupidI work with a guy who likes me a lot. We are both in our 20s. I am scared of embarking on anything. I don't want anything serious right now and he's the type of guy where a serious relationship is probable. There's things I want to do before I settle down such as going back to school, and having a little freedom. I can think of plenty of reasons why I should be with him yet I am still hesitant.Let me describe him. You be the judge! :)1. He is very nice, sweet, caring, genuine, romantic, understanding, he has a big heart.2. He is very good looking. Awesome smile. Good hygiene. Dresses well. He definitely stands out in a crowd.3. He is intelligent and educated. Respectful of others. Good manners. Polite and considerate to those around him. Has a lite side to him but is serious when he needs to be. Mature.4. Great sense of humor. Loves to laugh and joke. Always pulls pranks and does little things to get me to smile and laugh. 5. Easy-Going and friendly. Modest. Little shy.6. He listens to me, respects me, supports me, believes in me, cares about me, puts up with me when I am snarky, and appreciates me for who I am.7. Has a pretty diverse set of interests. He's a typical guy in that he loves sports. He knows more about pop culture than anyone I know. But he's got an intellectual/cultured side to him as well...he likes museums,etc...8. He is family-oriented and has a good set of values. 9. He is not the controlling type at all. He's the type of guy that would get along with your friends and family and would want you to spend time with them. 10. He's a total romantic. He remembers little things that I tell him and finds ways to let me know that he listens whether it be a gift or something. 11. Has good friends and comes from a nice family.12. I think he is someone I can trust. I know everyone says this but I believe this truly.I just listed plenty of reasons why I should be with him yet I am still scared and hesitant. Why???
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): He does sound like a great guy. Office romance though... ;)
Being in a serious relationship doesn't mean you have to "settle down" already. It also shouldn't stop you from going back to school. Does "freedom" involve having casual relationships? If so then maybe it's your conscience, not wanting to have to break his heart later.
It sounds like you're jumping ahead of yourself a little. Stay on good terms and if you find you like him more and more, that should take care of itself. :)
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reader, kryssy +, writes (28 April 2011):
 well maybe you're hesitant because you have been let down in the past. it happens to a lot of people. but this guy does seem to be a wonderful guy. i think you should give him a chance. i'm not saying to throw your heart at him, but just take it easy, and slow. good luck 3
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