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writes:What does it mean if I don't feel like kissing a guy? I have a strange situation: I am physically attracted to a guy, and he says he likes me a lot. But,I don't feel like being intimate with him at all. I feel like he's not at my same intellectual level. Should I bother trying to have a relationship with him or forget about it?He's really a nice guy whom most girls would be more than happy to be with. Why don't I feel it for him?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers,aunts and uncles :P With your responses, I've thought things over and decided to leave the poor guy alone. You're right in saying that I shouldn't force it. He is a great guy who wants a serious relationship with me, and it would be so wrong to fake it when I wasn't feeling thrilled about being with him. He deserves to be adored by the right girl.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 I don't know 'bout you, but last time I had sex I was not discussing Eugenics, Metaphysics, and the answer to everything. Though I do believe I became a quasar for a moment.You could always get a helmet and take a course in motorcycle maintenance and hitchhike through the galaxy into the unknown.It's only lips, and lips are all he has to take your heart away. I say make him a science project if anything.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 April 2011):
 do not force it... if it's not meant to be it will not be.
do not force a relationship that's not there.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 April 2011):
If you don't fancy someone, you just don't fancy them. There's nothing wrong with you or anything, but in truth he's just not the one. He might be a nice guy, but you can't force feelings and there has to be more to a relationship than just being nice. You'd be better off letting him go so he can find someone who does fancy him, meaning you can find someone you really fancy.
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