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writes:So, there's a guy in my class who I think is starting to like me. It seems like since the guy I used to like left the school, this other guy is doing a lot of things that seem like flirting. But I can't tell if he's just messing around or if he actually likes me... Before my crush left, this guy had always been kind of flirtatious, but nothing particularly over the top. There are lots of girls he talks to and jokes with, and he always partook when my crush was flirting with me. But as of recently, it seems like things have ramped up a bit... The first example is that he's always really close to me physically, even when it isn't necessary. He stands really, really close and sits next to me in every class we have together, and then sits really close in his chair and leans in closer...Then, he keeps poking me and nudging me under the table to try to make me laugh...and then when I try to stop him, he grabs my hand under the table. On top of that, he's always making fun of me. Some of it's kind of mean, but whenever I seem offended, he always explains he was just kidding and smiles. And he's always joking about how ugly or weird I am... He's not a player or anything, so under normal circumstances, I would think that he liked me. But the thing is he has a girlfriend he's been with for a year now. Granted, she lives literally on the other side of the world and I know he was thinking about leaving her before, but I'm not really sure how to read all these signals. I mean, because I like him, but I don't want to be the reason he leaves his girlfriend, if it were even the case that he liked me...How do you think I should interpret his behavior? And how should I respond if I do like him??
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reader, pinkkisses24  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 I think until he says the the words along the lines of him liking you ...you wont know, the signals are mixed, maybe because his feelings are too when it comes to you. I cannot tell you how he is feeling or what his signals are, but if you have the courage ask him if he likes you. Sometimes guys do not know how to be normal when they like a girl. Time will tell on how much much more easier his signals are to read...if they are still too mixed up then leave him alone
p.s if you and this guy were to get together, how can you guys communicate as a couple if his signals are mixed? just something to think about...
goodluck!
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