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writes:Heya guys and girls, here we go.... I have been living with my boyfriend and things havnt been great, well he just isnt the man of my dreams....he use to be the man of my dreams. We use to be so much together and now he isnt anything i want we use to shRe everything but we hardly talk or share time he treats me like shit we never talk anymore......its easter and i bought him things he bought eveyone else something but me....... It was me his roommate amd other 2 roommates....like i feel like the last person in the house.....we dont do anything together....and it sucks....
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 April 2011):
 I have just about sifted through your other questions, is this the same boyfriend who disrespected you? Became somewhat abusive towards you? You are still with him? Why I ask you do you still tolerate his cruel neglect and emotional torture? I strongly suggest you leave him because clearly he is no good for you. In fact, I recall reading one of your posts where you quote him as saying "you deserve it" when you told him how you felt. You don't deserve it and this is starting to become a very dangerous relationship. The threat of emotional pain has already begun to reach beneath your flesh and the threat of physical abuse looms over you, so leave him. If he has the ignorant and vile guts to say that you deserve that kind of ill-treatment, I have no doubt he will attempt to further tear at your self-esteem until you break and fall.
Leave him and be done with this. Turn to a trusted friend or a family member if you cannot move out, but you need to be away from him for your own sake. Start taking care of yourself and find another man, one who will stay the man of your dreams. Don't doubt.
I hope that helps.
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reader, xoxochrystal +, writes (23 April 2011):
xoxochrystal is verified as being by the original poster of the question Heya guys thing is i dont know how to. When i rryed to talk to him he was narky....so i dnt kno what to do....xx
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (23 April 2011):
Have you expressed how you feel to him? What could have possibly changed? If there was nothing in particular perhaps he simply grew away from being that man you love. If you have talked to him or if you are going to, and he does nothing, perhaps it is time to break up, he just wasn't the man for you.
I hope that helps.
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